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myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people 2 years ago

cryI was in the pharmacy today when an elderly lady came to pick up her medications. She was atleast 70 years old, living on the small social security she received each month. When the pharmacy told her how much her medications would be, shehad only enough to pay for one of them. She did not get her othre medication. cry

If I had have had the money I would have gotten it for her.It almost brought tears to my eyes because she was almost in tears as to what she was going to do.

I think it is so sad that people, especially the elderly,must choose vetween their medications or food or medications.Even Medicare isnt wnough for many of these people to pay for all of the medications they NEED.

What do you think about this? Shouldnt we do more to help these people? What can we do?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. JJ4Ever (1242)   2 years ago

This is an extremely frustrating situation, but it's not the first time I've heard about it. I guess the hardest part for me is that this was an elderly woman who probably worked hard all her life to provide for her and her family, whether it was outside the home or not. Now, several years later, she has to choose between medications. That is crazy! I don't know that the government should take over health care completely, but I do think that something could be done along the lines of prescription assistance or something like that. If doctors can prove a person has a certain illness for which they will need to take medication for a certain amount of time, and if this person cannot afford the medication, there should be some kind of program or payment plan people can afford - something that actually makes sense! Choosing between medications because you can only afford one absolutely does not make sense. I agree with you that something needs to be done!


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

It is a hard situation, and I agree that most of the older people worked harder than any of us today can imagine.Then in the end they suffer.It is truly sad.When someone needs a medication to prevent stroke, heart attack,cancer,etc.then something needs to be done to ensure they receive the meds they need.I dont know what,but something.


myLot reputation of 98/100. JJ4Ever (1242)  2 years ago

We are definitely agreed on this one that something needs to be done. Medication is a NEED. Hopefully a solution will come about soon!


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

glareI doubt that will happen,but we can hope!happy


myLot reputation of 98/100. JJ4Ever (1242)  2 years ago

Thank you for Best Response! I really enjoyed being a part of this discussion, but it's sad the situation a lot of people are experiencing. I really hope that those who can do something about it will look into it deeper and find a permanent solution. This is one of those things that shouldn't go unnoticed. Thanks again, my friend, and take care!

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. hmkoct5 (1698)   ranked 2,682 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

This is a sad story. My father also has the same problem. He is diabetic, but has very little income. He does not have enough money to pay for his insulin. We try to help him, but we do not have a lot of extra money either. Something definitely needs to be done. I think pharmaceutical companies charge too much for their drugs. That may be a place to start - governmental regulation over pharmaceutical companies.


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

I am so sorry to hear of your dads situation. Drugs are expensive thats for sure.And I know a lot goes into making them,but if noone can afford to take them,what good is it doing?
Has he checked into those government programs to see if they can help him>

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. tingtong (3868)   2 years ago

In our country things are so different. There are so many on the streets who refuse to stay in old age homes etc. They prefer begging. The government hospitals and some charitable institutions provide medicines free for the poor. They may have to wait in long queues or produce proof that they are really poor. Life isn't easy for the poor anyway....


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

A person should not have to go into an "old age program" in order to receive the medications that they need. Even then someone has topay for it, and insurances,governement programs and the such only help so much.

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4. myLot reputation of 84/100. homeshoppers (4687)   ranked 2,255 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

if i can choose the two then i will. but if left no other choice then i will rather choose high blood than heart attack, coz once you suffered heart attacked theres only 3 stages, first one if its sever then you will die, i its not then theres still a chance, 2nd attack you will suffer stroke its either half of your body or your whole body but your still alive, if its severe then yu will also die. 3rd one is worst coz theres no more excuse. a person will surely die.

thats why i rather choose high blood coz you can control it like make sure of not to be angry all the time, just be cool always, avoid salty or fats or any foods that will cause to higher your blood pressure. theres also medicine to control high blood but once a person suffered high blood and left untreated theres a tendency that you will suffered stroke coz theres something in your brain that will disrupted that will cause blockage and if theres blockage of course it will stop blood or oxygen supply and circulation to our body that will cause stroke.


myLot reputation of 84/100. homeshoppers (4687)   ranked 2,255 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

oh really? then dont put those title in your topic then coz as far as i know i just answer your question huh. you should at least say if we agree your story than asking question like that. is it? or maybe you dont know that your asking a choices in your question huh. so next time dont put question in your title ok. and dont over reacted coz i didnt go out with the topic and whats your topic anyway? the topic of course is your question, you just share your story and so we did? this is just a sharing of idea site so dont take it personally. so i guess next time sorry to say this but at least put "guys did you agree with this or etc than ask a yes or not or a choice question." then maybe i will agree with your content and not to the main topic coz the title itself is the main topic and your story is the content. thumbdownthumbdown


myLot reputation of 84/100. homeshoppers (4687)   ranked 2,255 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

and also one thing. i dont even see that your answering your main topic or the title of the topic. if you want your question to be answered then put it as your main topic rather than the choices question like heart attack or high blood pressure. did you also read your content of this topic? did it answer your title? or you just share the story you know about medicine and the old lady, you did not even mention about high blood and heart attack in your content. so whose answering what now. no offenses but as i said im just basing your title so better check your title carefully or check your content if it didnt go far away from the main topic since your the one whose sensitive enough to take responses here. and better be careful to use smiley as not all members took smiley positively. anyway, im just here to earn and practice my english coz if do then im afraid im havng a heart attack here lolso i did not take any response personally, if i do then i just explain my side why.


