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myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue4 weeks ago

Tell us what you feel about it.

There is this young guy, who due to circumstances falls into this bad company.in his late teens he turns an alcoholic, is violent, is involved in petty thefts, and is a substance abuser.

To meet up with these daily demands of his he just happens to break in a house; supposedly should be vacant. But the owner is present in there and this boy is very upset about it. he was already high and kills the man gruesomely. The murder is really atrocious and truly depicts how evil a man can be.

The accused is sentenced to death. There are proceedings and numerous mercy petitions but all are rejected. Finally, say, after about 10-15 years this convict is supposed to be executed.

While on his death- row he is enlightened and realizes his folly. he comes to know how evil he were. How effortlessly his conscience allowed him to take the life of another human-being.

He is repenting. Is truly sorry.


Now someone is really fighting hard for his case and wants the court to lessen the severity of the punishment. There is a faint gleam of hope to cling on to dear life. The convict now starts believing in God and miracles. he really hopes, cries and begs for a second chance.

Do you think he deserves that? If No, then, why just not to execute him immediately, why let him reform in the prison?

I think to let him change in the prison is inhuman, he should be executed as soon as he was pleaded guilty.

What's your thought?

(Remember he was young when he did the horrid act, he has gained some sense now, though the loss to the aggrieved is permanent).

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (3028)   ranked 193 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue   4 weeks ago

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myLot reputation of 99/100. cynthiann (3028)   ranked 193 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

I do apologise for all the typos. I forgot to do spell check and my fingers are hurting today.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. reeyan (465)   ranked 240 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue   4 weeks ago

Hi bodhisatya

Murder is murder. What circumstance compel you to do that if it need to consider thn any criminal has needs to justify.


Its human duty to keep himself in right place. If it needed consideration for him due to his age...then all people have to passed their life through teenage. All have to passed critical circumstances. Life is very to all. From the very beginning of our life we have to protect us from evil. Who succeed they proceed who fail they ruin. What circumstances he passed it has no value to the context of life. Who win the race is the hero.....why fail is never considered.

And I too say crime is crime...and crime must pay. What situation you commit that has no value.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hmmm My friend Reeyan, I think you didn't get my point here. I am not saying that the person should be forgiven for his age or anything.

I am trying to say that if he is guilty why not to punish him "immediately". Why to wait for long years and file for mercy and then let him reform while he is in the prison. Why let him have that hope that he may survive?

Do you think it is right to give him a hope and then deny the chance he seeks for?


myLot reputation of 82/100. reeyan (465)   ranked 240 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hi

Oh my God ... I am really sorry. Feel ashamed without reading the whole story I have done this mistake in hurry. I think I too not keep myself from the race of increasing the number game. I am infected......


You point is very sensitive. Is is more panic to punish that to keep anyone in the fear of punishment. If some one is accomplished with a such crime that is punishable with capital punishment, if the implementation of the punishment is late it is a unbelievable mantel harassment. So law have capitalize its all effort of quick implementation. Belated accomplishment of punishment is like double punishment. I think law have also no right to punish double for a single offense. In this situation law is to in the custody of the court of humanity.
But we can't deny the limitation of law and the process to establish and prove the crime. So it take some time. But there should limitation of the delay too.
So I think the whole process need to make dynamic and quick and efficient. We have to keep in mind that in hurry no wrong should done like MY FAULT TO ANSWER THE TOPIC IN HURRY.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

We are all humans and we are bound to make mistakes. Its ok. I liked the last thing you have written here, and how you compared your own haste with the law, hehehehe. You are witty my friend.


myLot reputation of 82/100. reeyan (465)   ranked 240 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

hi

May be it is witty but not a ignorable matter at all. What you say?


myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2571)   ranked 470 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Bodhi, I do agree that when someone is found guilty beyond the shadow of a doubt, then whatever the sentence is, it should be done with and not dragged on and on. I have heard that happens because a prisoner is allowed so many appeals.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Yes at times it seems very time consuming and a tiring process. A waste of some very valuable resources. But some people here have some very interesting and insightful views too. i thank each and every one to help resolve something on which i was really pondering over for a long time.


myLot reputation of 82/100. reeyan (465)   ranked 240 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hi

It is needed to mitigate the doubt. But we have some limitation to follow the rule abide to us. If we try to justify everything can be justified. Then will not occurred the social anarchy. So in may time it is important to take decision coming out from our humanity. Some time drastic and rude step too needed to implement for the greater interest of the society. So some hard affective measures need to haply to establish so that restrict other from do the guilty. "Guilty must have to paid" is the best way to resist the crime.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hi reeyan, thats what I said. if one is guilty he is to go through the punishment.


myLot reputation of 82/100. reeyan (465)   ranked 240 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hi

I am to firm in that crime must pay . All other related to these are only sub consequential.

