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myLot reputation of 97/100. careguarden (410)   ranked 635 out of 1,723 in listener3 weeks ago

Sometimes when I'm talking with a group of friends and someone's talking and I'm not really interested with what she said I often caught my self thinking of something else and not listening at all. Or when I'm in a seminar and the speaker is quite boring, I often entertained myself by writing anything on my paper than listening to the speaker. How about you, how often you listen to someone when who's speaking?

 
 
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1. JoelleRenee (44)   3 weeks ago

o goodness no!
I try, I really do but it's really quite hard at some times.


myLot reputation of 97/100. careguarden (410)   ranked 635 out of 1,723 in listener  3 weeks ago

Yeah, it can be really hard sometimes even though you want to concentrate and focus to the one who speak. But it hard to listen all the time.

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2. flurbl (59)   3 weeks ago

Sometimes I zone out and start thinking of other things I have to do. I feel bad because I would always want someone to pay attention to me, but I can't help it! I've been trying lately to make myself notice when I start to wander and not pay attention.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. alyssakenzie (410)   3 weeks ago

I work with a couple of ladies that talk non stop and it is always about themselves!!! After a few months of working with them I have gotten to the point that I pretty much just tune the whole conversation out and nod my head a few times and so far it has worked.. I just start thinking about things that I need to get done and hope that some thing comes along so I can leave without just walking out!!
Most of the time with anyone else I try to listen to the conversation no matter how boring it may be.


myLot reputation of 97/100. careguarden (410)   ranked 635 out of 1,723 in listener  3 weeks ago

Oh, you're job must be quite interesting. And working on listening with people all the time is quite tough. As for me, it's hard not to able to talk while working. I need to release what I feel through talking. You must have loads of patience.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. tingtong (980)   ranked 925 out of 1,723 in listener   3 weeks ago

I try to listen to anyone who is talking to me patiently. I try not to show any disrespect even if I get bored. If the person goes on repeating the same thing or talk ill of someone, I politely make some excuse and go.


myLot reputation of 97/100. careguarden (410)   ranked 635 out of 1,723 in listener  3 weeks ago

It annoys me most of the time when the person talk repeatedly how she/he hates the person for some reason or another. But as much as possible I tried to sympathize and understand what she felt. I've never tried make excuses to go and leave the person. Because I value the importance of someone who listen, it may not be completely but the presence matter a lot.

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. charmz1005 (302)   3 weeks ago

LOL. Same here, it depends who's talking, but in my case it's different. If the one talking is a friend then I will listen even though how boring it is, because I myself want them to listen to me when I'm talking. In cases like a teacher discusses or in seminars, most of the time I don't listen, I'll just be texting or draw anything that I think in a notebook or paper. LOL.


myLot reputation of 97/100. careguarden (410)   ranked 635 out of 1,723 in listener  3 weeks ago

LOL, well we're mostly like the same on some instances. When it comes to friends, I appear to listen but mostly my mind is drifting to other place. I just let my friend talk and talk 'til he/she got tired and fall asleep.LOL

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6. shiningstar79 (21)   3 weeks ago

I know it is hard to listen when you are not interested in the topic. What I try to do is whether I am interested in the topic or not I pretend to listen and most importantly ask a few questions here and there and participate in their topic so that the speaker feels good. This way I do not hurt his feelings and it's not a big deal wasting sometime pretending to listen if you are going to make a person feel better.

After all I have earned a another person in my list who could listen or pretend to listen in the future.


myLot reputation of 97/100. careguarden (410)   ranked 635 out of 1,723 in listener  3 weeks ago

Yeah, that's what I also did. When someone is talking I tried to listen and pretend that I'm listening because I don't want to hurt someones feeling. But I rarely asked questions only when I got a copy of the discussions.

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7. myLot reputation of 87/100. hireshd (325)   ranked 984 out of 1,723 in listener   3 weeks ago

Yes I always listen patiently to otheres who are talking to me, not listening is like an insult to the other which I am not in favour off.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2059)   ranked 1,411 out of 1,723 in listener   3 weeks ago

Sometimes I can't avoid to listen to some other conversations because I'm nearby and I can hear them talking. I'm not interested if they are talking about gossips I'm not interested to involved to it. If I'm going to attend in seminar or lecture I tried to listen but sometimes I get bored when the speaking is too boring.


myLot reputation of 97/100. careguarden (410)   ranked 635 out of 1,723 in listener  3 weeks ago

Sometimes I listen to some gossip as to be part of the group, but I didn't share anything of what I've known as it only gives trouble to the person involved. When it comes to seminar or lectures, when the speaker don't know how to motivate and add some humor to his/her discussions then most of the time I end up writing on my paper and pretend to listened.

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1431)   3 weeks ago

That all depends. If I am in darkness of mood, I may have no patience to continue listening.

Usually, I tend to try my best to listen to anyone who is talking to me even if he/she is boring. In my opinion, it is impolite if you pay no attention to people who are talking with you. What's more, remember to look straight at them especially in their eyes, no blinking or look away when people are talking with others.

Of course, sometimes, writing is more useful than listening. Happy myLotting!


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10. avnieuwkerk (82)   3 weeks ago

Concentration is a hard thing. People will always touch on topics which you may think are interesting and also the complete opposite being topics which are not so interesting. Also, some people take a rather long time to spit out what they mean they would like to say. People thus never listen to everything when someone is talking. It has been scientifically proven that a person can not concentrate for more than 45 minutes at a time, so this is rather common. One thing is for sure though, the better a listener you are the more broad your perspective will be on other fronts. Listening is also having attention to detail which is also extremely important. If you improve your listening, starting with listening to everything other peole have to say, you will learn something and also your attention span will increase.


myLot reputation of 97/100. careguarden (410)   ranked 635 out of 1,723 in listener  3 weeks ago

Thank you for sharing that very interesting information my friend. Actually I never know that a person can't concentrate for more than 45 minutes. I have a short span on concentrating and listening to other people. Well I'm not a good listener I think. And in your advice I will try, you're right having the ability to listen gives you a benefit of knowledge and wisdom.

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