Tiny incident .... major effect.  

Hi eshaan

That is the problems in life that all incident never lays positive impact. And the effect of any incident can't be eradicated. It changes the lifestyle. So long some people keeps something in mind but some tiny incident saturated all determination of mind. And they have to compel to change their lifestyle. It is obvious that momentum constitute the life. And no single moment can't be ignore. But the mystery in life that many major incidents are ignored but tiny ignorable incident creates a major change in life. I can estimate all this even guess and elaborate the momentum but as a man I can't puristic the impact.

Anyway, why don't we keep all the positive energy around us instead of keeping negative. If you are a positive thinking person, and you are surrounded by negative thinking people, eventually, you will be negative thinking too.

Hi kingparker

Impact on the subconscious brain can't be control by human mind. That is the destiny of life though we don't like but we have to carry somethings in our life with out willingness. And perhaps that is called fat. People mind may be stronger in many case but it is very weak in case of subconscious brain. People can try to keep free from those effect but fails.

Very tiny even that has a quality to be a matter of joke. I can bear thousand time pressure than that one.Even I had tried to ignore. But life is not a mathematical equation. Every things of the mind can't be controlled be conscious brain. Subconscious brain is out of the control of human being. Once I have thought that that incident can't lay any effect on my mind but surprisingly I am very helpless in this regard. I am effected and very badly. I know very ignorable incident was that. Lot of pressure I can handle in my life..... But very badly I have failed in this case. What am I expressing is not a matter of joke but the joke can be a matter. Interestingly I am still fine but some changes come to my thinking. I can realize that I am changed. And the way of changing is against my willingness. But I am very helpless. I am compelled to be changed.

Explanation can't be any remedy there. I can justify and try to make up but I am sure that I can't save my mind from this disaster of my life. I just can say that I am changed.

Peoples used to get tiny incident and also feels bad some times
still we have the hope and confident, that was the reasons still
we are alive, otherwise we are supposed to die earlier from this
world, so we must changed according to the places, Is it right or not?

Binthu

Confidence, knowledge, wisdom, desire and the reasoning have no value in some cases. Very easy to say take it easy but to be easy is not in our hand. And mystery of life is that people have to live. People live accordingly to the needs of the day with the negative impact of the incident too. Not an easy task to live according to the desire. People try to maintain all those as their desire. But those tiny ignorable ( which are not possible to ignore) incident changes the direction of life. And people is directed to that path. Some people die earlier. But it is not easy to die earlier for all. They chose to life with the change. Because it is easier to live with changed direction than to die. And very daring deed to die. Every one can't do that.

As a human beings we should live with confidence otherwise there is

no life in this world, for example you will try for some jobs in order

to survive , but unfortunately you did not get that, it means you are going

to die in this world because of no jobs, never, still you have confidence that

you are going to get some other jobs to live in this world , so without confidence

there is no more live in this sad world.

Very practical answer but very useless. No one comes here for doing job. People born to live the life. But the wave of life restrict them from living. And in foolishness people habituate to maintain a mechanical life. And people want job and no job is impossible. There is no job is only applicable for those who has no desire of job.

The mater is not related to job. Life is not a salvation of any job. life has its own value. And living the life is the great job. And all other done in the life is just passing of time in the course of living the life.

Most of the peoples are born here in this world to live,

but how to live without food, clothes, and shelter, because

all are need the money. So the money we can make it through the

job only, otherwise better to die in this world as early as possible

in order to have the peaceful life in the heaven. Is it right or not?

Hi Binthu

Then for you money is everything. But I think you are not correct. Money can't make people happy. Money is needed but money is not everything. Most commonly suicide is large in the wealthy community. And as you think is the right then all the pore have to die. Your simplified statement is the simplification of algebra. But life is not run maintaining any presumed formula.

Money can not buy everything yes you are true, money can not

buy everything except true mother, so having the money is very

important in the life, otherwise even the dog does not looks at

it may varied from person to person , still the truth is true,

no body can say no to the truth.

Hi kingparker

I am very optimistic about life. So I have expressed that I am changed. Perhaps this change though it is against my nature but may lay some positiveness in me. But I am little sad that I am changed. Really I am changed.

typo alert, should be anyway I stumbled over my own foot, not foor. dyslexic fingers I guess also I still cannot lift my left arm up over my head not hear.darn. spelling checker failed that time.

