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myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865) 3 years ago

We all know that there are no perfect employer and employee. I have to admit from the start I hate my company although I have the guts to stay there for 5 years. Its so hard to find jobs now that is why I stayed. Christmas is approaching of course everyone of us will have a party to attend to. We have Christmas party and I am thinking of attending it. I decided to attend, because I have thoughts that not all of the company today have a ready Christmas party for their employee, I was blessed that our company will have. As of situation of the Philippines now, not all are celebrating Christmas but our company decided to celebrate it. Do you know why I hate attending, about the awards. Every year there is an award given to those people who are deserving to received it. Just 2007 I witness that the award committee was not evaluating the tally board seriously. I became a part of the evaluating committee that is why I hate the award session. During the award , it is always the same person winning it and when someone won an award and not the same person as last year you will see the faces of some expecting themselves to win unhappy and somewhat protesting discreetly. In other words our award session is manipulated. Whenever the award session is happening I want to slap the faces of the undeserved one, I really read their devilish smile. Of course they are happy because they have additional cash. I am not even smiling or clapping for them.

On the other hand, i decided to be happy this year. i don't want to get affected by them. I feel blessed eventhough I had experience many problems. I am thankful that I am still alive I want to be happy I want to enjoy, because we don't know maybe it will be our last day of our lives. And I want to have a spirit of Christmas inside me. How about you? do you hate your company and do you attend your christmas party even if you hate it?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. chelsgrrl69 (134)   3 years ago

I would not attend anywhere that I feel uncomfortable or uneasy. If I had fun at the party, despite the people, of course I would go because I will not let anyone get to me, or else I would NEVER be happy. But if there was no point in going, I would not go. I will be attending my christmas party this year, as well as at my mothers church because I enjoy it. If I had problems with anyone at my job, I would still go, because I can have fun despite haters.


myLot reputation of 82/100. drakesuyat (817)  3 years ago

very well said chelsgrrl69! in the first place, the party is intended for all and everyone deserves to be happy on that occassion.


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

Yeah, only YOU can make YOU happy. If you want to have fun, no one can't stop you even the devil around. Thanks for the response.

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. drakesuyat (817)   3 years ago

christmas parties happen only once a year. we can never really avoid experiences such as yours in a certain company but imagine this, what if you were so annoyed with some of your colleagues the whole year and this is the only time of the year that you'll enjoy for yourself? will you be depriving yourself for happinesshappyanyway, its christmas time and time for giving love. happy mylotting and merry christmasthumbup


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

I agree, as like my response on above, no one will stop you from having fun. And I will still be waiting for the raffle prizes though.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. amyson (1096)   3 years ago

yes i will attend the x-mas party it the most happiest party of the year.i think even i hate someone else its time to forgiveness and just enjoy the party.last year i attended a x-mas party the party was very lively and everyone is happy to see beautiful decoration that my group applauded because we are the design committee and incharge of decoration and games.the x-mas party was successful although one of of my member i hate was also present i just somehow ignore her but before the x-mas party ends i talk to her and i forgiven her because she was absent yesterday while we are putting up decoration.


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

Your party includes patching things up, that's good. Thanks for the response.

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4. myLot reputation of 76/100. neelianoscet (3123)   3 years ago

I would still attend to be with the spirit of Christmas need to rejoice and take away those bad thinking which could only makes your life miserable if one have to focus on it ruining any of your day. I myself attend any Christmas parties to enjoy the festive seasons and never let those uncanny and arrogant people get on my way as their are more nicer people around which out weight those nasty people. For the spirit of camaraderie it is good to enjoy the parties and prepare to enchants those around you with lot of positivity as more blessing would comes to those who know they are in good sides.


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

No one will get in the way....I like the attitude! Thanks for the response.

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. sublime03 (1466)   3 years ago

Even if I am unhappy with previous company, yes I still went to the christmas party. To me it was something you just want to go for the sake of it. And besides that is the only time I get to wear a dress so I go anyways. I was so unhappy with that company but of course there will always be something that will tick you off with companies or co-workers.


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

Why were you wearing uniform? that's right attend the party for the spirit of it. Thanks for the response.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. learn2earn (16920)   3 years ago

If I hated my company, I would not tolerate to be part of it, even attending its party. I believe that if we work for a company or for somebody, we need to speak well of that company or person; stand by the institution it represents, and not to hate it. I will be attending two company parties next week and I am happy that I can attend one. The first party is just in our department and the second is the whole company employees. Have a wonderful Christmas party.happy


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

So you like your company now? Thanks for the response. Have a wonderful Christmas party to you too.

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7. hitenkumarp98 (64)   3 years ago

christmas is a festival of joy. Every people have right enjoy freely nad joy fully.
and i think your thought is little bit negative, so that's why you hate the award which will be gvn to the x-peerson for their acievement.

just change your thoughts and think from different side that you can also been able to get award , if work hard nad gvn 100% ,you must get the awards.
yaa sometimes politics play a major role in each and every schenario, but not yet every time this happen.


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

Because those had given the awards do not deserve it. Actually in our every award there is a question mark left on the forehead of the audience.

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8. myLot reputation of 16/100. dependent (125)   3 years ago

u should get used to that , it is
normal in
our daliy life.life should be a process of giving and taking .only
when it is truly dark will u see the stars


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

Yes I guess I now get used to eat. Thanks for the response.

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9. didnotask4it (90)   3 years ago

I dunno if i'm responding to this because of the topic or because of your peculiar smile in your photo..ha ha..well, i am attending our company's christmas party even though there are people there whom i do not consider as friendly and worthy of my attention. This is because I believe that if I don't go to the party it will be more of my loss as there are lots of goodies and giveaways and raffle prizes. I just join my friends and not think about the not so pleasant people present in the party. I'm sure I'll survive and still be happy at the end of the day.

You really can't avoid having politics even in the office...no matter how big or small your company is. The trick is not to get yourself so much involved with it.

Hope you'll enjoy the party!!


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. flower21 (430)   3 years ago

I do as i have a thick skin..lol..even though i hate my employer i am still thankful as i have a job than none at all. All is still a blessing though some aspects irritates me. i ned to be patience and still enjoy the spirit of christmas.


myLot reputation of 93/100. grecychunny26 (7865)  3 years ago

I like the answer. It is simple but substantial. I also have that kind of thinking. It is still a blessing to have a party. Thanks for the response.

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