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Do you think you should completely trust your partner in your relationship? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (334)   ranked 953 out of 23,327 in relationships2 months ago

I know that trust is important in a relationship, but after watching reality shows such as Cheaters. I can't help but think of the possibility of me being cheated by my girlfriend. For me it is always better to be on guard in my relationship then to totally trust my partner. Although I am not the jealous type, I always prepare myself for situations like the ones I see in Cheaters. How about you? Do you completely trust your partner?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1425)   ranked 1,453 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

Living in such a so called society, everything have changed a lot and we have to learn to face various scams.

Essentially, as you have said above, trust is important in a relationship. If we want to keep a long and steady relationship, honesty is very important and we should learn to believe in others at first if we want to find the true love. However, if we totally trust others without any doubt, then we may have to face various potential dangers being cheated.

Although we should trust our partners completely, however, easier said than done. blush


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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (1100)   ranked 4,572 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

I trust my partner.... it is 100%.If I were to go on spying on my partner life will be really difficult...I see some of my friends do this but I think they have problems in their relationship that leads them to keep an eye on each other....as you said I too am ready for anything bad that may come from my partner,until than I will live a hassle free life... thumbup

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. anotherxidentity (932)   ranked 1,243 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

For me I have trust in my partner, that doesn't mean full trust but I have enough trust to where I don't have to worry on a daily basis. But also, I'm not 100% trusting to where if signs are out there that something is going on I'm not making myself oblivious to them. I don't think he's cheating on me or anything, but I can't fully say he never will - cause you never know whats going to happen.

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. CathyLee2009 (285)   ranked 1,967 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

hi,elmasahe.I'm a girl.theoreticaaly,I believe one mustn't trust his or her partner 100 percents,but actually,I alway trust my boyfriend,believing every word he says.if your girlfriend is very sociable,fond of parties,I don't recommend you doing so...

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5. michael74 (51)   ranked 4,779 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

Hello good day!

Do i completely trust my partner you ask? why YES! Actually im married to her for five years, we may have a different situation, but i guess i went through it at some time a few years back(i mean having a girlfriend). For me i guess thsese doubts come in a relationship. Normal, but slowly we have to start trusting our partner be it our gf or wife.Otherwise, it will definitely fail.

You love her right? Trust is one of the most important element of loving.
Without trust both of you will not and i mean will NOT GROW! and growing inside a relationship is necessary fro love to blossom into something deeper, something more than visual love but TRUE LOVE.

For me, to love someone is to trust someone, if you dont trust the person, better break up with her. Because it will ONLY MAKE YOUR LIFE AND HERS A MISERABLE ONE.Imagine you cannot sleep or work properly because of her and everytime you meet you'll say these things to her.

Reflect on your situation and talk to her heart to heart tell her your feelings, but tell her how much you love her. If she really is a nice girl she"ll give you comfort and will ask you to trust each other.

Hope this helps! God bless!

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6. myLot reputation of 73/100. bird123 (1194)   ranked 5,585 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

How can you ever have that close relationship that reaches and touches your very soul unless you trust? Life is not about walking on eggshells or fearing to climb to the top of the mountain. A great love relationship can bring great joy. Shouldn't we focus on the good rather than the bad. If I got my heart broken today, I would have to stay open and trust for I sure don't want to stop my next great love affair. Life is to be lived to the fullest. We can't let a little hurt once and a while get in the way of that, now can we???

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7. myLot reputation of 79/100. Godmother (273)   ranked 5,309 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

If you and your partner can become 2 very best friends, then yes..like all best friends, you can totally trust your partner. But if you're just lovers, or partners..then no...you cannot trust him/her completely. But besides that, the big question is "why do they have to cheat on you?" Why not just break up and do it in the open?


myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (334)   ranked 953 out of 23,327 in relationships  2 months ago

I completely agree with you.

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8. nadhneelu123 (45)   ranked 12,415 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

Yes, 100% i trust my partner. He doesn't cheats me, because he loves me
verymuch. Love is build with faith. In our married life we cannot cheat
one another. Understanding maintains good relationship. My colleague, she
mischeif's her husband.She knows that but, still she continue's that
In office she maintains close relationship especially with men's.
There is no meaning of love and affection with eachother.
Her husband don't know all of these nonsense. He trust and loves his wife verymuch.
She doesn't understand her husband love. she is moneymind woman.
wife and husband should have faith on their love.

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9. indclub (68)   ranked 13,533 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

To begin with, every relationship begins with trust in each other. Without the initial trust, the relationship will not move in the beginning itself. The problem is, at the beginning one believes without much proof, and that's a weakness.

I think once you get to know your partner you will know what she is up to and what she is capable of. But don't over do it either. I remember reading on the news some months ago about something like 20% of all married couples spy on each others emails and sms, and another percentage spying on the web browser history:-/. Scary.

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. mjmlagat (1980)   ranked 60 out of 23,327 in relationships   2 months ago

hello there! i used to be less trustful to my hubby before but as time goes by i learned to trust him, i know he's been doing good in our relationship..wives/ women can tell. but it's different if you're still not married because there's no sense of security yet on both parties but it still will work if you both really want to stay together the longest time possible.

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