What do you love in your beloved? Why do you love her/him?
By Jenaisle
@Jenaisle (16568)
Philippines
November 10, 2009 11:56pm CST
There are several reasons for us to love a person, some would enumerate many of these traits without batting an eyelash, some would say, "I don't know, I just love him/her". My own perception is that the best answer is "I don't know, because it shows that the love is genuine, because the reason for love should be love itself. You love a person because you just do. If you have reasons like, "I love him because he's intelligent, etc" What would happen then if he's no longer intelligent? Would you love him/her less? What about you? What do you think?

2 responses
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
11 Nov 09
Hi dear!
I love my better half because she is very much caring and passionate about me. You do not miss a chance to look after me and is always concerned about my well being and comfort. She keeps paying constant attention towards my needs and comforts. She cooks sumptuous meal for me everyday and wins my heart.
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
Hello jenaisle.
For a love to be true, it should be unconditional.
I have read this article from Ms. Linda Mccloud and I just want to share it with you because I believed in it:
[i]Unconditional love is the best kind of love one can ever feel. To love unconditionally means you love somebody even though that person has faults. This means that you do realize that the person has faults and you can even see some of them. Yet, you love them in spite of these faults.
To go further, in this explanation, you also have to realize to love unconditionally you have to love someone so deeply that they can never do anything that will cause you not to love them. They could lie, cheat, steal or even commit murder and you will still love them. You may not love the act that they did; but you love the person that committed the act.
In an ideal world, we would love everyone unconditionally. We all strive to love our spouses unconditionally, but sometimes this kind of love is never achieved.
Two perfect examples of unconditional love is the love a mother has for children. Carrying a child and nurturing a child creates this unconditional love bond. We also have this wonderful love in God. He loves us unconditionally.[/i]
Have a nice mylot day my friend.



