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myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 900 out of 32,948 in life 2 years ago

hi there friends, as I typed this discussion I was thinking what happen to me?? why I am angry today and act like a monster.. hmmmmm..but hey guys its not really what you think, I just act like a monster because I am so angry. jealous
The situation goes like this, I am in my desk answering to post here in mylot, when I suddenly hear a BANG.. a cement and a wood fall in our back yard. There is a new constructed appartment near to our house. Construction materials fall into our vicinity.At first it was just okay and I spoke to the foreman weeks ago to clean up the mess of the cement and check it everyday,I understand that it would happen not until now that I heard that big Bang, I stand up so angry, what if my brother or mother was there standing and that thing from the constructed apartment fall to us. I angrily spoke to the owner not the foreman this time,I already instructed them to check it everyday but they did not atleast give it attention to it, its my mother who cleans the mess everyday. hmmm I really scream and act like a monster,, I felt sorry for myself I have not control really my anger. but I make sure I still spoke with them with due respect.

hahahay.. I am just being protected to our family's safety..
would you fell the same if you are in my shoe or do you feel I am just over reacting to it..

Have a great and a pleasant everyday everyone..

happy mylottinghave a nice day

 

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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. sudiptacallingu (8859)   ranked 433 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

I don’t think you are over reacting…after all you did speak to them about the problem so they should have taken more precautions. In our place, whenever construction work is carried on in tall buildings, they hang a huge tarpaulin from the top of the building so that whatever construction material falls, it will land within the construction premises and not outside or in other people’s homes. And you know, sometimes you just have to shout to be heard LOL so I think you did the right thing…not many people can handle respect…they take that as weakness.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 900 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

hi there sudiptacalling, I laughed with your name it can also spealled as stupid calling LOL rofl, anyhow thank you so much for the response, Infaireness they put up a flywood to prevent the materials from falling, but it was not well made and put upped well..it was my mom who always asked me to not to complain and tell them nicely, its just that if I will take this forgranted they will abuse.. hmmmm anyhow,hopefully tomorrow I wont be in the same situation again.. sadsad

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2. myLot reputation of 100/100. pandaeyes (782)   ranked 590 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

I would be just as angry.
That is a dangerous situation and the company doing the construction work is putting your family at risk.
They need to sort it out before they continue with their work.
Could you get a photograph or two of the scene and the lack of safety?
It might be worth it if anything gets broken on your part of the property or even someone is hurt.
Sometimes an angry reaction is the only one that gets anything done.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 900 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

roflhi there pandaeyes I strongly agree with you, sometimes we have to have an angry reaction to get things done, I was also think that if I am just going to be relaxed,they will abuse, I think it is also my mothers bad, she is too kind really..very kind and dont know how to gets angry my opposite..

thanks for the response..have a nice dayhave a nice day

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (24607)   ranked 88 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

There is no such thing as being overprotective when it comes to your family, friends, and other loved ones. I am in a situation with my apartment, trying to fix a broken toilet and it's not happening enough. I know that's not as bad as your situation, but I know the feeling. In cases like this, we have to stay after those in charge, to make sure they do their jobs.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 900 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

hi there danishcanadian, I was thinking a while ago if I did not do that they would not be alarmed and they wont pay attention to our concern.
I hope tomorrow everything will be fixed already...My mother was very kind to them and to the owner,, i think its her bad also , our neighbors thinks its okay with us if they will clean the mess anytime they like..

thanks for the response and have a great day to you..

happy mylotting..

