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myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting4 weeks ago

Today I have met one of my office staff, she told me that her kids just
5 years old boy asked her " what do you plan for my future?
when she was heard and have got shocked and told his son that just
thinking and will do good for you. So do you accept like this
question from her kids? and what is your future plan for your kids?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 86/100. reeyan (661)   ranked 4,618 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

Hi Binthu

Accept or not but kid goes more intelligent now. I think this is the effect of evolution. Perhaps some fays comes the kids will do the equation taking the birth. Not joking.....very seriously saying so.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi Reeyan,

All the kids are more clever now and also would be more smarter
than the adult, so we have to accept the question from the kids
to ask for the future plan. So as a parents we should take more
care on our kids in order to produce the good life for them, otherwise
they may blame us for not providing anything to their happiness.
So from this kids I would understand that parents has the responsibility
on their kids to give the good life as well as to provide the good
status for them.

Have a nice day.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. kezabelle (2671)   ranked 409 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

I only want that my children will be happy and content with what THEY them selves choose for their future.

I wont plan their future it is not my future to plan it is theirs.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi Keza,

Yes you are right, as a parents we should provide the basic things
to the kids in order to be happy and also to provide some moral supports
to them to have the good education and good habits. As a parents we
are having the responsibility on our kids, to teach them properly and also
provide them basic things for the happiness and life . The kids are more
clever and smarter now than the parents that is the reasons they are asking
their parents about their future planning.

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. Hatley (20689)   ranked 404 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

hi binthu what a bright little boy. My son never asked me a question like that
but from the time he could talk and saw a computer we all knew what would be
in his future, computers. that was it. and up til he was laid off last Oct. he worked as a computer programmer and now this breaks my heart.here he is fifty years old, a brilliant man,all sorts of experience and he is unable to get a job.He is still my little boy in my heart and I so want a decent job again for him. I pray all the time and cou ld use any prayers you mylotters couldspare. thanks. love Hatley.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi Hatley,

YES I am agreed with you, because this little boy would asked
his parents about his future plan and also I am surprising that
how the Kids are more smarter and brilliant to ask like this question
to confirm their good future from their parents. So I am really
very happy on this boy and also I would appreciate him about asking
this question. Well done and keep it up.

Have a great day.

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4. myLot reputation of 87/100. raiyandhaka (311)   ranked 7,932 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

now days kids are much intelligent and wise. i don't like to pressurise anything to them. i like to help them to choose their future plan, which will be really great, suitable and honorable to him. anyway i have only one baby child. i love, that if he prefer to be an entrepreneur and like to be a amateur singer in his life. whatever is he like to be, i don't mind, i take care anything what he like to be in future. i support him to fulfill his future plan with my best, including money. but off course i convince him to be loyal, honest, kind.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi Raiyan,

Yes you perfectly said, each and every parents expecting
the good loyal, honest, and kind from our kids, but unfortunately
most of the kids in this world would forgets their parents and never
looked in the future when required, that was the reasons many of the
parents still afraid to do anything to their kids because of doubt of their
kids. We does not know what is going to happen in the future, whether our
kids are loyal or not, but anyhow as a parents we should have the
responsibility to do some basic things for them to have the good life.

Have a nice day.

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. lichee_china (352)   ranked 7,844 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

The first future plan must be a sweety mother,so I should meet a girl and
marry her.if so,we can have a baby several year later.and I and his or her mother just be her back,not the judge.have a nice day.but for me,we will take a exam about mathematic.it's bad,really bad.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi China,

I am wishing you best of luck to have the good girl
to marry and then to have the good kids and then he must asked
you that what you are going to do for my future plan? may you
would answer for him that I want to do all the things for you in this
life and also don't worry and be happy we would take more care on you.
Similarly you have the examination in Maths it is really too bad because
you never prepared well . Anyway I am wishing you best of luck to have
the good marks in the maths exam at next time.

Have a nice day.

