Why do men always have to have it their way?  

Hi, giftsandbagscom. This married man is pathetic! How can he expect this woman to be utterly faithful to him while he has a wife?? Is he out of his freaking mind?? He is really being silly right about now. I can't believe that he would expect her to be true to him while he is not being the same way with her. If I were her, I would leave him alone and find someone that is going to be worth my while. Because this man isn't. I hope that she thinks smart and be without him. He is doing more harm than good to her. I hope that his wife finds out that she has a dirty and unfaithful husband. Why would he want her to come to his house anyway.. What would he really tell his wife about her.

Most Men are dogs. Plain and simple. I'm a man myself, but I sometimes feel bad because a whole lot of other men out there just want to have their cake and eat it to. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 4 years now and I could never do such a thing to her. It's so funny because my father use to cheat on my mother constantly. I guess that motivated me in the long run to never become the man my father was. Temptation is really a poison that can break up great things. If a man is already married and then wants to date another woman there will be a strong possibility that he will do the same to her.

To be honest that is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Honestly sleeping with a married man is just plain stupid! If you think he's going to leave his wife for you ever your wrong. And even if he does how do you know he'll be faithful? If he was willing to cheat on his wife he's willing to cheat on you. And even though he's cheating on his wife you know he goes home to her and she's the happy one. Doesn't that bother you? Your ruining someones family and life. You may think your not doing anything wrong but you are. Your the bad guy just as much as he is. I would stop if I were you. Or your friend.

I don't understand how or why women don't learn that dating a married man is not going to get them anywhere in life. They will waste that time on a man who is not going to leave his wife and if he does he will do the same thing to them as he did to the wife. So why bother. It makes not a bit of sense to me. Some men want it there way because they are inmature and act macho. These types of men are cruel and disgusting. I feel so bad for the wife and the kids. If females learned to say "NO" to married men cheating on ones wife will stop. As long as females continue with this horrible and disgusting behavivor it will never end and they will continue to be used and abused and lonely.

I agree with you. He's a scumbag to expect that of her, but she's a fool to go along with it. I would never EVER date a married man, ever. I was physically involved (that's about all it was) with someone once, whose divorce was just becoming final, but we both knew what was and what wasn't, before we got involved. When I met my future husband, I told my friend that I was in a relationship, and we could no longer be physical, and he understood. If the guy wasn't legally separated for years, and just waiting for the divorce papers (so legally separated) I would not have gotten involved with him at all. As for my husband, he was completely and legally divorced long before we got involved, so that was never an issue.

If I were you, I would encourage your friend to get out of the relationship. She is just asking for trouble and heartache if she continues to see him. I am not just saying this because he is married. He sounds like a jerk to me and your friend deserves better.

I guess it's because it's in a mans nature to be like that they always want to control everything. They always like to dominate and not be dominated because they don't want to feel weak they always want to feel strong and that they are in charge. For my mom and dad I remember that my dad used to control everything, but now it's different because my mom wanted to take charge for once now they are both equal and their marriage is surviving just fine. Everything always has to be fair and just.

Would like to point out first that your friend is going to get hurt and so is this Cheater's Wife and family, You need to do whatever it takes to help your friend get out of this. Because this guy doesnt care about her except to get into her pants. If he did he would have left his wife first, and he doesnt not have any respect of a women,family, vows, honestly, Do I really need to continue. If you care anything for your friend you will make her realize what she is doing and involved with.

This happens SO often! I would love to say that the married guy is being an idiot, or ridiculous in his expectations, but apparently he isn't since it's working! Your poor friend - does she really think that there's a future in this relationship? Obviously the married guy views her as more of a pet or property than a fellow and equal human being, else he'd show some kind of respect to her. If you've already talked to your friend about it, I suppose the best you can do is get ready to pick up the pieces when she realizes there's no real love there.

Because your friend let it to happen. She can sa NO if she really doesn't want to. Just tell your friend that she has to be careful, now that she is near the guy's home. It may cause her trouble and to the guy's family. Ask her if she want this to her self, as the second best.