do men and women think the same or total opposite? double standards  

do you think that men and women think the same or not? for example of double standards here. if a lady sleeps around she can be referred to as cheap. but if a man does it he is one of the lads! if a lady has a drink problem people look down on her, but if its a man people take no notice. its ok for a man to ask a woman out, but if a woman asks a man out people can assume he again is cheep maybe? not in every case, but people forget its not the 1930's anyway and everyone has free will. if a woman is sitting in a bar alone, people will look at her, or feel sorry for her or think she is strange, but ok for a man to do this, no one takes no notice. again of the double standards.