What do you do when your partner in a relationsip becomes unbearable

relationship grow with sacrifice. probably your mate just need a little respect. maybe she is not getting something from someone or somewhere so she unloads her frustrations on you. well thats what relations are all about. to get some that cares about you. well try to help her out and think from her shoe.

do something you dont like and everything else will turn out to thing that you like

Have you ever tried to talk to her? If not, you need to. Try to tell her how you feel. maybe she has a problem or there is something that is bothering her. Dont give up easily. If you love someone you don't give up easily right? Try to talk to her. But if you really can't handle it and it affects as well how you live your life, maybe it's time to move or give her space to figure it out. Sometimes, giving space gives the person a breathing space and make them realize the mistakes they've done. But again, talk to her. Tell her how you miss the old her.... I hope this helps.

Hhhmm well if it was decided that there werent any mental disorders or personality disorders then I would have a chat with her/him and if things didnt change I woudl be out the door...or rather she/he would be...I cant live like that and be happy and I cant love like tha and be happy...As much as I may love the person, if they arent working with me to figure thigns out and fix things and it just gets worse its tiem to call it quits....Thats not a relationship IMO..

Humm - you describe one person to be very patient. What is she getting mad at? The smallest of things can matter to some and not to others. Lets take a peak into my dysfunctional family again.

Ice - it is a very little thing that cause giant problems. We have a refrigerator with an ice maker that my husband has never bothered to hook up. (Thank goodness, the house may burn down) He drinks a large amount of ice tea and can not seem to fill up an ice tray to save his life. He stomps off in a snit because there is no ice. I fill up the tray when I use ice, but out of pure stubbornness I do not do it for him. Which of us is the problem? Well, we both are of course. When both of us take responsibility or when I call and pay the plumber the problem will be fixed.

The situation is never one sided. Step back and share the whole story.