Hi Hatley

I am really sad to hear about that incident. And I think that was not a tiny but a major incident in your life. And with strong desire of mind and the support of the physical therapist you have improved more than accepted. I have said earlier that life is a constitution of moment and each and every moment carries incident. All the moment are not not happy. Some of them are pleasant and others are sorrowful. You incident is impacted effect on your body. And you have to manage with that and can't ignore the impact.

Some incident occurs that lay no impact on our body but effects on the mind. Very tiny incidents those are. Normally those are ignored but sometime some of them brings major changes to the life both positively and negatively. Knowing all the disaster come from those we can't even ignore them.

Hi jaiho2009

Accident occurs incidentally. Don't mind but accident or incident is not a ceremony that it comes with a invitation card. So prediction of any incident is almost impossible. And life is a combination of incident. Most of them are normally ignored. But ignorance of all is almost impossible. Conversation, judgment, reasoning.... all are vain in front of subconscious brain. It is very adamant. Even fool too. once somethings is written there never be erased.

And forgetfulness. Extremely necessary . And the best way to forget is to try to remember. Once something is tried to forget then in the practice of forgetting that is recalled. So this is very useless before subconscious brain.

Our conscious brain can justify and reasoning. It try to consulate our mind but subconscious brain is very mysterious knowing everything it never compromise.

I can justify the incident. In reasoning I find no point for worry but before subconscious brain it is meaningless. Knowing everything I can't come out of this negative effect of my mind. I am compelled to change but it is against my willingness and against my nature ant tended by subconscious brain.

And the matter of suicide ... it is not any path of solution. And all the people are not so brave that they can commit suicide. A desire of committing suicide is always there in peoples mind. It is said almost all people in life feel the tendency to commit suicide. And it is repeated to 5 percent and some report says that only 0.02 percent people commits suicide. So keeping this this desire every people can't finalize it.

And no consolation is useful on such effect. Only the way is to flow on the wave. Perhaps life want this from me and I have to run according to the wave of life.

We are not condemned to live with the past.
Live life with what lies ahead and face what is today.
Never keep yourself worrying for things that is not necessary.

Try to live with a peaceful mind.
Unload burdens...appreciate things in the most simple image.

Some people are just making hard life for them,when it is not.

Incidents/accidents like death comes unexpectedly,and even comes at the most unexpected moment,and we're being caught unguarded.

So,we must always be prepared...for we never hold what tomorrow may brings.

Hi jaiho2009 (1537) ranked 1,641 out of 12,529 in friend 42 minutes ago

Every things in the life can't be complete on the proposed plan. But we have to plan according to the wave of the life. I am on the point of the critical juncture of the life where I have to do some modification of my plan on the wave. Life flows on the wave of the day it does not matter whether we appreciate or not. And accepting the challenge of the life I on the turning point of the life. Unload burdens... appreciate things in the most simple image is just a consolation . None try to make the life hard. Life is life no hardship in life. Tomorrow carries the result of the day we live. But some demand of the life on us. And it is our duty to fulfill it. And that's why some changes come to the life.

Hi dragon54u

That people you met was with angel heart. And the hope is living because of such precious mind. That incident lays positive impact on your life but my life make a u turn after a tiny incident. I am not discouraged with my life but surprised with the change of my mind. Earlier I did believe that I have rigid and strong mind. But in the practical life I am surprised with the change of my mind.

A friend sent me an email today and part of it said:

"To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did. When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."

Little things that change our lives are often doorways of opportunities for growth. I wish you well.

Very variable is the people's mind. I am experienced with this recently. I make me laughter too. Even try to make up my mind not to change but surprisingly fail to do so. Finally I am changed.

very good for you

Hi vandana7

I am very determined but sensitive person. I can ignore everything but nothing is ignored by me. I can forget all but nothing is forgotten by me. Very complex mind I have. And I am a good example of duel mentality. Normally each and every person has the duel character. But people can surpassed it and try to hide it. But sometime very tiny incidence put some major effect. I was even not to aware that at the occurrence of that happening but later I have felt the effect on me. I thought that I have ignored that incident and there is no value for my life. But day by day the effect comes to the light. I am very much surprise than any other that how such a tiny incident lays huge impact on life. Life is like a journey . I the journey we view the side passed. All are not remembered. Some happy and other some biter scenery remain in our mind for ever. Those can't be forgotten.

Hi PeacefulWmn9

Really very tough to balance up the life. Life is like permutation and combination. And in this process many things are saturated. And in the rearrangement we have to lost many precious time. And some thing is permanently lost. I have lost something from my mind in this incident. So I feel little less confident after that tiny incident.