What don't you like about your husband/wife?
By gicolet
@gicolet (1702)
United States
November 18, 2009 12:48am CST
We love our spouses otherwise we wouldn't stay married to them anymore but there are certain things that I don't like about my husband. I don't like his snoring! lol We've been married almost 7 yrs now and I'm still not used to it. Ok, and the other thing I don't like about him is he sometimes talk like he's serious about something and then days later he would say that he was just kidding or he didn't mean it...or he didn't remember saying it..or he didn't say it at all. I hate it whenever he does that!...but it doesn't mean I don't love him anymore. It's just something he does that annoys me.
What about you? What don't you like about your husband or wife? If you're not married yet then what don't you like about your boyfriend or girlfriend or partner? Certain habits or attitude...things like that. Thanks for sharing.
5 responses
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
18 Nov 09
The only thing i don't like about my boyfriend is that he can be really moody sometimes. He doesn't do anything to me though but I don't like being around when he's in one of his fits. The atmosphere seems thick and heavy. He's not abusive or anything but I just get uncomfortable.
@gicolet (1702)
• United States
19 Nov 09
Maybe you need to tell him how you feel about his being moody if it makes you feel uncomfortable. It's probably a lot easier cause you're not married yet. I've told my husband so many times about his attitude that i don't like...he change for a day or two then get back to his old self again. I don't think he has an idea about how much that particular attitude of his bothers me. Well i hope it works out with you and your boyfriend.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
19 Nov 09
I have talked to him about it and well, he is trying. He's already in his 30s so he's been like that most of his life. His niece who is my age lives with us and says that he's actually a lot better than he was before.
He's not completely gotten rid of his "mantrums" yet. I hope he will be, for his own sake.
Thanks and best wishes. Happy mylotting and enjoy the rest of your day.
@krkavsy (191)
• India
18 Nov 09
I love my boyfriend a lot. He is my life and I want him the number of times I come in this world. The thing that I dont like about my boyfriend is that is sometimes insensitive to my needs. We have been staying in the same city only for the heck of it but we never used to meet often as we are staying far. The other thing is that if if cell is switched off, he does not switch it on for a long time.
@gicolet (1702)
• United States
19 Nov 09
This doesn't sound very good to me. Most guys are insensitive. It's just their nature...but I think you and your boyfriend should communicate more. How could he not switch back his cell on when he knows that you might text or call him? I don't get that. If you're staying far from each other you must miss each other more so you both should try to get in touch with each other more often. Anyways you should tell him whatever bothers you. Take care.
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
I have been married for almost 8 years and it is just natural for us to see some flaws in our spouse, and vice versa. My husband is a compulsive buyer while I am not. We have differences when it comes to our buying habit and we sometimes end up fighting over an item which I find unnecessary while he finds very important. Other than that, my husband is the best. He provides us with everything. I love him very much.
@tanajimengawade (168)
• India
18 Nov 09
Hi,
Only one thing, she is short tempered, get angri very quickly. Another, if something happen in her office against her, by evening she use to fight with me. But, she is very good as person. she fight with me but 100 times more she loves me and taking care of family. It should be there, to maintain balance in life.
