Please could you help me with some advice??  

First of all, you should have gone to the funeral, whether you liked it or not. We are suppose to do things we don't like for those we love. Give her some time. She need to get over all of this. Phone her everyday and if she wants too, try and visit as many times as you can. But, be patient. You did hurt her when she needed you the most. Sorry, for beign so straightforward, but that is how i am. TATA.

I say that you should not have said where you went with your cousins.You enjoyed there is ok.But she is sad.How you can tell her that I went here and enjoyed something like that.I agree that you were there with her but it is natural for her to think only about her grandmother and no one else.It is very natural.Only thing you did wrong is you should not have said that you went here..like that.But I understand your situation that you shared with her.But I think that is not the time.You just apologize to her.Ask her to forgive you for the mistake..This is the only way I think.I wish you that you will be with her soon.All the best.

That is a tough one buddy. Your girlfriend just lost someone very important to her. The least you could have done was be there for her. You cannot say that you were there when her granny died and she seemed not to care about you. Of course she wouldn't be thinking that. She had no other space in her mind other than the overwhelming feeling of loss. You should have been with her in the funeral. Or if you can't, at least just stayed home and it was very unnecessary for you to tell her about fun you had the other night while she was alone grieving. You have to make up for it. Flowers won't do I guess. But probably it would. Just do your best to make her feel that you do feel bad for not being there for her all the way when she needed you most.

Probably the last thing your girl wanted to hear was that you had been out having a good time partying when she is mourning the loss of someone very close. She probably felt you should have been with her and supporting her in her grief and it may have looked like you didn't care.

I'm sure if you tell her how much you care about her and also let her know you truly didn't mean to upset her she will forgive you. At the moment she is still hurting. Give her some time and be as supportive as you can.

I hope things work out for you.

You didn't do anything wrong she is taking out her grief on you, and possibly depressed, you will find she won't want to talk you much, and when she does she is easily irritated, best to stay out of her way and let her have her space, if this continues more than a month, you should consider a breakup, unless you wanna be stepped on.

Also its not your place to go to her family funerals, ya'll arent married and you didn't know her, if went to the wake already that more than enough.

She is gonna grieve, but its not your place to grieve, and would not be genuine , just give her space and hopefully she perks up.

my father in law died last year and i never visited the wake, funeral, cemetery, and even on the ritual prayers just like what you are doing on your country. and i know for sure that all of my husband's relatives are saying bad things about me, coz i'm suppose to be there to pay respect to my father in law's last moments here.

but honestly, i don't like going to those kind of places. and like what you said, i might also be out of place if i've been there coz i don't even know most people on the wake. and one more thing, my husband is busy grieving and attending to visitor's needs during that time.

let your girl have some space but do call her every now and then. when she starts to argue, just tell her both of you may talk when she's ready to listen to what you have to say.

You cant fix it if you dont think this is a mistake. First, if your girl is in mourning and very sad of course you have to be there for her. Whether you like the funeral or not, you still should be there to pay respect to her grandma and also to show support to your girl.
Why was she angry that you go to party? its because she is feeling that you dont care about her grandma (doesnt matter whether you did care or not) but the thing is someone close to her has just died, she is mourning, but instead of being sad or at least concern with her and spend time with her, you go to a party.In her mind that equals betrayal.
When you did were with her at the cemetry of course she didnt respond much, as I said she is still very sad and in shock! Of course she will be different to you, dont just expect her to be just like she is normally.

How to fix this ? As you said you really do care about her... so think up ways to make it up and to really show that you do care for her, you do care for her feelings and very sad for the fact that her grandma died. Maybe arrange to take her to the cemetry for visit? Bring flowers and such for the grave. Remember to respect her too, give her some space to ease the sadness as well. If you show that you are genuine, then she will be able to see it too :)

First of all, try to apologize to her sincerely, and telling her where & why you go that night.

You should understand that your girl friend had just lost her grandma and needs cares, meanwhile she is also very sensitive,she may think the most time she needed you, however you were happy at that time.

For me at first pray to Jehovah God that she can forgave you make court her again and behave as what she want to be in you.

Hello there.. I am really sorry for whats going on in your relationship. I think, it the common problem related with the famous proverb, 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.'

Men and Women are very different from each other, psychologically speaking. No doubt, you love each other and care for each other. In this case, I guess both of you failed to understand each other properly. I think, you should have attended her GrandMa's funeral. I know funerals aren't very happy places but still it is our duty to be present there when everyone says 'goodbye' to the one who starts the journey towards another world. I have paid heavily for not attending a funeral; in fact, I am still paying for it... I think, you should have been there. You felt neglected earlier because your girl was sad over the death of her grandma (whom she seems to be very tenderly attached). She was so much buried in her grief that she failed to notice your presence. You must forgive her for this ignorance, she was sad at that time.

She should also overlook your partying etc. Men, generally, go partying when they are annoyed/exhausted/irritated. I advice you to talk to her for some time and discuss all these points. I am sure you will understand each other and in a day or two, everything will be well...

Please do let us know, how it goes... Good Luck!!!