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 I am a babysitter at the moment for my uncle and my aunt but she is so lazy. I only get paid 200 and plus I make dinner for them and sometimes well almost always!!! they don't appreciate me. She can't even wash the freaking dishes after I have cooked for them I cook for her husband!!! That is her Job. Everyone tells me to not do it. But I feel sorry for my uncle because she is a bad cook!!! And I stay here for the week mon -fri because i have no car and I take care of them there at their apt. so they don't waste to gas to take them to daycare. And he loves how I cook. And I take care of twin GIRLS!!!!!!!! wHAT DO YOU THINK AM I DOING BAD BY COOKING for them and sometimes cleaning? what do you think I should do?
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1.  learn2earn (10552) | 4 weeks ago |  Well, as long as you are doing your job, you will be well even when nobody seems to appreciate what you are doing. Time will come when you leave their place and they will surely miss those simple things that you have done and that would be the time that they realize what you have done for them. I hope that you don't get weary of doing good because in due season, you will reap.
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 maria120883 (162) | 4 weeks ago | Thanks for giving me the boost that I needed!!! Yes i hope it doesn't descourage me to stop doing good.
I hate for people to run over me like that! i just don't know how to defend myself!! I am very fragile when it comes to the heart and to just defend myself it is hard for me I get weak at the knees and I start to laugh because I get nervous!! Lol!! Well I have to start to defend myself and to stop people from running over me but don't worry I will still be a do gooder!!!!!
I love to do good for everyone!! If I can help someone then I will be there for them. That is why I have really good friends that back me up and stand up for me in tight situations. I love them to death!!
thanks for the boost of confidence and comment and advice
happy mylotting
maria s. | |
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2.  mdaazam (221) | 4 weeks ago |  I sure know that you are not appreciated and thats why i will be suggesting you to stop being so caring with everyone and be a rude dude or something like me, nobody in my relation trust me for leaving children with me or the house as i wouldnt care if even some one broke in lol . Yeah its cool as long as its saving me from stuffs like the one youre going through!
Good luck though!
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| maria120883 (162) | 4 weeks ago | Well yeah I see what you are saying but it is not good to think that way you should be nicer to people!! I know you are tryin to help me out and maybe I should be somewhat the way that you tell me but I just can't do it.
I can't make myself do something like that. It is hard very hard to do something like that. I would probably freak out or start to apologize to the person like crazzzzzzzy if I didn't something like that. I have a weak heart and can't imagine being a hard azz to everyone that trys to run me over. thanks for the advice though!!happy mylotting
thanks buddy!!!!!!!!maria s. | |
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| maria120883 (162) | 4 weeks ago | i see what you mean and i do things with thoughtfulness and with love but my aunt is lazy for example today which is monday 11/9/09
i got to her apt i baby sit for her by the way, well i get here and the bottles are all dirty except 2. she has dirty dishes in the sink and dirty pots on the stove and i know she is expecting me to wash them because i have washed them before for her to try to help her out.
but she has crossed the line too far now. i always leave her the kitchen clean!! all bottles washed in case she needs them for the day and night. and since she gets home late her and my uncle i cook for them. it is not part of the business of babysitter i just do it from the kindness of my heart.
but i can't do it no more. they have been pushing my buttons too much already!!leaving everything dirty all the bottles dirty so that i have to wash them when i get here. this is too much now even for me i have alot of patience but not no more!!
even when i cook for them she doesn't even have the decency to atleast wash the pots and dishes!!! can you believe that?? well she does it too many times a week. i am here mon-fri from 7 a.m.-5:30 p.m. the latest. but she has been getting here late till 7 almost 8 at night!! that is too late. i stay here at their apt during the week to not waste gas but i leave on the weekend so that is why i cook.
when she gets home she will just sit there and watch tv and my uncle has to tell her to start cooking or she just won't do it. she is very lazy even with her own twin girls.
anyways there is much much much more to this story but i know you probably don't care i just had to blow some steam off.
loved it!!
thanks for your comment by the way i just wished they were a little more appreciative towards me because i take alot of their crap and do alot of things for them too.
happy mylotting
maria s. | |
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| joezon50 (253) | 4 weeks ago |  Actually you've been working hard for them.You know what i stay with
my aunt and uncle's house before but i dont encounter this kind of
circumstances like you do.Your wrong im a good listeners to everybody
and i wish i can do something for them to make their feeling a little
bet better,.We have different experience in life of whom we live together.
Do things for them and make them more satisfied.take care your self and
have a nice day always.tnx maria s.
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