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myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 164 out of 19,205 in relationships 3 years ago

Have you been falling in love with two person simultaneously? Do you believe people saying they fall in love with two person at the same time? Or they are not falling in love rather they just need the person? What do you think?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 86/100. eloouuu (114)   ranked 12,838 out of 19,205 in relationships   3 years ago

I think dependency and love are two things which are commonly confused. Love is subjective. To me, love is a connection with a person on such a level of intimacy that you could only share it with that one person. Love between one couple differs to that of love between another couple. Love is a feeling of completion, of adoration, admiration, worship, happiness, security, a unity. While I agree that there are many kinds of love I do not believe it is possible to have feelings of similar value for more than one person. I find that contradictory to the point of being in love. If you were truly in love and experienced what I have just described, how could you experience that with another person? If you were truly happy, if you felt complete, how would those feelings have ever been discovered or allowed to develop without a break of trust and confidence? It may be that people with different values and definitions of love may create a circumstance or a situation in which it is possible for them to justify the notion that they have fallen in love with two people however I would not describe that as love but indecision. A strong emotional attachment, perhaps, but not love.

Love is such a complex concept that it is understandable for people to be confused; to know whether or not that was what they were experiencing and I wouldn't think for one moment that any one definition of what it means to be in love could be correct. I also do not believe that if you have fallen in love once you can never fall in love again; I know from personal experience that relationships and emotions can change over time and love can be fallen into and out of, but I would also reckon that if somebody was developing feelings of this nature for one person it would come as a result of discontentment within their current relationship. Needless to say it is not something I have ever experienced so this could be seen from an entirely separate perspective which I have never considered.


myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 164 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

I really appreciate your effort for elaborating your opinions on this topic. I enjoy reading your comments. Yeah you're right, it could be impossible to give the same amount of love to two individual at the same time. Love is a different from needs. For me, sometimes it start with the need of the person where love blossom. It's on the feeling of pity where love begins that through time you will realized that you love the person and not just need.

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2. baba2020 (60)   3 years ago

its possible. you can fall in love with one or two or more....

Every moment in your life you will love with any one or anything.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. hagirl (951)   ranked 1,605 out of 19,205 in relationships   3 years ago

I think you can love someone and be in love at the same time....which is totally different..... Loving someone you do not have the intense feelings that you have when your "in love" When you are "in love" it is a heart and soul kind of love. One that cannot be copied... It is the love you have when you see that person and have butterflies..... You know when I first was with my ex husband I felt butterflies for about the 1st year, they did not last long.... I did not know any different and that it could be different..... The husband I have now I have been with since 2005 and I still get the butterflies when I have not seen him all day and even when I hear his voice on the phone.... I am "in love" with my husband but now that I know the difference I believe I was never "in love" with my ex but I just loved him. That sure changed.....


myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 164 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

It's good that you'd able to differentiate love based on your experienced because there are so many trapped of thinking and feeling of being in love. Only through experienced we'll able to learned. We all fall in and out of love for many times, but it's only once we experienced true love.

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myLot reputation of 94/100. hagirl (951)   ranked 1,605 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

I hate to say it but until you get older you do not understand the full aspects of Love... Even if when you are older you are with the same man.... You learn through experience like you said whether it is with the same one or the experience of divorce... I have expressed several times to other discussions the difference in this marriage compared to my first....It is the butterflies!!!!

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. rg0205 (1707)   ranked 3,790 out of 19,205 in relationships   3 years ago

I think it is possible. That's why some people are polygamous. I, however, am monogamous to for me, it is impossible for me to do that. For other people, I can't say because it's really a mindset and how they feel. I don't judge anyone who has fallen in love with more than one person at the same time.


myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 164 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

You're right, it's a mindset and we can't blame for other people feeling that way. It might be strange, and quite difficult to comprehend what they feel. But we're all different and unique individual and that's makes a difference.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. simonelee (1280)   ranked 482 out of 19,205 in relationships   3 years ago

I don't think it's love. The first person maybe the true love and the third party may be a feeling of wanting. sometimes people are often confuse between love and infatuation.
In this case it may depend on the current situation that the person involve.for example in his/her current relationship he/she is sick and tired of his/her partner and the love fades and here's another person that can provide him/her everything he/she needed in a relationships, this person may fall in love and the love from the other(first relationship)person may die.


myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 164 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

Yeah, I got your point. It's valid. Infatuation and love sometimes caught people in confusion. Especially when one is having some trouble dealing with present relationship thus enable him/her finding other person. That later on makes him difficult to identify which is which.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. se7enthbird (4975)   ranked 368 out of 19,205 in relationships   3 years ago

i think need is what is that. some people does not want to be alone so they always save one for a rainy day. i know someone who is like that. it is not fair but when they are hurt they always wanted to have someone to run to. i dont understand it for that would be unfaithful. for me you can never love two person at the same time. maybe others call it love but that is not love there is another reason to that. security? company? shoulder to cry on?


myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 164 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

Yeah, you're right sometimes people don't know how to define what they feel and they thought that it's gonna be love, as love often combine with need and longing with the person. As you said probably it could be company or security.

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7. myLot reputation of 73/100. tanajimengawade (122)   ranked 15,430 out of 19,205 in relationships   3 years ago

Hi,
No, fall in love with only one girl and now she is wife. It is possible, some people can fall in love with two person. But i think, such type of love will not exist for longer time. Because i believe in, Love happen at first sight and with single person. If you like another person, then, is your first love was fake or what? This will be unfair with first one. If you have confident that you can maintain very healthy and trusty love triangle then go for it. But take care that no-one get hurt. Hurt in love leads to very bad ending.


myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 164 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

I think we can fall in love for so many times, just like falling out of love, but we can experienced true love once in our life. But still love is a complex feelings that's hard to define and give definite meaning. But what matter is love give us life.


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myLot reputation of 73/100. tanajimengawade (122)   ranked 15,430 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

Hi,
I do agree with you. Love is really comlicated fact and unpredictable.
Thanks, have a nice day

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8. myLot reputation of 56/100. bernjane (131)   3 years ago

You can always give love to everyone but there is a confusion of what love can you give to a person. There is friendly love that you can always give to everyone even to your closest guy but a love that is sincere and its like gonna be heaven when you are with him it's different from the love you have given to anybody. You cannot both love the same person once because for a fact that you can live without the one and you can't live without the other. Maybe you are confused of the love you have given to anybody.

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9. myLot reputation of 62/100. krkavsy (160)   ranked 4,371 out of 19,205 in relationships   3 years ago

Not at all. It is not possible that a man can love two women at a time and vice versa.

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. lindiebiz (975)   ranked 1,971 out of 19,205 in relationships   3 years ago

I don't believe you kind fall in love with two people. Sometimes love can be confuced wth likeness and you can like someone deeply that you think you are in love. Infactuation can also be confused with love. Such people are confused and have not being able to sort out thier feelings.


myLot reputation of 95/100. careguarden (1264)   ranked 164 out of 19,205 in relationships  3 years ago

Yeah, they are confused and their feelings are mixed up that's why they thought and define it as love. Since love is quite hard to decipher and give exact meaning. And mostly infatuation are often confused with love.


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