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myLot reputation of 95/100. Ruby722 (558)   ranked 601 out of 6,601 in enjoy life1 month ago


Will you tell someone if you fall in love with him/her But you know exactly your will not belong together in the end.
Here is the case recently one of my good friends fall in love with another guy.He is kind of perfect.Good looking,Rich,and funny.But my friend she just a normal girl.She told me that her fall in love with him.But she is afraid of refuse so she asked me If she should tell this guy she love him? What should I do? Should i tell her give a try or not stupid that prince always like princess.We just stay away from him? Any suggestion will be appreciate!

 
 
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tags:  love, expressions, affections, rejections, love failure
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1547)   ranked 888 out of 6,601 in enjoy life   1 month ago

I am girl and definitely I won't tell that person that I love him. That would be very shameful if I will do that end up a loser. I know nowadays, it's very common for women to tell those men how they feel. They have that self confidence. I have known a lot of women who will directly say their feelings to someone. But I'm different and I won't tell. lol


myLot reputation of 97/100. agv0419 (2240)   ranked 748 out of 6,601 in enjoy life  1 month ago

I think many women afraid to have a first move or to show their feeling to a guy. I think we are bit shy about telling our feelings to a guy because we afraid that we going to turn down or going to reject by the guy that we love. We are still traditional but if you have a courage why not tell him there's nothing wrong to that at least you try it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (1547)   ranked 888 out of 6,601 in enjoy life  1 month ago

Definitely, I won't trylol. It's really hard. I don't want to shame myself from saying that to a certain person. I know it's really a bad character, but that's me, actually. wink


myLot reputation of 56/100. tephoz2001 (161)  1 month ago

hi joannaleed
I agree with you. It should not express her feelings of love, first. Because there some men who think women like that too " BOLD". Many men who liked girl who tame pigeons.

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. anotherxidentity (880)   ranked 1,737 out of 6,601 in enjoy life   1 month ago

For me I don't think people really know what love is and in all reality all they are talking about is lust. In your friends situation I don't really think she loves this guy. If she honestly loved them I think that they would have to be together for awhile and actually be in a position to see if they work romantically. Once that happens I think the chemistry can develop and if she loves him then she wouldn't be afraid to tell him. Now if they aren't really close by telling him that she loves him is just going to make her sound like a stalker freak.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Ruby722 (558)   ranked 601 out of 6,601 in enjoy life  1 month ago


I understand your piont.But my friend she is a very kind gril sweet nice gril
I dont think she fall love in that guy cause she loves his money or some like that
anyway thanks for your responding~

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. bounce58 (777)   ranked 3,914 out of 6,601 in enjoy life   1 month ago

I think life is too short to keep hiding your feelings. If it is really love, then go fo it. Tell your friend to tell the guy. This way the girl doesn't have to worry and think 'what if?' Maybe I am just too old, but believe me that if she doesn't it would just be one of her regrets in life.
If the guy does not react, or tries to avoid her, then your friend should realize that he was not the right guy afterall.


myLot reputation of 70/100. owntuilp (213)  1 month ago

i can fellow what u told, i would be dont hide what ur feel with someone especially the one u really love to.when i was a high school student,i dont have the brav to express the feel to the girl i deeply love in my heart.but,one day i actually try my all energy and brave to write a letter to tell me all the truth.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Ruby722 (558)   ranked 601 out of 6,601 in enjoy life  1 month ago


I think you are right.Life is short, Feeling is the most important thing
When feeling is gone.Rich can buy happiness so i deicde to tell my friend she should tell that guy whatever the result.At least she wont regret.Thanks for your advice

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. amyson (757)   ranked 538 out of 6,601 in enjoy life   1 month ago

well,i will advice your friend that she will first ask the guy if he feel something to her.saying i love you is not an easy to say.its difficult to be rejected by the guy he likes or dump her.i don't know how will she handle this situation so far so give it a try nothing wrong with that.although she is not that pretty who knows?everyone have the opportunity to fall in love in a glance.support your friend and always be on her side if you treasure your friendship.gudluck..everybody needs comfort,love and care.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Ruby722 (558)   ranked 601 out of 6,601 in enjoy life  1 month ago


Hi amyson

It's a deal i decided support my good friend help her go after that prince and thanks for your encourage.Best wishes

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5. myLot reputation of 70/100. owntuilp (213)   1 month ago

in my opinion,you can tell ur firend give some other way to attenation the guy what is her feel for him,so that it can avoid some embaraess and shy.in a words,i heard one story it is mean that one person cant stay the same place to wait for u,all the time,so you had to do what you can do in time .wish ur firend can look for her MR right.

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6. Jetleena (11)   1 month ago

I am a girl, and though I'm shy I don't believe that you should hide feelings that come from the heart... And I have told someone that I love them even though I know that nothing will ever come of it.

If she loves him and knows for sure(!) that he will not return her feelings, I believe that she should still tell him, because in a way she would be proving to herself that she would not let a moment like that pass her by in life when the opportunity arises again, later on in life.

So, I think that she should tell him, and they dicuss what they should do next. If it would be uncomfortable for them to continue being friends or take some time apart.

But thats just my thought:)

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7. myLot reputation of 67/100. bentoyhk (181)   1 month ago

Yes, you better wake her up earlier rather than let her go into deeper side. She might be much sad after that.

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8. myLot reputation of 81/100. happy2512 (421)   1 month ago

Tell your friend to be honest to him and tell the guy what she really feels for there's no harm in trying you never knew unless you try. Just enjoy the moment each day for you never knew what will the future promise you.

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. SHAMRACK (3506)   ranked 1,319 out of 6,601 in enjoy life   1 month ago

Dear friend,
If I feel that the person to whom I going to tell is sure to give a positive reply then I would not hesitate to say my feeling of love. But if I feel that the person to whom I love may reject me then I may hesitate to express my love through words. happy

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10. myLot reputation of 79/100. shona264 (139)   ranked 693 out of 6,601 in enjoy life   1 month ago

I think love is a very genuine feeling,and it should not be hidden.Doesn't matter whether the response is positive or negative,as its not necessary that the one whom you love should also love you.Once you reveal the feelings that you have for someone,you feel relaxed,and the rest is up to the other person how he responds.After all,love doesn't mean achieving.Even if the guy doesn't accept your friends proposal,she can still keep loving him.

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