would you forgive the one ever betrayed you?

Oh I don't know. If it is about betraying because of love, that will be difficult I guess. But you know sometimes, love holds no boundaries. Even if the person hurts us most, if we really love the person, it is easy for us to forgive that person. Love is all about conquering pride, hatred and jealousy. True love easily forgives and forgets. Don't call your friend silly, she may only love the boy too much that she is ready to take the chance again.

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well forgiving is a hard to thing to do, i hope he's seroius about making things right with her. but sometime guys will just say all the right things to get the girl back

It is really a difficult thing for me to forgive the one who has betrayed me.

For most people, I guess they won't forget the impression on their friend the moment they find that one of their friends have betrayed them. In my opinion, if I have been ready to forgive someone, it really need efforts and courage to make a final choice. Even if I have forgived the the one ever betrayed one, I won't forgotten the bad thing that happend to me.

Of course, if I have forgived one, I will treat him/her as my real friend with my honesty and truth, which is the meaning of friendship.

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for me I don't know because it never happend to me, but on my opinion forgiveness is very important because it will give you a peaceful mind.

Everyone can make mistakes. I believe if you really love someone, there should be room for that. But it should never happen again, because then it's a pattern, not a mistake!

Forgiveness is a huge thing to give, but it helps to give it rather than hating. You will feel so much better after you allow yourself to forgive. That doesn't have to mean that in this situation she would take him back.

Its her choice, let her suffer the consequences. Be sure that you as her friend would be there for her in times of another painful experience. All you can do is to see to give her advices when she needs it. Another broke-up would mean another pain. But you knew that its part of life. As a man, giving another chance would mean something. If the man still do it the second time, then its time to say goodbye.

Forgiving is a hard thing, and it may need to be racked up with a lot of trust. But life's too short to be serious. A hundred years is nothing compared to an eternity. When things happen, you forgive, forget, and move on.=)

i was betrayed by a so called friend many years ago, she destroyed my marriage and caused my family to break up, so my kids suffered too, i wasn't just blaming her, because it takes 2 to tango, so 2 people betrayed me, not only did they betray me, they betrayed my kids too....wold i forgive them...NO....not ever...people can hurt me as much as they like, but hurt my kids, they will never be forgiven, not ever....