One example I want to put here....

If we ever put our hand in fire in mistake...fire would not left our hand unburnt thinking that we mistakenly put the hand in it. I am very very rude and drastic in this matter.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

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myLot reputation of 82/100. reeyan (465)   ranked 240 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  3 weeks ago

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3. myLot reputation of 63/100. tokouchi (112)   ranked 469 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue   4 weeks ago

I think the time in prison is necessary to make him realize his wrongdoings. If we execute people immediately, they lose the chance to repent and turn back to God. If you die without repenting, you go to hell. That wouldn't be nice, right? At least now, if he truly repents for his sins and recognizes the fact that he has broken the law, he also knows the consequences of his actions. He can now prepare for what is to come. I believe the time in prison before execution is not there to aggravate their situation but to give them a chance to repent and make the most of what's left of their time. However, I am personally against death sentences because I believe that people's lives are not for us to take.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hi Tokouchi,


I am very glad the way you think about it. To make them realize of what they have done when they were evil personified.

but its a real pity when they come to realize it and plead to hold on to life, Ah! Too late I guess. Thank you so much for the wonderful response.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. marguicha (3466)   ranked 461 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue   4 weeks ago

To begin with, I don´t like the death penalty. It will not bring back the dead and it will not serve to make others stop from killing. That alone is a subject where we could talk about for a long time.
This case only shows that people don´t have to be sentenced to death.
Now I would not set him free. Noone knows what´s inside of him and, if given the opportunity, he would not do the same. But I also think that people who are guilty without any doubt, should ne put to work to repay society in a way for what they did. It´s not fair that these people have to be given food and shelter when inocent people in the world don´t have that.
There are many ways of paying and many ways of showing remorse.
Take care!


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Yeah, thats really a very nice suggestion. The guilty shouldn't be let loose under any circumstances. Otherwise there won't be any law and order. People would kil one another and later say that they repent, come out and do it again.

They shouldn't be given free food either, like you said. But for some the death penalty is apt I reckon.

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5. myLot reputation of 92/100. Sweetchariot (950)   ranked 146 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue   4 weeks ago

Bodhi, I don't agree with the death penalty, so I wouldn't be able to answer your question.

I know of a family whose son was murdered, by another young man. The man who committed this crime, repeatedly bashed his son's head to the ground several times, until he finally died, although he had no intention of killing this young man. This family went thru emotional stages as some do - devestation, anger, sadness and finally acceptance. In the end, they officially forgave their son's murderer, and actually visited this man in prison many, many times.

The father expressed to me one day, "This man has become like another son to me. If our state had had the death penalty, I would not have had the chance to come to know this man,and why he did what he did; I would not have had the chance to work out my anger and would have had to live with anger the rest of my life; he would not have had the chance to tell me how truly sorry he was and he would not have been given the chance to face his own sincere repentance; I would have had to live with the knowledge that another family's son was killed because of the law's vengence for my son, and I would not been able to live in peace knowing that another killing has taken place. I am at peace, now, given the chance for all these things....and the death penalty would not have allowed that."

While this would be difficult to achieve for most people, how wonderful of an example that this father has set for us.
.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

He must be a very good human being. It is very difficult to forgive someone who has caused you a loss of that magnitude. he must be a saint to accept the other boy as his own son.

I don't know, God forbid if anything like that ever happens to me I won't be at peace at all. maybe I will see to it that the person who makes me suffer suffers as much as I do.

Just letting my honest opinion to flow out. maybe I am in that mood. happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

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myLot reputation of 92/100. Sweetchariot (950)   ranked 146 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

I do believe in God's powers.Infact the story of Paul resembles to a saint who wrote "Ramayana" the greatest epic of the Hindus the story of Shree Ram.

