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myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships1 month ago

Women are so hard to understand. If you don't give in to their request they will make you pay for it. If you do give in to their request you'll end up regretting it. I've learned my lesson and I will never give in to my girlfriends request. Last year she asked me to give up a lot of things so that we can spend more time together. When I gave up a lot those things she eventually took me for granted. Talk about insensitivity, what I really hate about this is I could have prevented this from happening. I shouldn't have given up on all those things I was doing back then just to give in to her request. In my last discussion I was talking about how she was so busy in her work and we barely get to spend as much time together. I thought about it and realized that it is best to support her in career. This was not anymore an issue to me. What pissed me off this week was she rather spent the little free time that she has with other people. Things have changed with her ever since she transfered to another office. I used to think that we will end up with each other, lately I am having doubts with her. I don't know if she even knows that we are having a problem in our relationship. I don't even know if she even cares about it anymore. As for now I realized that the best way to handle this is to keep my guard up and prepare for the worse. I've already given up on trying to talk to her and make her realize. That is why from now on I will never give in to her requests anymore. I will only end up disappointed and angry at myself.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. Misterwit (1044)   ranked 4,552 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

Man...Go and get some other girls....one is not enough...there are a lot of cuties out there real nice. wub...try three or four...don't go for true love too soon...go for the false ones......I say they are too cute one is not enough ...

Men are getting weak nowadays....don't hate girls love them all...real ones,fake ones,images of them.. wub..girls just want have fun...man get adjusted... cool


myLot reputation of 90/100. ayebelle (229)   ranked 6,788 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

try 3 or 4? WTF was that? OK we girls will also do the same lol so it's fair.


myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

It is never fair. Even though I have I have the chance to do those things, I still wouldn't do it cause I know that that won't solve anything. Call me traditional but I would rather have the other party cheating than me compromising my belief. I know their are plenty fishes in the water, but it is important that you pick one instead of grabbing all of them. As the saying goes grab all lose all.


myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1405)   ranked 879 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

yep I agree with you witty.. men are babies today.. lost all the machoness that's why we women can crawl all over you like bees!w00t

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2. BrittneeD (71)   ranked 21,692 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

wha wha wha;_; just go get some other girl but honestly u should just do wat the woman wants and it'll keep both of u happy she knows best and always will!!!!!


myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

I may care for her but I don't want anyone stepping on me. The one thing that matters to me in a relationship is mutual respect. If she doesn't respect me as an equal than that is where I draw the line. It is also unhealthy to be totally submissive in a relationship. Even though I gave in to her in her request, I will not commit the same mistake twice.

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. abhikmjmdr (542)   ranked 8,964 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

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myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

You are right abhikmjmdr. My mistake, I shouldn't have generalize on all of the girls. I also have a lot of female friends who aren't like this.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. getbrowser (1427)   ranked 1,450 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

In my opinion, understanding and communication are the keys to keep a long and steady relationship.

As you have said above, you used to think that you will end up with each other and lately you are having doubts with her. But this is just your own thoughts. You guess that she even doesn't care about relstionship anymore, but you have no proof to show that she has fell in love with other. It is obvious that there are having a problem in the relationship and I think you should try your best to recover it other than becoming abrupt.

If you really love her, try to have a talk with her and tell her the truth. The best way is not to prepare for the worse. Instead, you should try your best to save your love. Wish you success.


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myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

You have a good point there Getbrowser, but I don't think this is the time I should talk our issues with my girl. I am really disappointed with her and I am still trying to sort my thoughts out. Maybe at the right time I will have a talk with her.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. hotsummer (2702)   ranked 3,249 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

oh i could feel how sorry about how your relationship is doing. it seems that you really got disappointed with how your girlfriend is treating you and is not giving much importance to your relationship. like she wants you to show importance to it but takes it for granted herself.

hope that you will find a person who will love and care for you like you do to a woman if in case you decide to break up with her and look for another one.


myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

As of the moment I am not thinking of anyone else. I still like to save my relationship with her. The only problem is if she is willing to recognize her mistake and try to change it.

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6. equdee (29)   ranked 17,197 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

may be your right,but just think how good you are,i think you can then forget and forgive and move forward

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. ayebelle (229)   ranked 6,788 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

Well you love her that's why you gave her what she wants. But you must think of yourself too. You sacrificed everything for her to be happy and what she pay for? You deserve someone better and Girls are different. Goodluck to you. You guys should talk and i know she will understand.


myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

Yes, we should talk about this, but now is not the right time.

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8. myLot reputation of 55/100. kush20006 (336)   ranked 3,340 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

relationship is an agreement which goes on till both the parties are agreeing and wanting but if any one of them voids the agreemnet it falls over
relationships are not meant to be broken
she would have asked u in good way only
i want to say that sometimes things go wrong and you take those things in negativeway and even all the positive things appear negative to you then

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9. myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (20708)   ranked 245 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

men are so hard to understand. if you dont give in to their request they not will but do make a gal pay for it.oh my
all or nothing, if this upsets you so find another girl but
also remember to think whether or not you have also made
requests and just forced the girl to give in. tit for tat
my friend..Maybe you did come off looking like a wuss, as I do
not know who is to blame I am wondering if the two of you just do not click, people who love each other usually try to make each other happy. If she really loves you she will not force you to do things that make you unhappy, and you need not be a push over either, and on the other hand do not request things that make her unhappy. I would say find a new girl friend,one who accepts you as your are, unconditionally. love should be unconditional. there should be no conditions made, if you love me you must do this or that, that is not unconditional love.


myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (20708)   ranked 245 out of 23,225 in relationships  1 month ago

lolcryangry


myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships  4 weeks ago

Actually we talked last night about our situation. I don't want to force things if things are not meant to be. Even though it hurts at first but things has to move on. I've saw a lot of thing in her last night that I don't like and right now I am really pissed with the past 3 years. Well that is life, you will never know what will happen. A lot of unexpected things will happen and all you can do is accept it.

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. jellymonty (1405)   ranked 879 out of 23,225 in relationships   1 month ago

Your girlie is really a tw*t ( excuse my French) I would kill to meet a bloke like you who has eyes for just one woman and has no ring on his finger. Sounds like she's got someone else on the side from the way you explain it. No point hanging around someone whose making you this miserable. I say pack your bags and let her be. You deserve a lot more than her.


myLot reputation of 96/100. elmasahe (331)   ranked 950 out of 23,225 in relationships  4 weeks ago

I've only been miserable for the pass few days, I never expected this to happen. Maybe it was because I completely trusted her and it never crossed my mind that she doesn't care anymore. After all the time we were hanging out together she only told me last night that she is having second thoughts about me. So that means for the past few weeks she was only pretending she was enjoying my company and that she was happy with me. About the thing you said about someone else, I also have a bad feeling that is one of the reason why she is acting weird. Maybe they are not yet together but I have the feeling that she likes someone else but is having some second thoughts about us. Anyway right now I am trying to sort my thoughts out and give myself time to fix my emotions right now.

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