I have till not mark best response till now....DO YOU KNOW WHY? I KNOW.

Hi mysdianait

Thank you for your response with the guideline and the personal view. See mam I am now little close to the guideline even though I am not so aware of the guideline I am almost close to the view of the guide line. I am still waiting.... and come to mind to give the best respond mark. But suddenly I feel that if any response come to me that look better than all those already received. So in dis dilemma I think best that why not I ask this to MyLoter. So see I am not too bad as I am guessed ant the first impression. And I think first impression can't carry the whole character of an individual. This line may also be a topic of discussion but I have to check whether any other posted any discussion on this topic.

One other thing . My photo sharing option is automatically enabled here. Can I upload pic with my response.

Oh my god

I was enabled when I was tried to comment on your response. But It is not enabled now. Strange. Really strange for me.

* It was.....***

Diana hardly awards BR. So to get a BR from her is a privilege.

Hey Rajib!

It's not my fault if I receive so many brilliant responses on my discussions - it's the fault, or should I say merit, of those who respond. They make it so difficult to choose just one

However before the end of the year I will do my best. No point in awarding a BR to a user who is no longer here right? That has helped to reduce the choices on some of them

Hi mysdianait

I think in the of awarding I may be liberal here. I get relief here. But the time factor when will I use this features is little complicated. Now I think reviewing all those response to this discussion including Both of you ( KRAJIBJI and mysdianait), I have to chose the batter time to induce this option.

You can now read all the different options. The only thing myLot tell us is to wait a week then the rest is up to you.

Hi mysdianait

Thank you for your informative suggestion. \

One another thing can I now use the emotion.

Pic I should not use till now is agreed by me...so I want to use emotion.

Hi mysdianait


Oh sorry I have loose some number by the side of me. Ok till shot ....

Ok I am waiting.

Sorry for disturbance.

For me, I still have many discussions pending to devote the best response. I know it is not so good to give best response to early as I know when times goes I still receive responses from others. If the topic is hot, they responses will keep coming in. So I feel sorry for those who waiting for the best response from mine, LOL.

Before I could make any best response, I hope I have my time to reply back al the response I have receive.

I have once receive a best response from a new user where she just start mylotting not long ago. She gives best response to me on her first day of posting the discussion. Perhaps I should tell her about the Mylot guidelines and she can know more about when to post for the best response.

Hi alwayzzcitra

Thank you for your suggestion and the way of using. I too wait for days to avail that facility. Ya the positive responds can be given to those that come after the best remark given But I feel little injustice to them. I think you can feel what I feel.

Hi pweety_princess

Thank you for sharing your views. Yes I will wait till one week at least to use this option. But if some one response you like the way that look you best in a random than what will you do. Some time we have to do that too ....just I believe. You are right that in the intention to get best response some time the response turn to flattering too. Some way people may try to impress to gather it. Then it have a negative impact on the logic of healthy discussion. It is very sensitive mater in the context of discussion. I do believe so.

again I had left one point of you.


You rightly say that many times it goes very tough to select the best response. And whole the participant has redoubtable role to make an end successful discussion. Each and every one has put their effort to make it meaningful one. Even who responded with negative role is most valuable to discussion. If any one play don't play a negative role that there will be no place for argumentation. And without argumentation discussion will turn to some kinds of flattering talk.

I believe so.

oh! and dont forget to rate positively.

Hi tigeraunt

Really a positive attitude you have that you express freely you feelings on the matter. I am very glad to read your response. It is my humble expression. I have not dded any spice of flattering here. I am generally very very restricted in giving the merit to other. But some time it goes very hard for me from resisting myself from appreciate other.

And you choice to mark positive is a considerable.........but if we feel that any response is not suitable for positive marking ....then?

i guess if a response is not suitable for a positive marking, it is your prerogative not to mark. but being courteous and friendly would not hurt, would it?

Hi tigeraunt

Very very good personality you have. Unbelievable! Really I am impressed. What a rude am I! I even want to use negative mark too for some response. But I never like to use the abuse. Little courtesy I have too.

you will find more happiness and peace when you think positive.
hey, i know you are. show it.

Hi tigeraunt


We may be positive but there is negative impaction of this fashion too which is spread in a rush in the fashion world. We can ignore but can't prevent us from this.

you are right. and that is sad

Hi



And in the sadness there is the chance of loosing the capability of judging the real beauty of the discussion too.

very true

Hi





You are welcome

Hi padhiaranand

Yeah I already try to summarize the basic point putted here by the the people who respond here. And this will be helpful for me. Thank you for your participation.

Hi bodhisatya

You are right that many time in our life we have to depend on our instinct. But the supposition of suggested by the instinct some time betray us too. Reading some response once from my instinct I can feel that there are no chance of coming any response that may be the better than this. On this instinct if I ever tender my best response, but suddenly after that have I see any other response that is far more better that that...Is not it create any guilty feeling in the mind. ...this question come to my mind.

Yup it may happen sometimes. But is it a crime? I guess not.

Hi

you are right that it is not treated as crime . This is not a legal matter so this very feeling of guiltiness is not related to the crime but to the injustice. And it is seen that all injustice can't be treated as crime. So feeling bad is the punishment for this type of injustice done in the compulsion of circumstances.

Hi savypat

Thanks for sharing own way of best marking of discussion. I will keep in my mind about your way in the time of using that facilities.

Happy myloting.

Hi krajibg

Your choice of the awarding BR is definitely a good point to be observed. But it is the mater of the dissatisfaction of mind that some is unable to eat as he is late in the dining table. But how long the food waiting for the eater is the point. But time is very rude. It never wait for anyone. It is right that some one is unfit due to his delay is too a considerable factor here. Your this point intended me to leave the hesitation of mind. So I think we should eat our meal before it is spoiled.

Yes, it is better to eat before the meal gets stale and insipid. Good luck.

Hi krajibg

Thank you. I will see how long the race run.

Be Happy on the call of the day. That the way to run.

Hi dragon54u





You are right that we should not use this features in hurry. In the rust we may loose the opportunity to select the best. Though it is very very tough to select the best one from so many distinguish respond but its our noble responsibility too do so. In this task our knowledge to be perfect in the reasoning of discussion in the time of selection. So keeping time in hand reading all the responses we should tender the facility.
Don't be worry but I am little careless on the matter of earning. I have great passion to healthy discussion and the free minded debate in the time of discussion. I don't want to impose my logic to other but I never put my interest on the matter of earning. I just want to follow the way of best perforation of discussion . But due to many limitation of me I may not be succeed to fulfill my desire. I am assure you that we would never leave my effort.

Hi merlinsorca

Yes you are right. I am still believe that I have not any special quality to determined the the quality of the responses. Its needed so many knowledge selection of the literary works. I think it is a special quality that can judge the topic. So it is really a hard task of determination that the administration give us. It is the solo authority that give the author to select the best response to him. So I think should be responsible and impartial and should try our best effort in the time of the selection of best. We should not tender this facility undergoing to any affection or partiality.

We should be little tough too in the time of selection. It is my feelings.