I am talking about saint Valmiki.

I am truly touched by your post here, my friend. I think, do correct me if I am wrong,

that at last it is the question of who wins over the enraging war deep inside you; Good or evil.

Like the one you had asked earlier "Which wolf do you feed?"

Thanks a lot again and yes let there be peace.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Sweetchariot (950)   ranked 146 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

You are absolutely correct, it all comes down to whichever wolf we feed...the good or the evil side of us all. We all have the tendency to do wrong, and sometimes evil things. No one is better than anyone else.

But sometimes we need God to intervene in us, in order to know the direction to take, or to have the strength to say "no" to the wrong things. We cannot do this alone.

Some people say we can live without God, that if we do the right things in life then who needs him. And for the most part, human beings know what is the right thing to do, but there are many other situations in life that are not so clear. For example: if we meet a beggar in the street, who looks scarey and mean, do we ignore him and walk by him? Sometimes we have to ask God what to do. I have learned from God that you don't give a beggar any money, because most often they would use it for alcohol. Therefore if they are truly hungry, God leads me to buy a meal and bring it back to them. Sometimes God doesn't lead me to do anything for them, because God may know something I don't know....maybe he is trying to guide the beggar closer to him, and it can only happen by being deprived from everything else.

There is a reason for everything, and only God knows the directions in life we should take; therefore if we think we are doing right, it may not be in God's eyes. We need to lean on him more, and be open to his ways. By doing that, we will undoubtedly be feeding the right wolf.

I will have to look up the saint that your are talking about, sound like an interesting story. Thanks







myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

You know what my friend, I honestly feel like keep on talking with you, I think there won't be dearth of topics for us to discuss.

i am gonna tell you something about a person. he is a very close frind of mine, and today he is a very very successful businessman. he is just 28, and he is seventh grade failed.

he hailed from a very poor family and attimes he had to sleep without food. he left studies and experienced this world with close proximity.

he always tells me, to feed the poor. Don't give them money, if you have the time buy a meal. And he really does it. he says that i have been though hunger and I know how to sleep with an empty stomach. I won't let that happen to as many people as I can.

he attributes all his success to the blessings from these destitute.

Now the saint I referred to was a robber. Once when came home after the loot, he asked his wife,"you know I am commiting sin. i am robbing people. But I am doing this for your sake, for the sake of my paretns and children. so would you guys gonna share the burden when I am in hell?

Surprisingly all of them denied, reasoning that it was his duty to feed them. they don't care what method he adopts do carry his duty.

he was a transformed person from that instant. he sat for meditation to gain the "truth" and was covered by ants all over his body. When he was enlightened he wrote "Ramayana".


myLot reputation of 92/100. Sweetchariot (950)   ranked 146 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

It appears that your businessman friend is a wise man. Through his struggles, and the suffering he endured, he learned to have compassion for others. That is why we sometimes have to go thru trials and sufferings ourselves, in order to learn God's way.

If we never have struggles in our life, we would never know what true happiness is...we would never learn to appreciate what we have. So, in order for us to experience happiness and joy, we have to experience sadness and suffering, for it is by experiencing these things, will we come to understand what happiness and joy is.

Secondly, how would we know how to feel compassion for our brothers if we never experience what they go thru. To truly understand another's pain, we have had to walk in their shoes. Therefore, at times, God does allow us to suffer and have struggles in order to teach us these lessons. Your friend would never have known how to serve the poor if he was not poor himself. Your friend is wise to understand this. Some people would have just been happy to be free of suffering, and felt no obligation to help the poor; some feel, "if we can come out of poverty, so can others, so we shouldn't help them. Let them find their own way out." But, instead, your friend followed his heart, and listened to what God was teaching him. God gave him the gift of compassion, thru his own sufferings, and your friend did not reject it. Instead he followed in God's footsteps.

Because he heard God, and did as God wanted, God has giving him many blessings. That is a wonderful thing! Our God is good!


I researched Saint Valmiki, and his story is very similar to Saint Paul.

Valmiki was a thief who one day tried to rob a Hindu holy man. The holy man had no riches to steal, but gave Valmiki a mantra—a word to be repeated in meditation. Valmiki liked the mantra and began using it. Years later he had become so absorbed in his meditation that ants built an anthill all around him, yet still he did not move; in this way he earned the name Valmiki, which comes from the Sanskrit word for anthill. When Valmiki emerged from the anthill, he had become a wise and humble saint.

