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myLot reputation of 96/100. CatsandDogs (6424)   ranked 11 out of 3,538 in me 3 years ago

Like I said in my last discussion, I went to see my parents on Thursday after getting my hair cut and the next thing I knew, dad said my oldest brother had called him and told him about the incident in Ft. Hood. Since hubby and I had been stationed there from 1991 - 2002, 10 years, it was quite a shock so we went to see about it on the news. Of course we were dumbfounded about it all! And since we had lived there for so many years, it really hit home. Ft. Hood has seen so many tragedies that it's almost surreal and now this!? Hubby and I have known several people that were killed from helicopter crashes to car wrecks to suicide to murder/suicide, oh the list goes on and on. If you have a heart at all, you never get used to it. My heart just aches for the families!! Oh my heart just aches!
I've been in such a daze for the past few weeks and Thursdays incident didn't help a bit but I'm trying to get myself out of this "hole" because I'm so far behind in everything that needs to be done around my home that I need to get my act together and move on with life for it's sure not waiting for me! But it's hard when in a clutch like I've been in but I AM trying!

On a much lighter note, I had ordered a new comforter set for our bedroom which is so needed! and got the right color and shade of paint to paint our bedroom and have started on it last night and will continue on it today. It's a pretty beige color and the comforter set has browns, beige and blues all over it. Really pretty. I bought the matching curtains too so it'll all be really nice looking once I'm finished. I'll post a picture of it once I'm finished.

I ordered Christmas cards through Miles Kimble for both hubby & I and for my parents. I told mom that I'd get the addressed from the list that she gave me for her and dad's 50th wedding anniversary, print them up and send them out for her since they're already personalized. She's really happy about that although she didn't want me to do it, bla bla bla. She didn't get to send cards out last year because she was so depressed and didn't want me to get the personalized ones for her and dad but this year, I didn't bother to ask and did it anyway. I could hear the happiness in her voice over the phone so I know I did the right thing this year. Whew! wiping my brow! lol And knowing last year she was so upset because she didn't have anything to wear that was "Christmasy" I'm buying her and I matching shirts from collectionsetc in blue with sequins all over it, with santa and his reindeer flying off in the sky. It's really pretty and I just know she'll love it!

Well, that's pretty much what's going on with me. So friends, what's going on with you all?

 

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tags:  collecting gifts, happy christmas, know your friends and family, mother, noche buena
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35345)   3 years ago

You know your mom pretty well.The shirts sound really cute. National tragedies touch lots further than we realize.


myLot reputation of 96/100. CatsandDogs (6424)   ranked 11 out of 3,538 in me  3 years ago

Yeah, I've known her for 45 years so I should know her well enough. lol I showed her the different shirts and asked her which she liked best and she choose the blue one which I kind of figured she would because she's so partial to blue and then I told her that I'm getting her and I both one and she was thrilled about it.
I agree, national tragedies do affect us a great deal. Especially when we're so close to it like we are.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. OreoCookie3 (22470)   3 years ago

Hi Cats... Sounds like you and your mom will look and feel festive for the Christmas season... I bet she does appreciate everything you did with the cards also. As for me, I've not done anything for the last 8 weeks except work on my writing assignments 7 days a week. I have taken today off and I'm going to go see the new Christmas movie with Jim Carrey... it's in 3-D. I'm treating my SIL and daughter out to the movies.

Have a good day! Hugs to Sassy... and Hugs to you!happy


myLot reputation of 96/100. CatsandDogs (6424)   ranked 11 out of 3,538 in me  3 years ago

I hope so Oreo because last year, mom cried and cried. I don't want that to happen this year and am going to do all I can to get her to smile and even laugh. I'm going to get her to talk about her younger days and all the mischief she and her girlfriends got into which will make us all laugh hearty.
Good for you, go to the movies and have a grand ole time!! Tell your daughter I said hello!
Sassy is doing fine. She's not in the room with me so I suppose she's outside having a good time chasing all the leaves that have fallen. lol

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24693)   3 years ago

The other roommate's son is currently stationed at Ft Hood, but he was out in the field that day so he wasn't around the shooting.

The roomie's folks were also in town so they weren't out at the base shopping, so those were the only 2 I would know that might be in the area and they weren't.

I went to CTC for a year back in the early 1970's, but obviously I don't know anyone there now.


myLot reputation of 96/100. CatsandDogs (6424)   ranked 11 out of 3,538 in me  3 years ago

Too close to home, isn't it Elic? We left there in '02 but still, having lived there for 10 years, it's real close to home. I feel so sorry for the families of the fallen but God help the indescribable word man that did the deed for he's alive still. I hope they nail his butt to the wall!

