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you caught your husband cheat on you, will you forgive him??? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 95/100. Gareth126 (511)1 month ago

Forgiving seems to be the most difficult process a wife undergoes after knowing that her husband cheats on her. Whether she decides to end the marriage or decides to stick it out, even if the decision is made, the feeling of being cheated is still there. It takes a lot of time to heal.

If i caught my husband cheating on me, i'll probably end the marriage right away.... won't you???

 
 
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fiazio (356) response was accepted on 11/11/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 84/100. fiazio (356)   1 month ago

Well, that depends.
If you think that he did that 'cuz he's like that, then go for it.
But if you think it was some reason behind, it. and if you think he will never do it again, you should rethink over your decisions


myLot reputation of 95/100. Gareth126 (511)  1 month ago

the husband could state alot of reasons why he cheated... and could make hundreds of promises to win back his wife... but the fact remains the same, he cheated on her which would mean that he's not happy with the marriage anymore, or he is not very much in love with the wife.

Could you please state some reasons why a husband cheat on her wife??? Thanks...


myLot reputation of 84/100. fiazio (356)  1 month ago

hey, there can be many reasons why that happened. I can't really say its different for every couple, maybe the thing that you both had, that spark is gone? Or maybe due to some misunderstandings, thats the thing that cause most of the break ups all over the globe.
SO i would suggest you to find the main reason behind this and then maybe come to the decision


myLot reputation of 95/100. Gareth126 (511)  1 month ago

Misunderstanding, problems at home, miscommunication, the lack of spark in the relationship should not be enough reasons for the husband to cheat on his wife. Marriage is a union of two people who promise to stand by each other... not hurt each other. It is nice to hear your opinion, coming from a man's point of view, i would like to think now we all deserve a second chance in life... Thanks fiazio!!

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2. myLot reputation of 49/100. babyania (131)   1 month ago

i totally agree that forgiving seems to be the most difficult process people undergo,. my bf once cheated on me. damn! it hurts like hell.
but i forgave him,although sometimes memories flash back into my mind and then find myself hurting again.

but in case of marriage, i don't really know what to do if i caught my husband cheating on me. married life is a lot different than being in a relationship but not married yet. if we don't have kids, then i can end the marriage right away. but if we already have, i think i will stay in our relationship. i don't want my kids will grow up having a broken family.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Gareth126 (511)  1 month ago

Growing up in a broken home could be very devastating. My parents had a very loving relationship, after my mother died, my father chooses not to get involved again. He still takes care of us until now.
While my son is a product of a broken home. He lives with me and visits his father's family on weekends.
Maybe that's the reason why i can't seem to fully understand why some husbands cheat on their wives, because my father is very loyal to my mother.
Thanks babyania!!!


myLot reputation of 49/100. babyania (131)  3 weeks ago

awwww, your mom is soo lucky to have your father. i just hope guys would realize the bad outcomes of cheating, especially in marriage.

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3. myLot reputation of 81/100. happy2512 (421)   1 month ago

If you really are decided to end it everything is up to you but you have to consider a lot of options to do that because regret always follow at the end. If you are not sure of giving him up please take time to consider his request that he really regrets it cheating on you.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Gareth126 (511)  1 month ago

You're right there...it is important to give people chances to change. Thanks for the input!!


myLot reputation of 80/100. barbara7321 (188)  3 weeks ago

I am sorry happy. I did give him a chance to change. Once a cheater always a cheater. I am sorry. I wasted 16 years of my life on a marriage that he never respected. A cheater is only as faithful as the opportunity that presents himself.

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. barbara7321 (188)   3 weeks ago

I regret not ending it right away. He cheated in the beginning of the marriage and then of course at the end of the marriage.I did forgive him once, but not this time. Yes, the first time he cheated it took 4 years to get over it. This time he cheated took a few days. I got used to not being able to trust him and to expect this from him. I shouldn't have to feel this way in a marriage. He broke it, and never fixed it. I am now happily divorced. Thank god I am alone!

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