Would you still love the person even though he/she already love someone?

Philippines
November 27, 2009 11:41pm CST
Have you been in love with your friends or someone who happened to be already in love with other? Would you still love the person? Or would you stick and wait for the chances and possibility that you will be together someday?
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9 responses
• India
28 Nov 09
Its very difficult for me to forget one if I fall in love with a girl In my life, many times I fell in love but she is engaged with sombody else. Though it took time to forget her completely. I also get a girl whom I loved most but she could not accept me. But I was her best friend as could express everything to her. I never felt insecure when she was with me but time is very cruel. It took her from my life before getting her completely. I was sure if we were in touch for few more weeks I would able to win her heart. I have not got her after getting separated nor a girl like her yet. My life's one of the most sorrow is losing her. I still love her and now am with her photos and our loveliest moments
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Yeah, it's really painful losing someone we truly love. Especially when we know that we could have the person only time didn't give us an opportunity. But life must go on. It only means that there's someone out there who is meant for you. You must learn to let go of your feelings and live with reality. It's not good to live with our past, because we'll be only wasting our time. Little by little each day learn to open your heart to someone, meet other people and let go of the past. There's more to life! Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
• India
28 Nov 09
I indeed love a girl who is already in love with another person.........Though we are indeed best of friends but i can't stop loving her......... I will continue to be her best friend and will also continue to love her....
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Oh, that's so sweet of you! She's so lucky to have you as best friend. If she's happy you should be happy as well. You deserve someone who will love you. However if loving your best friend makes you happy, then keep on loving. You know already the consequences of it. Always remember to open your heart to someone who's willing to love you. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@musicman6 (2413)
• United States
28 Nov 09
Yes, these feelings have been in me! I am in love with someone that is already attached to someone else! But, I will never let her know, and I will never ever cause them to split! I will still love that person, and I guess I will just wait for the chance and possibility that we will be together someday!
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Oh, that's a bit sad. And it's great that you know where you stand and know what is right. I'm also in love with someone, but he's in love with his belief. I never let him know what I felt for him. Sometimes I think the time when we will be together someday though it's impossible. Still I believe that life has lots of surprises for me! Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@sagnik42 (3589)
• India
28 Nov 09
I fell in love with a friend of mine who was already in love with one of our batch mates. After about a year or so, she came to know about my feelings. She expressed her grief and inability to be with me. 5-6 years have passed and they are still together. They love each other and are happy in their lives. I still have a very soft corner for her, but whether it is love or friendship, I am not sure anymore.
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Oh, that's a bit sad. Well I think you're not really meant for each other. Because nowadays she's happy with someone. But what is good is you're learning to move on as you don't know what you felt about her now. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
Hi careguarden,No,If its happened to me,i will find another guy who can love me with all his heart ,and with out comppetting some one.Why stick to that kind of guy, better move on and enjoy life.Thanks,Good luck!
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Yeah, it's better and good to move on with our life and let our self find happiness and love to someone who could reciprocate our love. We deserve to be happy and to be love. Let the person be happy with his/her own life. Though it maybe difficult task to do, but we can make it. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
• United States
28 Nov 09
If I was in love with someone that was in love with someone else, I would disregard it. It may be painful. But necessary. Also, it doesn't have to be bad. You can be friends with them. You could wait. Like you said. Maybe you will be together. Love is nice. But you can find it elsewhere too.
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Yeah, there is nothing wrong on wishing and hoping for happy ending with your love. Well it could be good that even though we're in love with the person we still open our heart to possibility of finding someone who would requite our love. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@simonelee (2715)
• China
28 Nov 09
Hi, there. My current partner was so inlove with another person before we become couple. Though they are no longer together but I know her heart and mind was still attached. What I did was is to help her to overcome the pain and find happiness without relying to her ex's. Waiting is fine but you must know your limitations. Avoid being the cause of their break ups.
@Norah0804 (165)
• China
28 Nov 09
The answer is yes. Now i am single since i just feel like waiting for someone. Several years ago, i fall in love with someone secretly, he didn't notice my feeling since he was so famous in our school. After that, i never have met a person like him, and my exboyfriend said i would never forget my first lover. Not too long ago, i see my first lover, he has a pretty girlfriend. Despite of that, i still like him.
@kaylachan (84699)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Nov 09
I feel that if you truely love someone. It can be painful. You may have those feelings returned, you may not. But, part of loving someone is wanting to put their happyness above your own even if you aren't happy in the end.
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Yeah, being hurt is part of loving. When you're in love, you know that you can be hurt in one way or another. And yea, I agree with what you said, that when you truly love someone you'll consider first his/her happiness before yours. Her/his happiness is your happiness. Unconditional love is hard to find nowadays, because most of us when we're in love with the person, we want be love as well. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy the rest of the weekends!