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myLot reputation of 74/100. sunithajp (136)   ranked 4,697 out of 35,175 in people4 weeks ago

Hi friends,

I am in slight depression, I need your consoling words. I don't know how fair it's to ask someone help to get into the mood. but I am really very disturbed. I don't have anyone in home to share. All are busy with their work. I really need someones support. I hope I ll get, at least few moral support here. and also
suggest me how to come out of depression and loneliness.
I don't know whether giving email id is allowed here or not but "nannolagenaa" this is my gmail id and i am happy if I get few words.

sunitha

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. Misterwit (1034)   ranked 4,789 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

But why are you so down.... blink
There is nothing wrong in giving the email....but what if a guy keeps on sending email after email can you answer all the emails you receive... blink


myLot reputation of 74/100. sunithajp (136)   ranked 4,697 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

You can guess how dull I am, I thought I really need someone's help for me. At least saying don't worry because I am getting difficult to concentrate on my studies and other works.


myLot reputation of 81/100. syndrix (320)   ranked 22,164 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

depressed? i think you should eat a lot so that you'll not get sick that is the most important. By the why are you so down and depressed? have you found something about your partner/boyfriend/fiance/husband shall i call it that way. I think is it fine if you found out your partner have flirted with other girls and that is normal, what is embarrassing is that if you found out that your partner flirted to other guys. So must be thankful your partner is really a men. He'll be back soon anyway its just for a short time share it please don't be greedy.

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2. myLot reputation of 68/100. faikeijames (186)   ranked 7,551 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

Hi Sunithajp,
I don't know what's going on with you, but I hope that everything works out. Try to do something to take your mind off what you're getting depressed about. Do you mind sharing what's wrong...maybe that'll help everyone help you better.


myLot reputation of 74/100. sunithajp (136)   ranked 4,697 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

even I am confused, this is the first time I am feeling so guilty about my behavior, unfortunately I don't have someone to listen them. What to do? just hoping for nice days that's it. loneliness makes the problem more difficult that's why i have posted my problem to get some support which I have missing here.


myLot reputation of 93/100. free_man (504)   ranked 8,395 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

Believe it or not Sun your never alone there are all kinds of angles watching over you. It says in the bible that God will never leave you nor forsake you!Cheer up and Have a great day!


myLot reputation of 68/100. faikeijames (186)   ranked 7,551 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

I agree Freeman! God is always there to listen, He's the BEST option when you feel down and out, but I didn't want to say because I didn't know Sun's religion. But I totally agree!

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. free_man (504)   ranked 8,395 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

Hello Sun. I am so sorry to hear your depressed. But look at it this way why be depressed? Why let something get you down. Your a special person that God created and God only created special people. You have a home your not alone cause you have your family, and most of all you have a great God on your side. Stop and look what you do have and then think of others that don't have as much as you have and they are very happy. Why are they happy because they know that God has given them what they have! Pull your boot straps up and tell that old devil that you have Jesus Christ in your life and to get the heck away from you in the name of Jesus Christ name. And don't let anyone or anything get you down. You are a child of God and a special person. Hope this helps you. Have a great day!

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. voldrox (1423)   ranked 172 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

Hi Dear, i am sorry you are having a bad time now, i wish you come out of it soon, such moments often comes into everybody's life at times, i had my time and am sorry to say you are going through it now, depression and loneliness are two very powerful negative things that can get us really low and slow, what ever has happened with you i wish you forget that soon and hopefully the dawn will soon break and you will feel the warm rays of the bright hope, keep faith dear friend and all will be okay with time, time heals everything, you are free to share your feelings here, many do that... make some wonderful friends here, i am sure you will find many... just don't keep thinking about whatever has happened again and again, the more you think about it the more you will feel bad about it, if you could something that could keep you busy though even just for a while then get engaged in doing that... it is how sometimes i try to control over my anxiety, i suffer from the problem at times, there are people who care, share it with your closest friends and i am sure you will begin to feel better already, bad times come and go and they will leave you soon, hope this moment passes away and i want to see you smiling again... all the best sunitha.

voldrox


myLot reputation of 74/100. sunithajp (136)   ranked 4,697 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

thank you for your nice words. After having good sleep I am feeling better than yesterday. I knew I ll get very good suggestions here when my mood becomes really worst. Now slowly concentrating on my other works. I think I will surely post my happy moment in future.


myLot reputation of 99/100. voldrox (1423)   ranked 172 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

hi sunita happy... i am glad to hear that you are doing better now thumbup.. if you something to share you can always feel free to say something here, you have so many good friends here who will listen and support happy.. have a nice day dear, i will see you around sunita:)

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. jahernandezrivas (453)   ranked 11,507 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

Are you in the USA? Do you have any pets? I know they help me when I am sad and depressed they really do listen to you and they can really help.You could do some crossword puzzles to get your mind off of what ever is making you sad so dont be sad be happy=)Just a suggestion hope you feel better.=)Have a good day!


myLot reputation of 74/100. sunithajp (136)   ranked 4,697 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

No I am living in India, I have a cat here very small cat of course my best friend. But my pet only listen to my problem no response from my cat.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. Polly1 (8463)   ranked 759 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

Here is a virtual{{hugz}}, I hope it helps. I do hope you get to feeling better. We all get down and depressed sometimes. I see that you ae new here. Welcome to mylot, we are a good group of kind caring people from all over the world. You can always find a kind word here. Take care.

