Loving someone you can't have

Hi ejrasco.
Well, if you fell in love with someone that doesn't love or know you I can say that its not a true love.
Its just our feelings that makes us feel that love.
But if that person is someone that you love and loving you.
Well, in that case I will let it go if that makes her happy.

Hello there..

For me, loving is not letting go, but holding on. Before you love other person, love your self first. How could you teach about love if you don't even know on how to love your self?

My point is that, as long as you love him, don't let him go if and only if you feel that he is happy with your love. Even if you feel that you can't have him but he still needs you,continue loving him. Give happiness to yourself so you can give happiness to other people also. Letting go is not always positive if it will make you being desperate and frustrated. It won't give you a happy and satisfied life. Being happy is everyone's goal in this world that why we are surviving.

my friend has the same situation with you too ejrasco! And i always support her about it as long as she is happy. I also started a discussion about this and was wondering what other people would say about it!How long have you been together? Did you know that he is already married before committing yourself to him? I agree when you said, you will let him go when he doesn't need you anymore. For the reason that he have you for me means that he is feeling the way for you too and maybe he is having a rocky relationship with her wife. Don't get me wrong friend, but are you not seeing yourself as a home wrecker for this?

It's okay to fall inlove. however, If you would ruin another relationship becaquse of that it would be better to just let go. In love, you dont need to have that person love you too. Love is not always reciprocal. Unconditional love is loving without waiting or asking for anything in return

If you love her then show your affection by always being there for her when she needs someone. become someone who she can lean on, even if not as a partner in life but as a friend.

I hope that helps. God bless you.:)

They are many women who fell in love with a committed person, but for me, there are many fishes in the ocean. Dear, open your door and even your windows and you'll see and find the right person for you, just be patient and persevere in prayers, your someone will come very soon.

If you love someone who don't love you,and you have told him/her your feelings,and he/she have refused you,how can you do to deal with relation between you and him/her?

Letting go of someone is not that easy. It takes time. It does not happen overnight. It's hurting at first and it can not be taken out right away. But one thing that will surely help is to accept the reality that this person is not for us. I can relate to this because it happened to me once.

I don't mean to judge you and what you've gone through, but I have gone through that same experience before, and it's something I wished I never did attempt on or did. Regardless how many times you say 'if he doesn't love me anymore then I'd let him go' that's not really easy and many go to martyrdom mode their whole lives because of such.

As I have told myself that sort of thing a few years back, I knew in my mind and in my hear that what I'm doing is not really something to be proud of. I'm breaking up a good family and I'm attracting him more to me than to his wife, not because I love him, but because I am selfish.

I had let it go because I realized that if I live my life with the scraps of love that he could give me, I am not in that relationship because of love really, but because of insecurity. I am there because I am afraid to take risks with other men and other relationships, I am blinded by the false love he is giving me.

I tell you everything is not worth it, until you truly wake up.

Life doesn't have to be like that. You could actually find someone who could give his love to you 100% only if you allow him to. Let go of married men, they are only worth as much as their family is worth. Don't go breaking up a family, you wouldn't like the feeling when you're actually the wife of someone who's got another.

Hi welcome to mylot and I hope you will have a wonderful time in here. I have never fall in love whom I can't have meaning I have not fallen in love who is already engaged or is married. That is something we should avoid for everyone's sake. I don't see someone who is already married as a life partner or someone with whom I might fall in love with.

Hi ejrasco. Firstly I totally agree with you, If we love someone, we want him/her to be happy no matter we will be with him/her, we should let him/her be free. Secondly, it is hard to find the true love, so if we find it, i think we should try our best to get it. Good luck to you.