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myLot reputation of 82/100. itsmauricecassidy (269)   ranked 2,775 out of 14,881 in parenting3 weeks ago

A lot of parents struggle to keep their children under control or if they are misbehaving they will have to be punished and the solution to most parents is beating the child so they learn from their mistakes and not do it again. However I strongly disagree because children are still young and don't know the right of wrong so it has to be taught to them, not in a physical way - in a learning way.

Do you think it is right to beat a child of a young age?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 65/100. kedves (575)   ranked 5,306 out of 14,881 in parenting   3 weeks ago

it is wrong to hit your child and more so when people abuse them and say its for their own good!! all you teach a child is that hitting is good to get your own way when someone does not do what you want them to do . there is nothing wrong with discipline and children must learn right from wrong but they must also me taught how to understand what is deemed as right and whats is deemed as wrong.
Children are the future so when you want to raise your hand think about what values you wish them to have as adults and think if you want to live in a world where violence is acceptable.
as for people who abuse kids they are nothing but cowards so don't bring your kids up like that.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. Pose123 (5683)   ranked 197 out of 14,881 in parenting   3 weeks ago

Hi itsmauricecassidy, It is very wrong to hit or beat a child and will cause problems later in life. Always remember that we are the adults and by beating them, we tell them that violence is okay. There are far better ways to teach your child. Blessings.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. Misterwit (984)   ranked 4,712 out of 14,881 in parenting   3 weeks ago

Once in a while you may hit...but not often...as they are small and they should be advised again and again....

Too much beating will never be tolerated by the kids and they will grow to be more stubborn teenagers...I have seen a report saying this... happy

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. jndlponti (369)   ranked 8,338 out of 14,881 in parenting   3 weeks ago

I believe that it is wrong to hit your child. To discipline the child has a lot of other ways without even hitting them. Children doesn't understand things right away. they did not know yet what is right or wrong, they did not know what is bad or good. Talking to the child and giving the child time to understand things fully well will help the much in disciplining the child.
everything could be work out by just talking to the child in a right way.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. kezabelle (2656)   ranked 409 out of 14,881 in parenting   3 weeks ago

No its never right to beat a child!
Tap its hand as form of discipline it depends I think some think its ok but personally i prefer not to a child can learn from their mistakes without being hit to teach that lesson.
I mean if you made a mistake at work and your boss hit you what would you do? have them up for assult so why is it ever ok to hit a small defenseless child for a mistake? thats my main reason for never hitting my own children.

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6. annshie143 (12)   3 weeks ago

yeah, i disagreee, wid this who hit their childs wen they do some thing wrong or misbehaving because childrens are gift of god nd that hte time for them to do fun n masti. also if we teach them politely, then they do obey u. today hitting child cause advrese effect on child's mind? i see mostly. its depend on both childrens n parents that they understand each other.

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7. qmeyers (37)   3 weeks ago

Everyone has a different definition of what is young. Are you asking about physically disciplining an infant, toddler, or child of elementary school age? And I can tell you as the mother of 4 that most children know the difference between right and wrong around the age of 1.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. mizcash (576)   ranked 4,209 out of 14,881 in parenting   3 weeks ago

If a person likes to get hit then, I can understand why they would hit another person. There are many ways to discipline a child and hitting is not one of them.

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. doormouse (1039)   ranked 5,291 out of 14,881 in parenting   3 weeks ago

to beat a child is wrong,but the occasional smack is fine,my mum smacked me and it didn't do me any harm,i've smacked my kids and they are just fine

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. puddytatt (816)   ranked 321 out of 14,881 in parenting   3 weeks ago

yes it is wrong, children do not to feel physical pain if they are being disciplined, theres other ways to discipline child without using physical force, i have never in my life hit my kids, if they were naughty i woulod talk to them and ground them for being naughty, never would i ever raise my hands to them, i was always being hit as a kid so i know what it's like to feel that pain, it's horrible...


yankang (4)  3 weeks ago

In my opnion,I think we should teach our child more effcient ways,when child get some mistake,if the things he or she really do not known,we should tell him or her how to do,and not always hit that can resolve anything.

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