Will you grow up and be responsible!!

@Fulltank (2882)
Philippines
November 20, 2009 6:48pm CST
I just said this one a couple of days ago over a co-worker who hadn't made any right work over this past few days. I have say it out of frustrations as it affects the whole team and would end up all of us in the hot seat. This words would often come-out of our mouth when we are frustrated and under the impression that the other person we are talking to seem immature. I knew that I have said it to my nine year old daughter before and felt sorry for it. My wife had say it me countless of times when in fight. In one way or another, have you ever said this phrase before?
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agonyaunt69
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
21 Nov 09
Come on, Cheer up! I believe everyone of us had said those meaningless words hurting others. We have to grow up by not letting people destroying our mood. It is important. Wrong words often come out from our month but not the deep inside of our heart when we are angry or frustrated. What is the solution,then? It would be better to change a bit our angles when looking at things, rather than to control our temper when we are so exhausted. Peace and calm is always good to everyone of us. If we hate or dislike something or someone, who is going to suffer? The first one must be ourselves. Don't feel sorry after we have done something wrong. It is too late. Happiness comes from our mind not from the others. No one could make you happy if you do not open your mind. The secret for someone to live happily and lively would be "to love'! Have a nice weekend. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (12:40pm Saturday 21 Nov 2009 Hong Kong time)
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getbrowser
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
21 Nov 09
responsible - Will you grow up and be responsible? Before we are ready to say it, we should be responsible persons ourselves, or, our words may be useless for lack of persuasion.
Now that you have said this phrase, it is unnecessary to regret doing that because these words are useful to help others be responsible gradually. Sometimes, when we are frustrated, we often don't control our actions and words, then we may tend to say these words which can hurt others. But for the long run, these words are helpful if they can get the point of such a phrase. Of course, before we are ready to say it, we should be responsible persons ourselves, or, our words may be useless for lack of persuasion.