Do you want a key to his apartment?

key - key to his apartment
United States
December 7, 2009 9:03am CST
HI, I listened to the radio this morning regarding about a relationship that a girlfriend wants to have a key to her boyfriend's apartment. I have a thought about it and it seem to be interesting to put on here. well, if you have a boyfriend. Do you want to have a key to his apartment or his house? and why? what the reason make you want to have control in his personal life even you are not married to him yet. For me, I came from a country that full of religion. First, we can't be boyfriend and girlfriend long, we have to get marry soon. Second, if we are not married to anyone then we have no right to come and go in his/her house. Third, we can't take control on someone life if we are not married to each other. Forth, mostly the man has more choice than a woman in married. These are still going on in my country and when I raised up here then I found some are good and some are not good for me. Such as asking my boyfriend for his apartment, it is not one of my type. I dont know why but why would i want to involve in his home, where he loves to keep all his personal life with. If he is ready to give me then I accept with smiling in return. I know most of girlfriends here (usa) want to have it just to see what he has in his house and what he has been hiding from you. For me, pushing someone to do something that they dont like to do then it is not me either. What do you think? is there something wrong with me? What about you? do you think it is good to have one of his key?
2 responses
• China
8 Dec 09
aha, i haven't boyfriend now, but i am able to understand the situation,in my point ,i think i would like to have a key to his apartment,because i am is him girlfriend,he is my boyfriend ,maybe,in the future we perhaps can't become husband and wife,but,who care..we are young should do something that we like to do,no matter what happen next step,when i have the key ,i can clean him house?cooking for him at anytime,how happiness it is ,god!where is my mr.right,i want to get his house's key
• United States
8 Dec 09
hi, if you dont mind... how old are you? if you a teenager then you can't say you can do anything you like to do because you are young. NO... Before you do something you have to think and if you did it then you have to take responsibility. Well, I had been through teenager life and I know what is right and what is wrong... hang out with friends are good only if your friends are good. Don't take me in the wrong way... involve in someone life is not easy... so think before you do. NOw, back to my discussion... you can have his key if he agree to... sometime a man like to be alone(personal time, himself) and he doesn't like to have someone take control over him before he gets married. some men like it and some doesn't... he thinks you are too secure and it is hard to take sometime off. Just like yourself... sometime you want to be alone right. However, if he is my fiance then I will ask for his key
@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
well, everyone of us have there own opinion and prefer different things. If your boyfriend is being open all this time and he seems to talk to you about everything he's doing and meeting. then i guess there's no need to ask and inspect his house. now, if the boyfriend is being to secretive and goes out a lot without telling you where he has been, then go ask a keep and give him surprise visit now and then find out what you find out. We all have different instict. so I guess its not that wrong
• United States
8 Dec 09
hi, I dont have a boyfriend... im married... it is just an discussion that I heard on Radio so I want to find out how many of us here love to have a key to his apartment. lolz.... your respond is good to think about... surprise him someday huh? good one... I will tell my friends that