how open in your coutry???do u care your first time?

maybe this is a stupid question,whatever... i just wanna learn the truth
im from china, my country is quite traditional,people r very very conservative before, few guys were willing to marry a girl who is not a virgin, but now we have been more western,especially in big cities, of course we still care about that somewhat.
i have a lot foreign friends, they r very different from each other, some r very open, but some r conservative, some of them told me its very difficult to find a virgin in Japan unless under 18 years old,we r all shocked, and a British guy told me in germany man and woman mingle with each other when they take shower, is that true?in china, if a girl do that thing with a guy she want to marry him, our girls care about the first time very much.
and talk about the situation in your country