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. neelimaravi (585)   ranked 8,313 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

happyhi binthu, how are you, hey i have seen this topic in advertisement, shocked, anyway, my kids are too small to this their future, in future i will support with them what ever they want to acheive. now a days, the childrens are more more intelligents. we can't even question them also. thanks for your topic, have a nice day. thumbup.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi Neeli,

I am fine and also expecting same from you. This incident was happened
at our office staff home recently and she told me this story, when I was
heard this I am very shock that and also appreciating his boy how he is
more intelligent to ask such a question, and also as you have said that
nowadays all the kids more clever and have more knowledge than us, so we
can not beat them in the words, and also all we wish them good luck
to have the good life in the future.

Have a nice day.

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7. myLot reputation of 87/100. mdvarghese (994)   ranked 11,817 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

Hi..Binthu

A good topic. All parents will love their children and have many dreams about them. We as parents will try to fulfil the dreams also. We will try to tell them that we wanted to see you this and that. In the childhood they will be comfortable to listen and when they grew up they will chose the path which they have to walk or run. My plan and dream is that they should grow in good morale and they should be useful to the society in one way or the other. My only prayer is that my kids should not go into the wrong way


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi Varghese,

You are absolutely right, most of the parents would like
to have our kids in the right path and never want to be in the bad things
in their life. As you have said that as the parents we should always
supports them in order to have the good life, sand also to achieve their
dreams in their life, but unfortunately most of the kids are forgets their
parents in their future and never ever supports to their parents and left
in the hostel or some where else, so we does not know that what is going
to happen tomorrow, except the God.

Have a nice day.

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8. myLot reputation of 67/100. bentoyhk (181)   ranked 11,799 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

I have plan for my son when he was 1-year-old. I buy insurance for him, I arrange him to a good kindergarden and them now he is studing in a good primary school. Next year, he is going to go to the secondary school. He is working hard for himself to go to a top school.

It is lucky that in this age, he is going to plan for himself a litter. So I have less pressure now and I can enjoy my life again this time. Of course, it doesn't mean that I don't need to take care of him anymore, unless he can take care of himself now!

So having a kid is difficult from his early age, but you will most happy things within such period. Enjoy this period or you will lose it very fast.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi Ben,

As a responsible parents you have done the supports to your
kids and also most of the kids are intelligent and also more
clever than us, that is the reasons the small kids asked his parents
about this future planning. So we have to try our best to supports
our kids to have the good education and also to supports to achieve
their dreams in their life. Whether they are supporting or not
we does not know that, may or may not and also we should not expect
anything from them in the future.

Have a nice day.

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. sudiptacallingu (7136)   ranked 97 out of 14,915 in parenting   4 weeks ago

My hubby, our son and me…all three of us are happy go lucky types. We have our plans but in all probability, wont be able to make them successful so no point in worrying. Like all parents, we would want to give the best education to our child and to see him successful in this life. Regarding education, we’ve made a start in the sense that he goes to one of the most reputed schools of Kolkata but beyond that, I really don’t know. We are very middle-class family and money is losing its value so fast that we really don’t know how much money we would actually have to fund his higher or specialized education. And then he’s not a super genius either so no hope of any scholarship…but what’s wrong in dreaming? I dream of him going abroad for his higher education and getting settled there with a good job.


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi Sudip,


I am really appreciating your good plan for your kids
and also we would helps our kids to have the good life and also
to have the well settlement in their life. As a parents we are
always thinking about our kids future and do the most for their
growth as well as for the good life, similarly the kids would mind
the parents and also would supports them in the aged life when required.
But unfortunately most of the kids never respects the parents and left
alone in the hostel, so we does not know what is going to happen tomorrow
except the God.

Have a nice day.

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10. myLot reputation of 88/100. coolsudan (128)   4 weeks ago

i am not married and dont have babies either so havent thaught of it all for now ....but i will surely try to give them a good fututre .. i would learn from my parents how they raised me i would raise my children the same way ........coz my parents were "the best" and so i would also like to hear that from my kids ....
so my future plans for my kids would be to first perfect myself as a parent and then take care of all there needs


myLot reputation of 94/100. Binthu (3015)   ranked 389 out of 14,915 in parenting  4 weeks ago

Hi COOL,

First of all I would like to say best of luck to have the
early marriage in order to have the good kids and then take care of them
as you have said that your parents would take more care on you, similarly
you too like to have the more care on your kids. So this is a good plan.
I am also surprising that such a small Kid how he is asked his parents
about the future planning? I am really appreciating his ability and cleverness.

Have a wonderful day.

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