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myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people4 weeks ago

If you're married, how old are you when you got married.
If you're single, what age do you plan on getting married.

Would you like to be single or married.


If you're single and old, does the thought of being single forever scare you?
Do you think everyone need to marry?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. sender621 (751)   ranked 2,030 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

I met my late husband when i was 24. We were married about one year later when i was 25. We were married for almost three years before we had our first child. We had two children together before i lost my husband to pancreatic cancer. That was three years ago. I will always cherish my memories of him and i never regret one day of being married to him.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

He's gone too soon. That is sad. I bet you are still very young today.

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. allknowing (269)   ranked 15,063 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

I was 23 when I got married and I think marriage completes ones life, although nowadays people can live single if they want to as most are secure and financially independent. That is one way of contributing towards controlling population.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

lol, I had to laugh about that last one you said. My reason for being single won't be for contributing to population control.


myLot reputation of 93/100. allknowing (269)   ranked 15,063 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

Now dont tell me you are planning to have babies even though single? Very bad, very bad (lol)!!!!


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  3 weeks ago

No, no not that of course.
I just didn't think that one way to control population is not to marry or to remain single, that would be so cruel.


Chiniona (84)   ranked 17,733 out of 35,093 in people  3 weeks ago

Hi!The last reason is so funny, it's reported that the population of India has exceeded China! I think that reason may be true for you Indian, especially for woman! By the way, I'm a Chinese boy!

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3. myLot reputation of 83/100. luvmysons (328)   ranked 4,582 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

I met my husband when I was 20 years old. We got engaged when I was 25 years old and then we go married a month before I turned 27 years old. He is 6 years older than me.. I dont think that marriage is for everyone but for me its the best thing I ever did..


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

happily married, I envy you.
And that is already old age I think.

I said that the oldest age I would marry is 27.
But now I am 29, and still single.


szlhff (10)  3 weeks ago

I said i will be married at 28th when i am young,but now i am still single,unlucky

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. crushy79 (222)   ranked 22,353 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

i was 24 and my hubby was 28.
we thought that was the right age to start a family.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

Yeah I think so too, that is a good age.

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5. suisuideying (88)   ranked 8,890 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

i am single,and i am 22.i think that marriage is not good for me,i will lose a lot of freedom.i will take care of my family,and soon a child is coming.child may bring me happy and problem.then loss of marriage sweet.trivialties of life lead to a lots of bickering.single does not have these troubles.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

happy to be single that's how you are. But let's say you are 30, and you're single do you think you would like it than being married at that age.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. Zhizho (527)   ranked 352 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

Hi.I am a woman and I was married for about five years.I was 25 years old when I got married and I think it's right time.I had prepared my self for married and I believe that married more better than being single.Is it two better than one?LOL.You have friend to share your life.sadness,happyness,it will be light.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

Correct. Two is better than one. Marriage is good if it will stay sailing smoothly or f you can weather storm together. We don't want marriage because of hardship or bitterness of it.

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7. myLot reputation of 82/100. thebest1988 (427)   ranked 21,330 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

I haven't married, I am 21 years old, and I designed got married when I am 28 years old, I do not want to get married early, because I have no much money to support the family,and I want to find a girl that I really love.I can not be too hasty to get married, it is a very important thing in my life.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

21 is very young for a guy to get married in my opinion. You will miss many things being single and may not be really ready for marrying.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. cher913 (13338)   ranked 652 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

i had just turned 26 when i got married and back then people tended to get married young. i guess i was viewed as old but now, it doesnt matter what age you are when you marry.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

really,it doesn't matter? People start to push me to find someone. The ideal age for me is 24, but I felt very young by then and not ready for it, even now that I am 29.

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9. mommyjewel (38)   ranked 24,617 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

I married my husband when I was 20 years old. We met when I was 14 years old. We had an off and on relationship but then got back together when I was 19 years old and then shortly after that we were engaged and 9 months later we were married. We had our first child when I was 23 years old. We are now going to have 3 children soon. Our relationship has been rocky through the years with all the changes and things that we have gone through but I do not regret getting married.

I don't think that everyone needs to get married. Some people enjoy the single life others just enough being a couple with out the ceremony of marriage. I say that if you are happy in your life then don't rush into marriage but if marriage is what makes you and your partner content then go for it.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

Thanks for sharing. I guess you two grew up together. You remind me of some friends that were steady since highschool days and married each other. I can only see them as happy family now, but I realize they must have gone through those rocky times with each other. That is sweet really, if you see them together till now like they are contented and have that family.

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (10334)   ranked 38 out of 35,093 in people   4 weeks ago

I met my ex-husband when I was 21 years old when I was traveling in Australia. We got married in England a year later. We had a son and he is now a teenager. My marriage lasted for six years and then we got divorced. I am not planning on getting married again because I couldn't stand to have yet another failed marriage. I am an independent person. I love traveling and my children are important to me. The thought of being single or in a dating only relationship doesn't scare me at all.


myLot reputation of 94/100. JDy116 (1432)   ranked 775 out of 35,093 in people  4 weeks ago

you're enjoying life that what's really matter. But you have tried it both, I mean both getting married and being single and independent.

Single people who never married once in their lives sometimes wonder did they make the wrong choice of not marrying while they were young. Sure they made their choice of not getting married in the first place because they just can't find somebody and chose not to be with just anybody. But really some of them end up lonely and most of the time, that's what scare me.

I can be independent today, but I am not sure if I can be when I am old and weak, and mind changes, people need companion.

But again, yours is different. You must be enjoying life with the options you have, thanks for sharing.

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