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Advices on How to End Stressful Relationships? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 1,445 out of 23,397 in relationships3 months ago

I guess most people want to build a strong networking relationship. But sometimes, we have to face various problems with our friends. When it comes to relationship and stress, I believe that I am not the only one in a relationship like this where sometimes we get stressed out at other people.

You see, stress in our relationships is something that we can no longer avoid. At one time we could keep it under control, but now that it is so difficult to make ends meet and to just plain survive, the stress can become unbearable.

What is your attitude when it comes to relationship and stress? Do you have some tips on how to end the stressful relationships? All responses would be appreciated. Thanks for you reply!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 42/100. Laurie1986 (285)   ranked 5,685 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

That's a really tough question. If the person is family, it should really be at the point where the person is causing you serious mental and emotional harm before you cut ties, because I think it should really be a last resort to burn bridges with family. If the person is a friend or acquaintance, sometimes you can get away with just limiting your contact: stop picking up the phone, let e-mails go unanswered, say you're busy, be aloof. This doesn't always work, but with everyone's busy lives you'd be surprised how often it does work, because once it becomes a chore to keep in contact with you, many people will just stop.

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. Hatley (21910)   ranked 232 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

hi getbrowser well as a diabetic I must try not to get stressed by other people. Ihave a roommate who has a motor mouth and it gets started the moment I get on mylot. so I have imagined a bubble around me that keeps out stress, her voice will just bounce off of it. I cannot change roommates so I must live with
her and she with me,so if we can decide not to let each other's habits annoy us,no stress.simple. Ending a stressful relationship with others is easy. end the relationship as if its stressing you that much perhaps it is time for each to go their separate ways.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. solared (878)   ranked 612 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

Yeah be honest and tell they are bothering you, and only making things worse, and if they can't change their ways then it's gonna be over, because relationships aren't meant to be stressful, this goes with friendship too.

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4. myLot reputation of 83/100. solson (343)   ranked 7,785 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

Stress in relationships is bond to happen. As you hear many times in life that life everything that goes up must come back down. Relationships constantly go from bad to good. You as a person need to learn how to just bite your tough and even though you may be right just let it go. In many relationships i have seen people just hold grudges and we all need to just learn to let things go. Hope everything goes well for you!

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5. myLot reputation of 41/100. francislazo_25 (155)   ranked 16,459 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

It requires a lot of hardwork and patience to pass this test occuring in your relationship. Good for you because you're seeking for help and it means your working for it coz some just sit there waiting for the problem to be solved, well it doesn't go that way. First, start with what is stressing your relationship. Have you asked yourself what's really causing the stress? It's great if you know what it is so that you can easily point out the problem. The solution for the problem part is the one that is somewhat difficult, especially when things don't go your way and your plans are bothered by others. Always keep in your mind that you can turn things around, turn them your way and make plans with your loved one together. Strategy is very important in this case, and I want to tell you this: stop giving attention to others that you think will destroy your relationship, they are plain waste of time and it won't give you any help. Come to think of this, all of them are giving negative opinions about your relationship, will you get any help from them? It would be wiser to ignore those fools who needs to get a life.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. celticeagle (4928)   ranked 912 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

Sometimes relationships can become like addictions. I believe we can avoid stress in relationships. We need to set up boundaries that we know are good for us. If a relationship gets out of control or is a co-dependent sort of thing then we most definitely need to back away. It is hard and hurts but it really has to be done. Sometimes getting some counseling for support is the way to go.

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7. myLot reputation of 89/100. zandi458 (6027)   ranked 818 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

Prolonged stress only invite more unwanted illnesses. Stress related illnesses are becoming the modern day sickness that eventually ends to premature death. Why create unnecessary stress when we can adopt a stress free life by doing things we love most. Don't listen to gossips, don't crowd the mind by thinking unnecessary thoughts and involve in spiritual thoughts. We should be in God's radar screen to feel his blessings and not dwell on earthly problems which have no commas and fullstop but a baggage full of stress. lol

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8. myLot reputation of 87/100. bluray (324)   ranked 8,850 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

If we talk about personal relationships than it is quite difficult to deal with.we have to carefully make a distance with the concerned person.It will be better to avoid talking to him and maintain only monosyllable talk.it will help in avoiding lots of conflicts.
Ig the person concerned is our long distant friend or relative,it will be much easier.stop all contacts.delay replying back and talk limited.

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. artistry (685)   ranked 4,825 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

...Hi there netbrowser, hope you are doing okay. Sometimes you have to be a little selfish. If you are in a relationship, someone unrelated to you, you must decide what is more important. Your life being lived without confusion and stress or being with this person who you may care about. It has to be weighed, and if is too much to endure, you should bid that person adieu. Stress will kill you, make your hair gray and age you before it's time. Life is short, it is really not worth the aggravation. There must also be an underlying reason why there is so much stress in the relationship, if that cannot be resolved then move it. Explain why to the person and end it. I wrote an article once called "Letting Go: Stop Chasing Ghosts", it was about people waiting, hoping that a person will be the kind of person one would hope they would be, but they never change, one would be chasing a ghost. They should stop wasting their time and energy trying to make things work out the way they think they should. Just move on, just do it, as they say, this is your life. Take care.


myLot reputation of 90/100. artistry (685)   ranked 4,825 out of 23,397 in relationships  3 months ago

.....Forgive my fingers for renaming you, getbrowser.

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10. myLot reputation of 89/100. lindiebiz (803)   ranked 2,036 out of 23,397 in relationships   3 months ago

The best is to come clean. If a relationship is stresful and you are tired of it, it is best come out clean and tell the person. It saves all parties a lot of stress and heartbreak. However, if you are willing to go along with the relationship in spite of the stress, go ahead


myLot reputation of 96/100. bing28 (1925)   ranked 3,742 out of 23,397 in relationships  2 months ago

See first the reasons or what causes stress. If you can try to gradually get rid of it's causes. Then, little by little you can cope up and later stress could be totally avoided.

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