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If you are me,Do you have some self-abasement? email this discussion to a friend?

hwj308 (38)   ranked 4,805 out of 19,392 in questions & answers2 months ago

I am in Chinese small town,which is a poor city!
You know China has created thousands of Millionaire,but it also has widened the divide between the haves and have-nots,all my family are all farmers,they just can
earn their own living,although I study in college,but I still can imagine the hometown far away from my college,my parents have been more that 60 years old,but they are still working on the construction site or sell some agricultural products standing
on the street,many of my relatives have been richer,for example,my uncle and aunt,both of them are doctors working on the hospital government owned,their salary is always stable and high!
Government has taken some measures to narrow the gap between the rich and the poor,
but it can't be very effective,my family is still poor although my family are always working hard!!
When meeting with my relatives,I always have some self-abasement!

What about you? Share yours!

 
 
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1. kiuhkj (81)   ranked 13,243 out of 19,392 in questions & answers   2 months ago

Why low self-esteem? The so-called self-confidence and self-seteem air their own to their own.You and your family become self-reliant,it does not rely on someone to live charity.I think that is enough. The world has always been unfair to. Some people are born to have a lot of people work hard their lives are not things,this is the life.
The world's six billion people have a wide range of the fate of six billion,as long as we have done the right thing,there's nrrf't for a complex.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. buping (551)   ranked 6,823 out of 19,392 in questions & answers   2 months ago

hi hwj, i am also a chinese, although my parents do not poor, we live in countryside, but i never feel abasement, there are so many peasants in china, and i think there are so many your classmates from countryside and do not rich. so we are just one of the normal people, why do you feel abasement? plus, your english is so good, you have no reason to be self-abasement.

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. ybong007 (1045)   ranked 1,717 out of 19,392 in questions & answers   1 month ago

It's normal to feel that way but it's not good for you. Your rich relatives should give you more reason to study harder and reach what they have achieved if not even more. make them your motivation rather than basis to feel insecure. Some day when you are already successful, you will have something to share to a relative who exactly feels the same way as you do now. You may be poor now, but the thought that you are living decent lives and not asking anything from anyone if enough reason to be proud of. You're still young and there are still a lot you can do to change your destiny. Cheers!

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