Is your girlfriend a lazy .. smothering slacker?
By samawati
@samawati (140)
November 24, 2009 3:05am CST
You take her in , you buy her things ..you make love a couple of times ... she decides it's better if you move in together so that you can see each other more frequently because she cannot stand the distance .. and that one apartment is better than two.
After living together for a few weeks , she develops a habit. She no longer wears those "desiring" clothes that you loved so much on her ..instead she walks around the house with pajamas for the better part of the day and when she finally feels like it ..she takes a shower and puts back her pajamas ... she cooks but doesn't want to do the dishes , your favorite spot on the couch is taken and you can no longer enjoy the sports channel. It get's to you but since you love her you cope with it and hope she changes back to the girl you desired a few months ago.
After a whole month of living together there is still no change , but you still love her.It is noticeable to your buddies that you have also changed since she moved in with you ... then someone asks bluntly ... "Dude , what's up with you .. you seem different ever since you moved in with that chic" .... You turn your neck in a creepy fashion and shout out of frustration since you can no longer bottle it ...
"My girlfriend is a lazy smothering slacker and I hate it sooooooo bad"
A desperate cry for help ... yes this was me a few months ago ... I finally ditched her and decided that moving in is a big decision for future reference ... how many of you had had similar situations.
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2 responses
@Norah0804 (165)
• China
24 Nov 09
Hi, samawati
I have ever heard a proverb,"a question of distance". This means that we would have a better view far away from the thing we are looking over. If you live together with her, you would find many things you can't tolerate with, such as a bad habit.
You love her, so you have to tackle this problem. Try to talk to her with great patience, tell her your thoughts. If she can't change her bad habit, you have to reconsider your decision weather you would live together with her.
@samawati (140)
•
24 Nov 09
I confronted her before we broke up, after realizing that I have been holding back from the truth ... and the truth was ... I was never really happy with her around.
I mean before I knew her intimate details I was OK with everything , but when she moved in I saw a side of her that drove me nuts. If it makes you a little bit happier I am letting you know that we still talk , though not as much as before ... so am not angry at her in any way neither is she , we just weren't compatible in some ways and I think she understood.
@CathyLee2009 (429)
• China
24 Nov 09
hi,samawati!
why you mentioned her here,since you've broken with her?just want to talk or does she has some advantages you didn't mention here and you cannot forget about the nice time you spent together?
just ask...because you mentioned that "hope she changes back".
have a nice day!



