Saying things are more important than writing in a diary or blog!
By sanuanu
@sanuanu (11235)
India
November 6, 2009 8:40pm CST
I think most of you would be aware of what happened to me recent days. Although, I know that you guys were a great help to me and I have felt very relief when I discussed all these things on internet but still there was something in my heart which was making me pain.
Today morning, one of my friend asked me if something was wrong and then I decided to let him know about my poem and the girl. Well, I told him every thing. I won't say that he was very good listener to me but whatever I said, he heard and told me to not to take this seriously and look forward in my life.
Now, I am feeling very relifed and I don't think I am sad at all. I don't want to cry. Although I am not in mood to laugh but it is a big improvement from cry to not to cry, isn't it?
So, saying things give great relief to us, isn't it?
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8 responses
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
15 Nov 09
The relief that comes from saying difficult things out loud is why we have counselors and therapists in the world. It makes a huge difference to get thing out of your system.
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@Canellita (12029)
• United States
19 Nov 09
Well, the difference between real friends and net friends is that you can develop a real relationship with someone you interact with face to face. There is more trust because you can see for yourself that the person is exactly who they seem to be whereas online anyone can pretend anything.
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@celticeagle (189792)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Nov 09
What ever outlet you have is great. Some are able to talk, some write poems or journal. I think for me journaling helps me get feelings out and it is there so I can remember what happened when also. Whatever helps is what I am saying. Talking it out is excellent.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
7 Nov 09
My grandmother always used to say, “A problem shared is a problem halved” and she had a point. Sometimes talking to a friend can make all the difference. It is a relief to get another’s point of view and the support as well. By talking and voicing our problems we tend to look at them from the outside in and that somehow clears our head and that helps when making decisions and resolving our concerns. I'm glad you don't feel like crying anymore!
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
12 Dec 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji,
Sharing our problems with any other person always relioeves stomach egg. It is always advisable tosteam out one's un-disclosed things to any of one's friend. You have done well. Now at least scope of success have become two fold, as your frend too will think and come out with some bright ideas to solve the problem.
May God bless You and have great time.
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
14 Dec 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji,
It is unwise to expect everytime from anyone includig friends that they would solve one's problem. At the same time, it is for an individual that one's problems are heard by others, so that one's stress and strains are removed and one feels lightened. MayGod bless You and have a great time.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
7 Nov 09
Sometimes just talking about something can give us great relief. Relief can also come from closure..although it's sometimes not pleasant..it can be a little relieving. There's a girl out there just for you sanuanu. I hope you run into her soon.
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