How would I muster up the strength to tell tim?  |
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|  Tim and I were together three different times. Once when my daughter was about 3 and he went o prison for 5 years. and when he got out we got back together and I then broke up with him and moved to miami and now we are back in NY and we are abck together. My telling you this is to let you know tim is active in my daughters life. he cares deeply for her. I don't know how to tell him of all the mess my dadughter is doing.
I think my cps case is closed now and I want it to stay this way. I gave up fighting with her a few weeks ago. Over all we are doing great. But now This 19 year old is in the picture. Tim will not be so quiet about this. Should I tell him or not? Thanks
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1.  universe2o6 (328)
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2 years ago
| |  You should definateley tell him, he deserves to know! We see so many stories of these couples (young girl, old guy) that turn out sour for everybody, who knows he can't have a chat with them to straighten out their priorites? Maybe this 19 yo guy has some bad intentions with your daughter, I bet a good chat will scare him off before he tries anything! Dads can be scarey when they need to and if this guy is good, he'll survive
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 giftsandbagscom (25534)
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2 years ago
| | Tim came in and sat on the couch. My computer was laying there and it was on mylot and my post about her. he read it aout loud and I freeaked out.So I had to tell him. He was ok and will speak to her and him. Thanks | | | |
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2.  Ricki911 (11824)
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2 years ago
| |  If this man has been in your daughters life I think its best to tell him and if your currently with him. Possible he could talk to your daughter and she may listen since teenagers do tend to ignore their parents. I think if your worried about your daughter everything should be brought forward.
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| giftsandbagscom (25534)
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2 years ago
| | Yes I am worried and he did find out last night. He read my post on mylot so we talked about it. Thanks | | | |
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| 3. ElicBxn (24681)
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2 years ago
| |  if you don't mind him spending more time in jail...
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| giftsandbagscom (25534)
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2 years ago
| | Oh My ggodness I wuld never want this to happen. He found out last night and he did not blow his top. Thanks | | | |
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| 4. lelin1123 (9052)
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2 years ago
| |  If he has been in her life since she was 3 years old he definitely should be told about. Keeping things from him will never be good for anyone in the family. Why would you even question should you tell or not. Am I missing something from this or not? Tim has had his ups and downs from what you say but he also has been in your daughters life since very young and wouldn't he be upset if you kept this from him?
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| moneymakingtoday (1992)
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2 years ago
| |  I also think that he deserves to know. After all, he "has been in your daughter's life" since she was very young. If I were him, I would feel good being told and consulted about it. I would feel important to be trusted with that information. And I would surely mind if not told about it ... I am sure he would, too.
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| giftsandbagscom (25534)
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2 years ago
| | You both are so right and he is now aware of this situation. he read my post on mylot last night. So I came clean and we talked about it. Thanks | | | |
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| 5. homeshoppers (4685)
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2 years ago
| |  i know its not easy to tell the truth specially if we know that something will possibly change a lot bcoz of that move. i also have the same sentiments i dont know how to tell my ex that im pregnant and the father of the child left me since my ex want me back and his supporting me financially right now. though i know someday i will tell him the truth, im just looking for the right time. so i guess you must tried to find time to tell the truth coz someday it will showed up and it might already be too late to explain.
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| giftsandbagscom (25534)
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2 years ago
| | Oh I am sorry to read this. I hope everything turns out ok for you. I did talk to him last night about it. I will hope and pray you will be fine as well. Thanks very much | | | |
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| 6. Kingco18 (25)
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2 years ago
| |  In a relationship, their should always be honesty between one another. As hard as it may be if he really cares about your daughter, he deserves to know the truth. Teenagers, when young need as much guidance as possible. I don't know his situation or why he went to prison, mind you. I believe you and him should sit down with your daughter and explain to her how her situation can fair very badly.(I'm saying this as a best case scenario, considering I don't know if Tim may have a temper or anger problem)Hopefully your situation works out for the best, God Bless.
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| giftsandbagscom (25534)
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2 years ago
| | Tim went to jail for selling drugs. Yes your right and he now knows of the situation and we talked last night. Now all is left it to have another talk with her. Thanks so much | | | |
| tomcat23 (353)
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2 years ago
| |  Tim seems to be in the right position to get through to your daughter. "Been there done that" is usually a good ground to reach someone. When it comes to doing drugs, a person who never did drugs doesn't understand what a drug user is up against, so they can't truly speak from experience even though they might be "educated" on drug abuse. As the father, despite what he may have been through himself, he still has the right to care about his daughter, and both of you should keep an open line of communication between you when it comes to your daughter.
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| 7. dorannmwin (17639)
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2 years ago
| |  That is a tough question to deal with. If he is involved in your daughter's life like a father would be, I think that he does have a right to know the situation that your daughter is currently in. However, if he is only involved in her life in a sort of auxilliary way then I don't think that I would have him involved in the situation that is at hand. I'm glad to hear that your CPS case is closed, but I'm sorry to hear that you are continuing to have problems out of your daughter.
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| 8. kent_help2smile (5080)
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2 years ago
| |  Since he already know about the mylot you've posted. Maybe its time to tell him how you really like to tell him. If he really care for you and your daughter. He will be open to have a heart to heart talk to you.
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