do your friends tell you what to do with your life?

they probably aren't trying to make you feel bad they're probably worried about you,if they can see you are unhappy,they are just trying to make you happy again,if what they say about your husband is true,why do you feel bad,it's not your fault he is no good,,just remember that your friends say these things coz they care and don't want to see you miserable

I have learnt to think about my life as well as my marriage,rather than listen to anyone else as they do not know or ever will know all about my marriage as well as whats going on in my life.I tend to keep myself as well as my personal stuff to myself now and never say too much to antone as that way no one can judge me or my life.I tend not to tell any friends too much anymore as i have found that i can not trust anyone.

There are different types of friends,there are average friends who will milk you for what you are worth,and tell you what to do to get what they want,and then their are good friends who mostly want to help you,but sometimes try to get what they want,and then there are best friends/true friends who will tell you what you need to hear no matter if it is what you want to hear or not,and they only tell you what to do when you are not being responsible or when they feel you are doing something that could hurt you or someone else.

Your friends must be worried about you to tell you these things. You must have said something to them about your husband to make them even respond like that. The only thing you can do is not share your family problems with this friend but then you will have it all bottled up inside which is not good either.

I dont think any of my friends have ever tried to tell me what to do in any relationship I have
ever been in.
If they did, I would be respectful in asking them to stay the hell out of my business, and if they didnt they simply wouldnt be on my friends list any more
I cant stand well meaning busy bodies like that