Mom says I cant watch Tv in her house on Sabbath  |
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| Yes I am a grown man and I don’t live my mother but she is a seventh day Adventist and when I go to look for her she says that I cant watch TV in her house on a Friday. Now I think that this is like imposing her beliefs on me and I was thinking that I could watch my Tv since there is nothing else to do anyway while se maintains her Sabbath. Isn’t it possible that we could do both and still be happy ? I mean if I was a Muslim and she came to my house ,should I force her to worship five times per day while she is prostrated and turned to the east ?We have had many passionate discussions about it but when I go to her house I conform ,even though I dont agree What do you think am I being unreasonable ? Or is she being a dictator ? (she is sweet mom by the way ,this is our only bone of contention lol ) | | | | | |
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1. xfahctor (7623)
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3 years ago
| | I would look at it this way. It is her house. I would just honor her wishes if no other reason than that. Grit your teeth and respect her wishes is what i would do in your shoes. Good luck. | | | | | | |
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2. sarahruthbeth22 (15801)
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3 years ago
| | It is her house and her rules. If you want to watch t.v. , then visit her After the Sabbath. That's what I would do. I am not that strict in my beliefs but I do respect others.It is her way of keeping the day holy. but if you are of a different belief then just leave her tp practice the Sabbath and visit her on another day. That way you get to watch television And she still gets to see her son. | | | | | | |
ronnyb (3489)
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3 years ago
| | Thank you for your answer .I usually dont go to her house anymore on a sabbath because I know I will want to watch Tv and that is not allowed lol | | | |
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3. Pose123 (8270)
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3 years ago
| | Hi ronnyb, Since she is a sweet mom and this is your only contention, I think you should go along with her. A good mom is very special and can never be replaced. Blessings. | | | | | | |
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4. curiousplay54 (239)
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3 years ago
| | Hi ronnyb, I don't think your mother is being a dictator. She is just holding to her belief that they (the SDA) will not do any work on Sabbath day. I have many friends that are SDA and I have no problem following their restriction, I'm a Catholic by the way. I guess she is strict with her house rule because she wants to avoid temptation (from doing something that she's not suppose to do on that day) so just relax and respect... | | | | | | |
ronnyb (3489)
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3 years ago
| | Ok I understand in a sense but it still feels harsh that I have to subscribe to her beliefs in this way when I am not an adventist .A friend of mine suggested that it is teh temptation she is trying to avoid.Thanks for your answer | | | |
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5. surfette (525)
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3 years ago
| | Everyone has "house rules" in their own home. It doesn't even have to be based on religious beliefs. It is disrespectful to go into anyone's home and proceed to do what YOU want to do. I won't touch anything in my mom's home without asking first or getting permission. That is just basic respect. Is this this only day on which you can visit? Perhaps you can change days. I don't think she is imposing her beliefs on you. She is just conforming to her own. You are the visitor and thus, should willingly abide by her request. As long as you have a good relationship in all other areas, this should really not become a wedge between the two of you unless you choose to make it one. Enjoy your visits and perhaps play a family type of game like Scrabble if that is allowed. | | | | | | |
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6. ANTIQUELADY (16514)
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3 years ago
| | sHE IS BEING OPIONATED BUT I'M SURE THERE IS NO CHANGING HER & I ADMIRE U FOR BEING A GOOD SON & RESPECTING HER WISHES. My mother & i didn't see eye to eye on anything so i'm glad this is the only problem u have w/her, u are lucky there. | | | | | | |
ronnyb (3489)
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3 years ago
| | Yes she is lol ,very pasionate about her church and I resepect her wishes and try to go look for her on another day other than Saturday .Yes we may have passioante discourse but nothing that will ruin our relationship | | | |
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7. anniefannie (1358)
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3 years ago
| | you should respect your mother's beliefs don't go to her house on fridays if you had rather watch tv.go another day. | | | | | | |
ronnyb (3489)
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3 years ago
| | Good answer and that is what I ahve been doing of late or if I go to her house ,I leave before sabbath | | | |
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8. poingly (318)
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3 years ago
| | If I go to my parents on a Sunday, I don't go to church... Then again, my mom no longer makes me, but I understand those parents that do. What would she do to you if you turned on that TV? | | | | | | |
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9. borg246 (449)
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3 years ago
| | I'm not sure what religion your mother believes in, but it could be for the reason that on the Sabbath nothing should be done, no work, no school, no play, no tv, nothing. Just a day of rest and maybe praying towards God. At least from the religion lessons I used to take, that's what I know and think about the Sabbath. I suppose she is very dedicated to her religion and does not want to disobey what God wants her as well as all of us to do. | | | | | | |
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ronnyb (3489)
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3 years ago
| | Great answer I guess you layed it out quit nicely .If I were a muslim I wouldnt want that to happen so I see now why I need to respect her wishes | | | |
poingly (318)
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3 years ago
| | If I were a Muslim (or Jewish) I wouldn't mind someone else eating pork in my house--but it would upset me if they were force feeding me it! haha. I think another thing this guy has against him is that parents expect their kids to be the same religion as they are (usually). Orthodox Jews (for instance) aren't allowed to work on their Sabbath, but they can get someone else to do that work for them! In such an instance, seeing one's son or daughter doing these sort of things on the Sabbath is like seeing them forsake their faith (in the parent's eyes). | | | |
mzz663 (1423)
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3 years ago
| | That could be the case, two of my kids switched religion when they got out on their own and I'm not angry about it, I could understand parents that do get upset about their kids following a different religion, but it still all boils down to respect that goes both ways, for the parent and their child. | | | |
ronnyb (3489)
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3 years ago
| | nice point Poingly ,very good point and I kind of get that impression from her too,she has been trying to convert me unsuccessfully for so long | | | |
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