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4. myLot reputation of 78/100. historydog (118)   ranked 15,302 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

It's really dangerous.You were protecting your family.The construction company should take measures to stop this happenng again,It's totally illegal to let the construction maerials fall to the private space.If it happened to me,I would directly go to the government to complain it.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 900 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

jealoushi there history dog, you know what before they build the apartment, they visit the house and said that our gate/fence exceeded by 2sqm. so they ask us to get that part thru the roof.we dont know why it happened we owe them 2sqm. My mother is kind hearted so she did not complian..hahahay alter ego selfishness..jealoussad

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. sunnycool (3202)   ranked 810 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

hi Monster devil---i would take you to be mad if you haven't shouted at them---if i were in your shoes then i would have given a Big but small blow on his face so he would never ever dare to drop any cement in my surroundings---its the Owner who deserves a blow coz he should take care such that he do not cause any trouble to the neighbours.Its always good to loose our temper on useful things rather than on silly ones and you haven't done anything wrong girlthumbup.great day.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 900 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

hi there sunnycool, thanks for the response, I just felt so strange LOL rofl, I used to be a calm person but I became a monster.. might be I have not control my patience, my heart beats so fast...Inspite I never regret that I have done that, because if I take it forgranted there would be no action from their part.

have a nice day sunnycool. happy mylotting..

have a nice dayhave a nice day



myLot reputation of 98/100. sunnycool (3202)   ranked 810 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

i have seen your pic dorothy---you were prettie but i cant imagine you---turn out to be so hotwub i mean Monster Ladydevil

Heart Beat was Fast----it does happen when we have no experience in fighting or arguing with someone lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 900 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

hi there sunnycool, hope your doing fine, bwahahahahrofl, HOT hot monster angry, Really yesterday I was out of control and out of my mind in a way, I really felt my heart beats too fast, my mother really was telling me to go home when I almost wanted to shout the foreman, but I was thankful I thinked twice and just tell them that please I dont want to happen it next time..

Thanks for the response, and have a great day..


myLot reputation of 98/100. sunnycool (3202)   ranked 810 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

i'm doing good thumbup practice some karate movements lol they might come handy next time

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. daliaj (4043)   ranked 348 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

That is normal feeling, Dorothy. I would have reacted the same way if I were you. There are lots of irresponsible people in this world, who doesnt' care about others. I don't understand why they didn't check even after you informing them. I am sorry for your feeling. Hope the thing will be fixed soon and you will be back as dear Dorothy of mylotters.


myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 900 out of 32,948 in life  2 years ago

yawnhi there daliaj, its not a normal for me the way I reacted, I am a calm person but I am a candid one,I just havent controlled myself that time and I was also disturbed by them..so disturbed, What really made me mad, is we really asked them with due respect even if we have a right to complain, its because we dont want to have any issues with our neighbor we understand them. but its not right, we were the ones who take effort to understand there need.,how about us.. sadsadGrhhhh

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7. myLot reputation of 84/100. homeshoppers (4687)   ranked 1,388 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

me too, im so angry today. i wake up early in the morning to process government documents for my maternity benefits and i also wish to file a loan. and yet no one even tried to help me. im about to go home around 3pm after going to different branches just to settled things out but when i decided to just change my membership from employed to voluntary so my time will not be wasted, the girl whom i think cant help me coz she look so strict and scary, is actually the one who explained to me what to do so i can get a loan and approve my maternity benefit. and just for few minutes, all papers was done and i got home 3:30pm just 30 minutes process. how stupid other government employee that they dont know what to do nor instruct their members how to do to fix things. thanks god theres still someone who knows everything.

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8. myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 570 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

Who wouldn't get mad if the construction company is not clearing up the mess. If telling them to clear up their mess falls on deaf ears, I will take further action to drag them to the relevant authorities. You should do that.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. LetranKnight25 (11773)   ranked 314 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

happyHello dorothy,

The first reaction is usually the correct one, and you have the right to be paranoid in this issue. WHy? what if some one was there and either got injured or killed, it would have really snap you. how can you be a monster when you're so damn prettylol i bet they're minds were blanked when they saw your face, thinking that they were shocked at your rantlol.

Warn them that you will call the cops if this continues.

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. tamarafireheart (13724)   ranked 408 out of 32,948 in life   2 years ago

Hi dorothy09,



I would react the same as you and worse, that is so dangerous and shouldn't have cement falling in your yard, if it fell anyone or even on your foot, you can sue them, then they will situp and listen, they should be more careful.


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