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michael74 (50)   ranked 122 out of 3,117 in me3 weeks ago

Hi guys, i hope you could comment on this!

Is loving yourself selfishness? i don't think so, as long as you consider others too. Why? because in order to love others you must love yourself first, we cannot give what we do not have!If we don't feel love inside us, we cannot love also.

Loving yourself is good but not to the extent that you deny love to others around you.

Loving yourself, your body and taking care of it is good because you are taking care of a very beautiful gift, a gift of life.

 
 
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1. drewojeda (88)   ranked 1,510 out of 3,117 in me   3 weeks ago

Yes, definitely we should learn to love ourselves first because if we don't nobody else will. I mean we cannot love others if we simply can't love our own selves. But not to the point that we don't care for others and we only love just ourselves. It's an obvious selfishness which will do no good to us in the long run.


michael74 (50)   ranked 122 out of 3,117 in me  3 weeks ago

Hello,
I definitely agree with you! Love ourselves without compromising others!

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. xannebull (1302)   ranked 468 out of 3,117 in me   3 weeks ago

yes i do, i love myself by taking care of my body, i never drink alcohol nor smoke cigarette to make me feel healthy and free from diseases, it's one way of loving one's self. when you love yourself, then it's easy for you to love other people too.


michael74 (50)   ranked 122 out of 3,117 in me  3 weeks ago

I totally agree with you, we must take care of our body so we could use it to love others also!
Cheers!

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. Margajoe (2140)   ranked 10 out of 3,117 in me   3 weeks ago

Hahaha!
That makes me remember a time when I was at school. I was only 14 years old.
The teacher asked if there was anyone in the classroom who did not love themselves.
I used to believe it was selfish to love yourself, you must think of others before yourself.
Me and another girl raised our hands proudly. (Cause I believed it was the right answer,hahaha!)
The teacher than said what you said: If you don't love yourself you cannot possibly love anyone else.

It took me some years to realize what she meant.
I was a church goer for many years, and I was taught that thinking of yourself first is selfish. This is the way I used to live. I was nothing, the others were important, not me.
Then when I needed help, where did all the people go that I had helped in the past???

Here is where I started to wake up. If you don't look after yourself first, you cannot look after anyone else. If you don't love yourself, why do you expect someone else to love you?

I learned the hard way, better late than never. happy


michael74 (50)   ranked 122 out of 3,117 in me  3 weeks ago

margajoe,

I'm happy that you were still able to realize it better late than never,Loving oneself is not selfishness if you want to use yourself to love others!
Enjoy life!

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4. kat_isobal (18)   3 weeks ago

loving ourselves is not a bad thing, as long as it doesn't hurt others. in this life, asking the question, "what about me?" matters a lot. Just make sure you're still on the right path because once you lose the real you, it takes a great deal of struggle to get your life back.


michael74 (50)   ranked 122 out of 3,117 in me  3 weeks ago

kat_isobal,

I'm happy that we have the same thinking. We must alaso think of ourselves right?

Enjoy!

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5. myLot reputation of 78/100. SouravRC (226)   3 weeks ago

Loving yourself truly means loving your soul. It's less important to take care of your body if you don't care about your soul. Ask yourself are you helpful? trustworthy? honest and loyal? are you doing all your duties properly? Are you a good human being? If your answer is positive then there's no harm loving yourself. But most of us just think about our own benefits. That's not loving 'me'. That is selfishness.
Sometimes I love myself and sometime I don't. because at times i do feel i'm not the person that I wanted to be. So it's all about inner beauty.


michael74 (50)   ranked 122 out of 3,117 in me  3 weeks ago

sourvac,

Nice response, it is indeed loving your soul. it comes hand in hand. Loving oneself is not selfishness if you also think of others and NOT yourself only.
Cheers!

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6. swapnamurthy (61)   3 weeks ago

Yes i love myself.
The thing i love most in me is i never hurt anyone.

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7. myLot reputation of 85/100. triplejazzm51 (213)   3 weeks ago

Yes, as everyone says here, we should love ourselves. I believe that loving oneself is different than being selfish. Loving oneself for me is taking good care of my body so that i wont get sick. We should also maintain our self respect and dignity.


michael74 (50)   ranked 122 out of 3,117 in me  3 weeks ago

correct! As long as we could distinguish loving oneself correctly between selfishness, i think were on the right track!
Cheers!

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8. jayzelle (77)   3 weeks ago

yah I love myself because for me it is a key in order for other people to love you and respect you.

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9. myLot reputation of 88/100. Craicha (677)   ranked 1,401 out of 3,117 in me   3 weeks ago

for me loving itself is not a selfesh way....and yah i do love myself coz if i don't love myself i don't have good life now and i do believe that before loving someone we will start to love ourself first....

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10. zhouzhouing (7)   3 weeks ago

Yes,I agree to this point.I think everyone is different from the others .And everyone is the only one.We should take care of ourselves first and then to look after the other.we must love ourselves,don't make myself unhappy.

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