What would you do if someone just pops up your facebook or your friendster ...

Of course, I will be bothered by that. That would surely make me think who that was and why he asks something like that. If he asks a question that would truthfully relate to my personal life, I would be bothered why he knew about it. I would be thinking that the caller might know me personally and was just hiding incognito. A similar incident happened to me in early part of last month. Someone called my cellphone and asked if I were online. I asked who he was and he seemed to have stammered and later purposely spoke in garbles. I seemed to recognize the voice but I cannot categorically say that he was the person. Later, he introduced to be a certain fellow whom I really don't know. I suspected he was my chatmate whom I had a disagreement in the early part of this year. I sent him an email, telling him that I know he was the person who called me on that date and further told him not to do it again as I was in peace being alone.

I am the kind of person that tend to ask who they are as well as why they want to know.If they do not then answer my question then i would not answer theirs.No i would not be bothered about it.

I won't be bothered.unless I know the person,I will ask him/her why.if s/he doesn't respond,then by all means I will not care.I don't like nosy people in the web.it is not their business to know MY business.if I receive a message from an unknown person asking for my status,I won't reply.I have no obligation to answer him/her back.

that happens to me most of the time. An unknown person pops out and its mostly guys, but as soon as something as that pops up i automatically reply.. sorry, uninterested. i may be available but im not negotiable..

I answer "yes". Nothing to be bothered about since I am transparent.

I won't answer such a question. They wouldn't bother to ask again usually.

i would definately be bothered by it. if they wont tell you who they are then they must have something to hide. and how dare they ask about your private life when they arent willingly to be questioned themselves?

Hi laydee Yes that would very much make me wonder why. I think that someone like that who has such a question and refuses to answer is either up to no good or it is someone that you really don't like and they could be trying to start up trouble. I wouldn't tell them anything until they decide to tell you something about them. Be careful girl. Have a great weekend and keep smiling.

i happens to me most of the time but as soon as something like that pops up, i automatically reply... sorry, uninterested.. im am available but not negotiable..im untouchable...