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (16793)   3 years ago

hi Cats I am glad that you started redecorating your bedroom cause I know it means a lot to you to do that.
I havent been online much during the last week or so and that will not change for sure in the following week. We will get that new computer system at work from Dec 18 and there will be more training plus our normal work too, so I will get home drained and stressed and, continue to handle things like last week that means use my husbands better and faster computer for an hour in the evening and then fall into bed.
Plus we will get craftsmen on Nov 18 so I cant do what is really needed, i.e. care about the Christmas cards and gifts now but tidying up this apartment is first priority now. I know for sure that the two weeks from Nov 14-29 will be a bunch of hectic with these craftsmen, then Christmas preparations plus two doctors appointments for me.


myLot reputation of 96/100. CatsandDogs (6424)   ranked 11 out of 3,538 in me  3 years ago

Hi book, I'm trying to catch up on my own discussions before going on to others. I'm so far behind and I know you are too so we float in the same boat on that. So just wanted to say hi since we've already chatted a bit so you're updated already. lol


myLot reputation of 96/100. book1962 (16793)  3 years ago

Hi Cats yo know why I dont have unlimited access to my computer right now though I will be on vacations for two glorious weeks so I wonder how I will be able to catch up on mylotting and some other things too.

But doing that Christmas Mail is priority #1 right now in these two weeks off so that is off my shoulders for the biggest part. There are only a few people where I dont even have the slightest clue of what would make a good Christmas Present for them.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. Polly1 (9354)   ranked 270 out of 3,538 in me   3 years ago

I've been busy living. Doing my best to make some money on ebay, business is picking up there. I am still seeing and talking to my new guy friend. I also spend lots of time with my mom running around, stuff like that. We spent the day together today, she had some shopping to do. My kids and grandkids live next door and across the street so I see them regularly. My little guy has been taking me out on dates, I guess he figuees if he takes me out on dates I don't have to go out on real dates. He is 4 yrs old, my precious buddy. Things have been going well for me, I do my best to stay positve and look at the bright side of stuff. We are not promised tomorrow, so I try to live today. Take care Cats.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. bing28 (2525)   ranked 445 out of 3,538 in me   3 years ago

I'll surely miss my mom this christmas Cats, reading your post reminded me of how always excited my mom as we prepare our noche buena and how happy she was once I go with her visiting her relatives and eventually collecting her gifts, (lol) Olds on Christmas are like children, they're excited with whatever little gifts for them, you know. I do admire you Cats for all your efforts in doing everything for your mom to be happy and enjoy this christmas. Love you Cats for this.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. doryvien (1502)   ranked 2,303 out of 3,538 in me   3 years ago

Hi Cats,

My mom lives in another country, and reading your post made me miss her more than I already did. Every other year she comes here (her hometown), but it's not in her schedule to spend Christmas here this year. I'm gonna see what I can send her for Christmas.

This weekend I've been so busy with my online activities, and helped my 10yr old kid with his project in school. I've also started decorating the Christmas tree but there are some fixes that still need to done. Maybe next weekend I'll be done with it (can't do it on weekdays, I need to go to work).

I've read that event in Ft. Hood on the net, it's really tragic. Hope it doesn't happen again, there in your country, or anywhere in the world.

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8. myLot reputation of 67/100. Pingfanderen11 (160)   ranked 2,308 out of 3,538 in me   3 years ago

Life is always rising and falling ,maybe it likes river,you kown,we shoud keep good mood to face everything in reality.

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. leenie50 (2134)   ranked 283 out of 3,538 in me   3 years ago

Hey Sweetie,

I really have to give you credit for caring for your parents. Your situation seems to be a rather difficult one. It's especially good that you don't forget yourself completely. Re-decorating your room is a wondeerful project. There is nothing sweeter than having a beautiful bedroom to go to when you want that serenity we all desperately seek in times of good and bad. I wish I could do the same but timing is all wrong.
Dennis and I spent Saturday and half of Sunday having a garage sale. We are in the beginning of being foreclosed on and will have to be out of here in 3 months if we are lucky. Tomorrow is our first Court hearing and we'll find out how much time we have to get out. So now we have to concentrate on getting rid of most everything.
With Dennis still out of work and me on Social Security Disability, I have no idea where we are going to go and how we are going to get a place to rent. On top of that, both our car and truck are broken down. My car won't start and his truck just putt-putts along. We don't even have the money to fix it.
Wed. I have to go to have another CT Scan to try and find out if I have lymphoma or something that is causing the enlaregement of two lymph nodes. That is if I can get my sister to take me.
I haven't been on the computer much lately either. Keep your chin up and I'll talk again soon.
Love Ya
Leenie

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. Thoroughrob (9552)   ranked 279 out of 3,538 in me   3 years ago

I hope she loves the clothes. It sounds as if you are staying really busy. You are doing alot better at getting things done than we are. I don't know when you have the time!

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