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myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love 3 years ago

Have you experienced to be in love with a two person at the same time?...

For the situation that you are single but in a relationship, then you suddenly felt
that you are also in love with the other guy who is not your current partner.
One more thing, you've found out that that other guy is also in love with you.

How do you handle this feelings?... What is the best thing to do about it?...

I believed that you cannot love two different person at the same time, it is unfair to love and have them both. You must set the other one free.


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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. fjaril (6097)   3 years ago

OO krystal!! I cannot tell you this one. I have never been in love with two women at the same time.. not THAT kind of love, I mean. I wouldn't know how, I think. How does that work. If I am really 'in love' with my wife, I can imagine that another lady might seem funny attractive interesting, but no way would I get a love for her since I truly love my wife!

I wonder if yo really love your the guy you are with right now?? or is it just a Nice habit and the grass is now suddenly greener somewhere else. That is not a crime either, becuase it is better, when you are young and not married to decide really who you want for your future husband.. do you think? Is that not dating is about ?? to explore and find the one best for you??


myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

Hi there, thanks for sharing... You are right... It is wise to choose whom I think I want to be with the rest of my life while I am still young and single. I should take things slowly, and not rush on any decision making. Dating is not all about dates, talks, getting to know each other... but it is also a way to explore and find the one who you think is best for you. Thanks for that...

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. jewels49 (1124)   ranked 264 out of 368 in fallen in love   3 years ago

I don't believe you can be really in love with 2 people..Generally speaking I think that when those things go on it's when there are some issues or problems in the main relationship. When that is the case it isn't love..It is the grass is greener on the other side thing going on.


myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

Oh I see... probably you're right jewels49. I should think about it a thousand times... maybe me and my heart, we got issues... and it is better to figure it out than to hurt two people.


myLot reputation of 95/100. jewels49 (1124)   ranked 264 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

There ya go..now you're thinking.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. ybong007 (4482)   ranked 260 out of 368 in fallen in love   3 years ago

You can only love one person at a time. Those who thought that they are in love with two persons at the same time is not in love at all. What they could be feeling is lust and it's plain cheating. When you say love, it is more deep. Others say it's a commitment, how can you say you are committed when you are being unfair to both persons? Personally, those claiming to have fallen in love with two different persons are not feeling real love they are just feeling a very strong attraction to that person. Just like when you're younger, you just have a crush and you can say that you're in love. People are just being selfish and blame love for their feelings hoping that others will forgive them for it. But sooner or later, they will suffer the consequences. Cheers!


myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

Hi there, maybe you are right in some point... but not totally... Maybe it is not exactly love.. maybe it could just be an infatuation... meaning... falling in love in the concept of love. But it doesn't mean that the person who thinks he/she loves two persons at the same time is a real selfish one. He/she must have issues in his/her heart trying to figure out what it is. It is sometimes hard for someone to search what is really the desire of his/her heart. Let us not be judgmental because we sometimes don't know the life journey of that person. Thanks for sharing your opinion.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24688)   3 years ago

I have loved many cats at the same time, but romantic love has never been in my picture - I do love a guy, but since he's afraid of commitment its never been an issue.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. vijayanths (1619)   3 years ago

It is unfair to be in love with two persons. But it is possible to be in love with more than one person, it depends on the attraction and situations. The definition for love also differs from one person to another.

( It is difficult for me to get one person to love, how you all get more partners? can you pass on the secret? hehelol)


myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

oh I see... yes it is quite true that if you think you are in love with the person at the same time. That feeling could have a difference in some extend. It is also unfair to have them both... you must set the one free... and set your self free from that feeling.

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6. IamSamm (53)   ranked 261 out of 368 in fallen in love   3 years ago

I could not imagine hows that possible to love two person at the same time
when i love a person he is the only one and its not really easy for me to fall in love once not to mention twice for me personally that's impossible
plus is soooooo not fair to the once you love and yourself.
from the situation you mention it might been just a crush altho i don't think its possible to have another crush except your love one
listen to your heart and choose the one you can't live without,the one who his negative side wont effect how you feel about him. But if your not ready to be committed than enjoy your "friendship" live with both and find out which one is right along the way


myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

Hi Sam, very well said. I agree to you. It is better to choose wisely... choosing someone whom you want to spend the rest of your life. That you accept him whoever he is... that his negative side would not affect how you feel about him. Thank you for that wonderful thought.

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7. logoseeker (10)   3 years ago

yes, and i makes sense because the heart wants what it wants, however, you must choose at some point what road to follow because if you were either of the ppl you'd want the person to choose you. yet still, i'm sry because i understand to have the butterflies and sappy romance feelings for more than one person. in some cases its a different type the more comfortable i'm happy to be with you and then the more passionate live life in every moment type of love....NOT LUST that is different cuz in lust you could care less about the person as long as you got what you wanted in the end. furthermore if its lust you wouldn't care about the person being gone, you'd think well "happy time" but love is different because you honestly feel i want them around regardless....again sappy but it can happen.
i hope you find what road to follow i believe it take, thought, prayer and good'ol sanity to do because one you don't want to lose out and you want to be happy.
best advice i can say.
which one do you wake up thinking of first
who do you forgive first not matter what
and lastly, who are you vulnerable with and not afraid to stay like that with


myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

Hi there logoseeker, thanks for sharing... It is quite difficult to feel that way... especially if you are somewhat guilty that you are being unfair. It is really wise to choose whom your heart desires. Even if you always want both of them to be around you... you must set the one free.. listen to your heart and seek God's guidance. God will help you choose the right path if you believe in Him and entrust everything to Him.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. monkeylong (2369)   3 years ago

As far as I am concerned, I think I will not fall in love with two persons at the same time. If I love my firl friend present so much, I think I will not have the chance to love the other person. So if you love, please love so deeply. Hope you get a comfortable life.


myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

Hi thanks for sharing monkeylong. I am happy for you that you have a wonderful realtionship now with your girlfriend. Your girlfriend must be blessed to have a man like you. But sometimes it is unavoidable to some people to experience heart issues like this one. There could be a lot of reasons behind it.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. keep_onwatch (1841)   ranked 258 out of 368 in fallen in love   3 years ago

Being in love with two people at the same time mans that you are interested in both of them, but not in love with them. You can never be in love with two people, but yes, you can find two people interesting and may like both. Well, the best thing is to take a test and stop being in contact with both of them, the one you miss the most would be the right one.


myLot reputation of 93/100. krystalheart (380)   ranked 142 out of 368 in fallen in love  3 years ago

Oh that could be an effective way to know whom your heart really desires. I guess it is not actually love but an infatuation. It may seems that they both got your interest, but not necessarily love.

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. agv0419 (2934)   3 years ago

I wish I could but I never been in love with the two person a time. I've been in love before but sad to say the guy don't have a feelings for me. That time he also have a girlfriend I don't want to destroy their relationship. Right now we are seeing each other but we only friends and I don't want to pursue my feeling to him even if he has no relationship right now. You should choose between the two and don't hurt other feeling because in the end you going to realize who do you love the most.

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