DO you have to look for love or will love find you?

I think love finds you.It has seemes in my past experience when I am looking for a steady relationship to fall in love it never comes.As soon as I had given up,I met a man that I have had a 6 year relationship with.So I think as with most things it comes when you least expect it!

No, I dont think you should actively look for love or a partner. I think many people make the mistake of thinking they have found 'the one' but the REAL love of their life is still out there. Its like most good things...nice to find but even better if it turns up when you least expect it.

i think love findes you, i have look her for years and i find my soul mate near my house, after we have meet we found out that we were at same school and same restaurants....but we finally meet, live find us bouth

This is a real good question. I'd say that you can look for love, but you must be open to love when he/she appears. I would say the best thing you can do is to love yourself first, (do everything you can to improve yourself in everyway possible) have a passion, a purpose, and work to fulfill that purpose and you will most likely find love along the way.

Well,interesting question.From my experience I look for love.Maybe love come to our live but we don't recognised it.Maybe both.Sometimes we don't get what we search for.

Using my self as an example this question cannot be answered with one or the other. You first must be open to finding love and then actively look for it.

Of course if your in no hurry and you feel like if you never have love for the rest of your life then you can simply wait for it to happen. But you may wait a very long time.

I am now in my third marriage. I am not a man that likes or needs to live alone. My first marriage was for 37 years and we divorced because she had an affair. My second wife I found because I looked for her on the Internet. Never would have found her otherwise. Problem with that is she had poor health and passed away after only 4 years.

When I recovered from that I was well past retirement age. Not likely any women would come knocking on my door and I am not much for bars and the usual meeting places. Church and senior centers just did not get it. So I went back to the Internet and a dating site.

I thought I was only then looking for a companion and not anything serious. Wrong. I found her within the first month and we married 4 months later.
In each case had I waited for love it never would have come. I had to actively look for it and then it come.

As for your final statement.....YES it is much better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all. It can be very painful but then, in the final analysis, it only gets better and better.

Well I think Love finds us but sometimes we have to look fo it. If all of the men

and women in the world will just wait for someone that will love him/her then love

will not find us. Someone should look for love so that he/she will find someone

who is waiting for love. Got it? As they say Love moves in

mysterious way..

well, i'm a boy of 19 and i have not met any girl who crossed my feelings in my heart..it means that i have not found my love...i did not court for any girls, i do wait because, i'd let the love come and find me....it's because if i court for any girl to fell in love, the society and neighbourhood will talk about me in the second manner..so i think that i will wait for the time patiently to let love come and knock my door..
happy mylotting.

I think love just comes even if we don't look for it. My husband was an officemate, we never think will end up with each other as we were very good friends but we both found love in our friendship.

i would waitting for my love,because i belive in destiny.everything was arranged early,my lover too,just be patient,need a little time!