This story proves again, God's Love. When he was given the mantra, Valmiki may not have known what was going to happen to him, he may not have expected God to transform him as he did. However, Valmiki did as the holy man said, and he never gave up...it seems he did it for years. God saw his faithfulness in his continuous meditation, and again God blessed him with his presence, by transforming him. God touches us when we least expect it, doesn't he? That is why it is good to pray, and keep praying, and never give up.

This story is also similar to Saint Monica and her son Saint Augustine. As a young man, Augustine was a womanizer, and his mother, Monica, prayed for his conversion for 20 years, which after that time, Augustine's life was tranformed, he was converted in his Faith, and became one of the greatest Saints in History. We have many books written by him.


I, too, enjoy talking to you!




myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  3 weeks ago

So you did looked up for Valmiki's story. I do pray my friend. Faith and prayers has helped not once but many a times and truly blessed to understand that.

Have a great Sunday.

Bodhi

 
6. myLot reputation of 94/100. rg0205 (1718)   ranked 462 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue   4 weeks ago

To let him change is inhuman but as you describe the way he supposedly killed his victim, I would say he is inhuman as well.

We live in a dog eat dog world. Whether or not he has reformed, that beside the point that he has killed someone. That someone has died and has been taken away from his loved ones.

I think the incarceration period is for him to suffer and perhaps repent and "make good with god". Killing a person immediately after he is sentenced is like the easy way out for him.

Being in prison for 15 years is being in an environment where you wake up everyday not knowing whether someone is going to stab you, kill you, or assault you. The incarceration period is hell itself. If you just killed him right away, he wouldn't have suffered much for what he had done.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hmmmmm... I get your point.

I agree with you. He is made to go through hell while he is still alive, and thats what makes him to repent for his heinous crime.

Thanks a lot for the wonderful response and thanks again for making me understand for what seemed to be a moral dilemma for me.


myLot reputation of 82/100. reeyan (465)   ranked 240 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hi


But in the circumstances that he may be punished with capital punishment what mentality grows in the mind of the victim, is it possible that circumstances of his mind inspire him to be good. Just imagine the situation.... hanging rob is moving before him like a pendulum....... inspiration to be good ....where from ....he acquire such a mental strength to be good.
It is useful to some powerful people that they have time to save their child influencing the related substances.

Child from the common people have little chance to come out of juvenile. They just can wait there for the final end. That's the truth behind the curtain. Generally powerful has facilitated more by the law. As they have the power of influence.


myLot reputation of 94/100. rg0205 (1718)   ranked 462 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Thank you for choosing my response.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Hi Rg,

You reasoning was something which answered my question, i was pondering over this issue for a long time my friend.


myLot reputation of 94/100. rg0205 (1718)   ranked 462 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Well, I am glad I was able to provide a bit of insight. Actually, I remember having this same discussion when I was in senior high. Happy mylotting and best wishes.

 
7. myLot reputation of 85/100. lindiebiz (598)   ranked 465 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue   4 weeks ago

It really unfortunate that this guy is going through this. Everyone deserves a second chance the guy should keep praying. God works wonders.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

Yes, God works in mysterious ways.

 
8. masskara19 (35)   4 weeks ago

i believe that no one has the right to take someone else's life but God alone.


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

I think you haven't even read the post.

 
9. peter790702 (79)   4 weeks ago

Agreed that the immediate implementation of the death penalty

 
10. myLot reputation of 99/100. PeacefulWmn9 (2571)   ranked 470 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue   4 weeks ago

sad I do feel I could judge any man in those circumstances, for that is up to God.

The biggest problem I have with the death penelty is that now, in the day of DNA, it has been proven that any number of innocent people have been falsely convicted and put to death.

That gives me the most pause.

Karen


myLot reputation of 98/100. bodhisatya (522)   ranked 132 out of 483 in thought provoking questions that are serious issue  4 weeks ago

hi Karen,

It really makes me so sad when I ever come across such incidents. It is really a shattering, horrific thing to happen for someone paying up the price for something which he never did. It is indeed unfortunate.

 
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