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7. 1starrynite (79)   ranked 29,223 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

=) You can have my support. I have been through depression a few years ago, and it feels like I completely shut down. But that's what friends are here for. And even if people aren't your friends, you will always know that they see you as a human rather an animal. Some tips for overcoming depression is just to be optimistic -- look on the bright side of life. For a bad there has to be good, or else the world today would not be balanced.

I hope you feel better soon!


myLot reputation of 74/100. sunithajp (136)   ranked 4,697 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

Yes, sure. I am gradually coming out of my problem. thanks for your suggestion.

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8. myLot reputation of 94/100. gabs8513 (19353)   ranked 4,679 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

I am sorry to read this
You need to keep yourself occupied with something that you like doing I know that always helps me
I normally go to see an old Lady who has Alzheimers because that takes my mind of me and she loves my little Dog very much and is always happy to see him
Or I will get onto my Laptop and do my Graphics and that
I am sorry you are feeling like this and I hope that you are feeling a bit better now


myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2135)   ranked 5,708 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

I'm been to depression and up to now. My friends abandoned me and they doesn't seem to care and they are not willing to listen with my problem. I'm dealing my own problems actually even my family doesn't relate to my situation. Word of encouragement is very helpful to us.


myLot reputation of 94/100. gabs8513 (19353)   ranked 4,679 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

I suffer with Depression to and I am on Anti depressonts as I am under a Doctor you need to go to a Doctor if it is that bad
I am sorry that your Friends and Family are not there for you I really am but you need to see a Doctor as you need help with this

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. Louc74 (195)   ranked 3,135 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

Hi, Suni! Sorry you're feeling low. I hope there isn't anything really serious going on that you're struggling with. Sometimes you just get days where your mood takes a real dip.

Raising your adrenalin level by doing some exercise willhelp. It increases endorphins - the "feel good" hormone. Try putting on some upbeat music, and "silly dancing", which is just what it sounds like: throwing yourself around in a really daft, energetic way to get your adrenalin pumping. It works for me, I end up giggling like an idiot! Lol!

Take care of yourself!:D

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10. lyte_face01 (59)   ranked 22,241 out of 35,175 in people   4 weeks ago

Hello Suni, it is but a reality that we all face down times in our lives. It's how we handle them is the biggest challenge. Do you believe that GOD exists? if so, your depression might be his ways of reminding you to lean on him. It only takes two knees to help yourself. KNEEL AND PRAY. He's there to listen and comfort you.

Aside from that, cheer up, you have your virtual friends through myLot. You are not alone!


myLot reputation of 74/100. sunithajp (136)   ranked 4,697 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

ya, I am not alone. I believe in god but do not worship in image. I surely try to overcome my problem. thanks for your support.


carline76 (45)   ranked 33,226 out of 35,175 in people  4 weeks ago

We know that you're depressed but we're trying to help here so just don't mess around with our religion. We don't worship the image, it's God we worship, it's just a representation. I believe you also keep some pictures. You treat it that way okay.

You know, for sure you have friends, why not talk with your closest friend over the phone or internet. I'm sure you won't divulge the details of your personal problems here.

Why are you so helpless? Your old enough to handle it, I'm sure you can get over it in time.


myLot reputation of 65/100. MoonGypsy (183)   ranked 3,134 out of 35,175 in people  3 weeks ago

i knew it was too good to be true. just when i thought that i would read this post and find all kind, encouraging words....insensitivity and coldness. it's just part of human nature. the ying to the yang of life. i hope you realize that SUN. just when you feel bad. it's always someone that will try to make you feel worse. lol. it's kind of funny that we are even talking about religion, in that case.

SUN, baby. you are not alone. no one is better than anyone else. on or off line. sometimes you may have lots of people (from ALL walks of life) who love and care for you, but that's exactly why you may not be able to go to them. they are too involved to remain objective. instead of doing something destructive, you chose to at least find an anonymous avenue to vent. that is actually smart. in fact, some people even use the online world to act in ways that would get them slapped offline. lol. we don't know who you are, so it doesn't matter. more people are going through what you are going through than you think. you are a step ahead of the game, because at least you are realize what is happening, and wanting to do something about it.

just make sure that you continue to seek constructive and safe ways to feel better. have you gone to seek professional, yet boo? why not, don't be ashamed of giving it a try. you know it is "fashionable" these days. lol. everyone in hollywood is doing it:} (You SMiLe 2, Now).


i hope for you, many many days filled with joy. don't be affraid to vent to your mylot buddies. not all of us are jack.....ya know...daniels. lol. yeah. lol.


lyte_face01 (59)   ranked 22,241 out of 35,175 in people  3 weeks ago

well, to those doesn't believe so in what I believe, its okay. We may have different ways, but it doesn't mean that we have the right to off someone here. We are here to share our ideas.

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