if a relative kept reminding you of your weight would you get peed off with them  

Well my relatives are pretty cold hearted anyway. But I do find it offensive when uncle mentions about my weight. Its like they cant have a normal conversation with me about anything else.

My uncle once suggested that myself and husband both lose weight, my husband at the time it didn't click with him until after but he said, bloody cheek! We are not really big we are of average size with little tummies really thats all.

Then when my uncle compared me to this lady who I hate anyway, that was even more offensive. This lady conned my dad out of money and when I met her I had rows with her, but uncle compared me to her and she was bulky and big and same height as me. then of course after I said to my husband, do I really look same as her, he said no of course not. Then husband said, your bloody uncle saying that to you.

This lady is a horrid person who cons pensioners out of money and tells lies and even ended up in prison I heard. So I am being compared to her. and people wonder why I have no time for my relatives. since they have nothing much nice to say to me accept about my weight.

Terrible Lady..nevermind them..you are a beautiful woman with lots of talent..be sure and remind them of how ugly they are..as Churchill said when the lady told him "Sir, you are drunk!" He said "Ah yes, and you are ugly Madam, but I will be sober in the morning!"
And you could say well I may be overweight to you but you are ugly and I can always lose weight and you cant change your ugly face