I act like a monster today, grhhhhh Mad Lady?  |
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| hi there friends, as I typed this discussion I was thinking what happen to me?? why I am angry today and act like a monster.. hmmmmm..but hey guys its not really what you think, I just act like a monster because I am so angry. The situation goes like this, I am in my desk answering to post here in mylot, when I suddenly hear a BANG.. a cement and a wood fall in our back yard. There is a new constructed appartment near to our house. Construction materials fall into our vicinity.At first it was just okay and I spoke to the foreman weeks ago to clean up the mess of the cement and check it everyday,I understand that it would happen not until now that I heard that big Bang, I stand up so angry, what if my brother or mother was there standing and that thing from the constructed apartment fall to us. I angrily spoke to the owner not the foreman this time,I already instructed them to check it everyday but they did not atleast give it attention to it, its my mother who cleans the mess everyday. hmmm I really scream and act like a monster,, I felt sorry for myself I have not control really my anger. but I make sure I still spoke with them with due respect. hahahay.. I am just being protected to our family's safety.. would you fell the same if you are in my shoe or do you feel I am just over reacting to it.. Have a great and a pleasant everyday everyone.. happy mylotting | | | | | |
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1. sudiptacallingu (8859)
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2 years ago
| | I don’t think you are over reacting…after all you did speak to them about the problem so they should have taken more precautions. In our place, whenever construction work is carried on in tall buildings, they hang a huge tarpaulin from the top of the building so that whatever construction material falls, it will land within the construction premises and not outside or in other people’s homes. And you know, sometimes you just have to shout to be heard LOL so I think you did the right thing…not many people can handle respect…they take that as weakness. | | | | | | |
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2. pandaeyes (782)
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2 years ago
| | I would be just as angry. That is a dangerous situation and the company doing the construction work is putting your family at risk. They need to sort it out before they continue with their work. Could you get a photograph or two of the scene and the lack of safety? It might be worth it if anything gets broken on your part of the property or even someone is hurt. Sometimes an angry reaction is the only one that gets anything done. | | | | | | |
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3. danishcanadian (24607)
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2 years ago
| | There is no such thing as being overprotective when it comes to your family, friends, and other loved ones. I am in a situation with my apartment, trying to fix a broken toilet and it's not happening enough. I know that's not as bad as your situation, but I know the feeling. In cases like this, we have to stay after those in charge, to make sure they do their jobs. | | | | | | |
dorothy09 (570)
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2 years ago
| | hi there danishcanadian, I was thinking a while ago if I did not do that they would not be alarmed and they wont pay attention to our concern. I hope tomorrow everything will be fixed already...My mother was very kind to them and to the owner,, i think its her bad also , our neighbors thinks its okay with us if they will clean the mess anytime they like.. thanks for the response and have a great day to you.. happy mylotting.. | | | |
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4. historydog (118)
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2 years ago
| | It's really dangerous.You were protecting your family.The construction company should take measures to stop this happenng again,It's totally illegal to let the construction maerials fall to the private space.If it happened to me,I would directly go to the government to complain it. | | | | | | |
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6. daliaj (4043)
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2 years ago
| | That is normal feeling, Dorothy. I would have reacted the same way if I were you. There are lots of irresponsible people in this world, who doesnt' care about others. I don't understand why they didn't check even after you informing them. I am sorry for your feeling. Hope the thing will be fixed soon and you will be back as dear Dorothy of mylotters. | | | | | | |
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7. homeshoppers (4687)
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2 years ago
| | me too, im so angry today. i wake up early in the morning to process government documents for my maternity benefits and i also wish to file a loan. and yet no one even tried to help me. im about to go home around 3pm after going to different branches just to settled things out but when i decided to just change my membership from employed to voluntary so my time will not be wasted, the girl whom i think cant help me coz she look so strict and scary, is actually the one who explained to me what to do so i can get a loan and approve my maternity benefit. and just for few minutes, all papers was done and i got home 3:30pm just 30 minutes process. how stupid other government employee that they dont know what to do nor instruct their members how to do to fix things. thanks god theres still someone who knows everything. | | | | | | |
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8. zandi458 (11483)
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2 years ago
| | Who wouldn't get mad if the construction company is not clearing up the mess. If telling them to clear up their mess falls on deaf ears, I will take further action to drag them to the relevant authorities. You should do that. | | | | | | |
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10. tamarafireheart (13724)
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2 years ago
| | Hi dorothy09, I would react the same as you and worse, that is so dangerous and shouldn't have cement falling in your yard, if it fell anyone or even on your foot, you can sue them, then they will situp and listen, they should be more careful. Tamara | | | | | | |
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