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

[OK for starters i try to come up with a catchy title to my discussions. The title of this one fits it just fine. You are not suppose to read a title and not read the discussion that follows it...this is what happens when you do.shocked

Im not asking a choice...My title is simply stating that seniors often have to choose between one thing or another.No,I did not answe my title,noone but you did that.I didnt see it anywhere in the guidelines that my topics coulndt be in the form of a question, and if they were I needed to answer the question in my discussion.
surrender

I didnt mention it and thats why you shoule read the entire discussion before you post a reply to it.I do think that isin the guidelines however.
Im not upset or taking it personally,I was simply stating you have done this before and to avoid doing it,read the entire discussion.angry

If I put a plain title you would have to read it to see what I am talkin gabot, so dont assume anything..You know what assuming does?


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

confusedBTW...my discussion titel doesnt ask which do you choose, it says THEY get to choose and there is no question mark out from it...surrendersuspicious

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. lingli_78 (12264)   ranked 5,666 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

i really pity those elderly people... and i agree with you that those people shouldn't have to choose between their medications and foods... they had worked hard and dedicated all their lives to the country... the government should do something to help these people for their contributions... it just amazed and saddened me everytime i have to read something like this because this kind of thing shouldn't happen especially in developed countries... take care and have a nice day...


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

glareIt seems that atleast here in America we have plenty of money for B.S. and not the important stuff such as this.You are so right,it should not happen to anyone, especially these pooe old people who have worked so hard all of their lives.Especially when insurance will pay for pills for addicts to abuse...thumbdownSad,sad world that we are living in.

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. lelin1123 (9051)   ranked 786 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

This is an outrage to me. My parents have gone through this too being surprised at the amount of money a prescription was and then having to settle for only one of the prescriptions. If you are rich and have good coverage you will live if not you will die. That is the way I see it. People have to come together to fight the drug companies and the cost for medications for the elderly and the poor. Its just not fair and this is not the way it should be.


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

I am sorry to hear your parents have experienced this too.It outrages me to see an old lady in tears because she cant buy a medication she so desperatley needs.Yet so many young people have it easy.Most of the time these older people have worked so hard 40 50 60 years and in the end have to suffer.How sad is that?Its not a bit fair.

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7. myLot reputation of 20/100. ebuscat (5878)   ranked 13,156 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

For me the government would Seattle for that matter yap if you have money then why you don't gave by doing that Jehovah God have credit for you because he take care much of them.

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8. myLot reputation of 82/100. yoursjannat (445)   ranked 2,488 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

We can open up a community that contributes help and necessary support to these people in NEED with the earning from contribution in some part of the members as a donation if some other social service fails in some way.

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. towongfoo27 (1805)   ranked 1,303 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

There are many programs to help the elderly to get their medications. They can get them at a reduced cost or for free. All she has to do is look on the internet or ask around, maybe one of her family members or friends. I know at Walmart a person can get their medications for about four dollars. Astra Zeneca also has a program to help the elderly pay for their medications. If she is worried about food, she can go to local food pantries, too.


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

thumbdownWow,you sound a bit harsh there. The thing is,not ALL medications are covered on these $4 and $8 plans.Perhaps it is an old lady who has no family to turn to.There are a lot of different situations you have to consider. There are only about 175 meds on those programs.And many more common meds doctors write.Astra Zenca makes you go through so many hurdles it is crazy.Plus thats not doing anything when she needs the meds now.I guess you have never had to go to a food pantry either.Those are limited,here 3 times in 6 months,and you get a couple cans of beans, corn, and things such as that.These government programs are BS.You just have to be familiar with them to understand.

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10. myLot reputation of 99/100. cutepenguin (4884)   2 years ago

I don't know.

here, we have programs so that people only have to pay a small fee for their prescriptions, but when you're on a limited budget, even the $20 can be a lot. And right now, when everyone is struggling, people aren't able to support their families as well.

I can't see a clear-cut solution.


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

thumbdownWe also have these type programs, vut they dont always hepl everyone.
No,there is no solution.Why how could our governemt and politicians possibly have time to worry about important issues like this when they have to worry about guns being allowed in barsglare and building new convention centers the city doesnt need?thumbdown

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