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myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family2 months ago

i have a little boy he has 3 years old and he is our soul and light, we live him very much, i wish to have the second child but i am afraid of birth, first have been very painful and now i dont know what to say, what about you do you have or wish childrens?


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tags:  family, having baby, joy of baby, bonding, also have one kid
 
1. myLot reputation of 97/100. froggieslover (1269)   ranked 378 out of 1,304 in family   2 months ago

We have two children. Our son is aged ten and our daughter is aged eight. My son was born naturally but my daughter had to be born c-section. Although my son was a very painful birth, I personally feel like doing it naturally is the best way to go. We lived in a different state when I was pregnant with mt daughter and right before I was ready to give birth we moved back to our hometown and during the travels it is said that she turned around and was facing bottoms up and we were told that if we went with a naturally birth that there was a chance that the cord may get wrapped around her neck and obviously we didn't want that to happen so we opted to go with the c-section. I have since had numerous problems and have had to get a hysterectomy so I am very thankful for the kids I have.


myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family  3 weeks ago

well yes we all must thanks God for our children they is the reason we are here and the reason what we live for

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. hellcowboy (4850)   ranked 1,224 out of 1,304 in family   2 months ago

I think that children are a gift from God and I do not know how so many people can neglect and abuse their children,and me and my wife do not have children yet,but we are planning on having children in a few years when we are financially ready,and we want to have at least one boy to carry on my families last name since my Dads side of the family is so small,and is about gone,and no more than four children,hopefully two boys and two girls because it would be nice to have both,and me and my wife have already picked out names for our children.


myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family  3 weeks ago

good for you, that you planning to have 4 children, but my advice is not wait even you don't have too much mony....make at least one and when you will be financially ready then make 4 or more but don't wait

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3. bettyivonboop (7)   2 months ago

yes i have a little girl. she's 19 months ans we love her so much. she bring so much happiness in to my life. but i am also scared on having another baby. it was so painful that i dont ever want to have another one. i didnt have any pain medicine. it was all natural but OH MY GOD!!!!!! it hurted so much but i was worth it. I think that if i ever have another baby i will wait until we are both financial steady. I just really want to be ready and give the baby everything he or she wants


myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family  1 month ago

i am in the same situation, i don't want another baby ...and about mony on this time everithing is hard...thks for your comment

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4. sylviamak (42)   2 months ago

Your boy looks lovely. The first time painful experience may affect you in planning for another one. Don't worry about it. Firstly, children are God's gift. We accept it gracefully. Secondly, we can communicate with our unborn baby to make our pregnancy journey and labouring process more smoothly. Thirdly, we need to look at positive side of having children, e.g joy of motherhood, bonding with your child. The greatest of motherhood will overcome all the pain and suffering in the world. Lastly, we pray for the arrival of child with the protection and blessing from God.

May God bless you and your family.

Sylvia

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myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family  4 weeks ago

yes he is very beautiful isn't it? he is my life and the joy inside me.....thanks very much, good bless you and your family too

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2360)   ranked 177 out of 1,304 in family   2 months ago

I also want to have children in the future but not now I'm not yet ready. I feel envy also to those who have children because I love playing with kids. Having a children have a lots of responsibilities and patience because it is very difficult to be a parent.


myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family  1 month ago

you must hurry, they bring you joy and happines even is hard to have a child or more, when you will have them you will be sorry you have wait so long...when you have a child you are feel that you are complete

 
6. myLot reputation of 95/100. weasel81 (1236)   ranked 867 out of 1,304 in family   1 month ago

i have a son whose 7 1/2 yrs, the best advice my ex-sister in-law gave me was giving birth is the worst pain you'll experience but you forget it straight away. i'm still in no hurry to have more kids, and don't want anymore with my current partner.
i do want either 1/2 more kids.


myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family  4 weeks ago

well the pain was so big that made me to never want child again, but in the future....but is been 3 years since then....but....life bring surprise

 
7. myLot reputation of 95/100. ybong007 (1053)   1 month ago

I have 3 children and there's just about a year's gap between them. These kids really grow up so fast that you have to cherish every moment spent with them. They can get annoying sometimes, i guess it goes away with age but all your anger and frustrations just go away every time you see them sleeping. They just look like angels and it's really true that no matter how tired you are all of that will go away when you see your children. Cheers!


myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family  3 weeks ago

first i want to say tks for your answer, and God bless you and your 3 childrens and be healthy to see them grow and have children too

 
8. myLot reputation of 94/100. Ritchelle (1874)   1 month ago

we're in the same situation: one boy turning four years old. we chose to have only one since i want to be sure that we, as parents, are sure that we'd be there both physically and morally for him. besides, with the crowded world we live in and the current state of our economic situation and the situation we want to find ourselves (my husband and i) in in the future we decided on only one.

when my child wasn't going to school yet i pity him everytime i see him amusing himself alone playing imaginary games. i just consoled myself that the moment he goes to schoo things would change. it did thumbup.


myLot reputation of 74/100. ANGEEELICA (364)   ranked 72 out of 1,304 in family  4 weeks ago

4 years old so nice and big mine has 3 years old, they are so cute at this age aren't they? especially when they are play alone ant talk with toys and lough,they are our future....

 
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