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myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532) 2 years ago

Its kinda creepy for me that a friend of mine have a male maid, a male house keeper, I dont know why he was secure about it. I think female maids are more easier to trust. His wife hired a male house keeper she always heard that female house keepers seduce their male employer. I actually have a maid and I can trust her in many things. But my future wife to be wont be concerned about her because she was an old lady with 6 kids. What do you think of having a male maid? Do you think they can clean the house as good as their female counterparts or will they be a mess, since they cant do house hold chores.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. Adalie (1491)   2 years ago

hahahaha heck no offense but some men don't even know how to clean after themselves I can't even imagine a male housekeeper.


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

Plus its hard to sleep at night knowing there was a male stranger have an access in your house, I found the concept weird but male maids actually exist,

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. The_Lamb_Lies_Down (6932)   2 years ago

Why do you think men can't do household chores?confused

I've always kept a very clean house.thumbup


myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,925 in people  2 years ago

thumbup See...I told ya! cheering


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

I'm sure that men wont look good in French maid out fits the way women do though,rofl maybe they can be trusted and maybe then can clean the house as good or maybe better than women but who knows. lets wait if someone who have a male house keeper on their house discover this thread.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. ybong007 (4482)   ranked 4,858 out of 26,925 in people   2 years ago

Male housekeepers are useful if you have a store or a farm. Certainly, you can take advantage of their strength than women when it comes to lifting heavy objects. But a male housekeeper to keep your house clean seems a bit funny. Males in general are lazy when it comes to household chores, they could clean but not as how women does when it comes cleanliness. Nothing beats a womans eye when it comes to cleanliness.


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

It was still awkward though...rofl If ever my girlfriend becomes my wife i hope she wont hire a male maid, I found it creepyspooked. She was the one who hired the old lady who was my maid now. she doesn't want me to hire a young and attractive one.


myLot reputation of 91/100. ybong007 (4482)   ranked 4,858 out of 26,925 in people  2 years ago

I recall this neighbor of our when i was in high school. He owns a store and have a poultry and a piggery farm too. He had a lot of household helps, the girls are there to keep an eye on the store and the boy who takes care of the chickens and pigs. One day, i learned that the store owner fired his make house keeper. I just thought that the housekeeper went home to take a vacation. i later learned from the store owner that he caught his male housekeeper on top of his female house keeper. And that's the main reason why he was fired.


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

I have heard stories of family drivers having affairs with house maids. I think If you have both male and female housekeepers, there is a potential for them to develop feelings to each other.


myLot reputation of 91/100. ybong007 (4482)   ranked 4,858 out of 26,925 in people  2 years ago

...And pretend to be master and mistress of the house when the real owner is away. I think they even do it in the master's bedroom. You can't really blame these guys. It's normal to develop an affection to someone that you practically spend all your time with.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. erikmama (4232)   ranked 178 out of 26,925 in people   2 years ago

If you have a maid then why are their assumptions a woman will slep with the husband? Shouldnt there be some sort of trust and not assumingthis?
I see nothing wrong with a male housekeeper.While it is common for housekeepers to be women, there are plenty of men in this world who love to clean,and some that can fdo a much better job.I dont think he should be judged because he is male.He should be judged based on his performance.


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

Its hard to know if they to take orders when it comes to doing chores and if they can be trusted like female maids.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. markmoney (848)   ranked 909 out of 26,925 in people   2 years ago

I don't think so. I think it's a bad idea to have a male housekeeper especially if there's a lot of women in the house. If a female maid can do harm, male can do even more. It's not just on household chores that he may do something wrong, but as well as the ladies in the house are concern. It's really hard to trust housekeepers, specially that we have no blood relation with them. So for me, I'm not in favor of having a male housekeeper. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting! cool


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

I have heard about a Male nanny raping the little girl he was baby sitting, so Its a big concern for sure, if you can trust a man to roam around your house,

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6. myLot reputation of 84/100. homeshoppers (4686)   ranked 2,257 out of 26,925 in people   2 years ago

well i dont think i will hire a male house keeper unless a driver or a gardener. i dont think they can be good in house workhappy of course i will not hired them as i still prefer woman as i know they can take good care of the house while im not around. of course i will choose older maid like 40 years old and up so she cant seduce my husbandlol and they are well experience when it comes to house work.


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

Women do the house chores with pure love and dedication but I dont think it was the same case with men, i hate doing the chores.

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. bulastika (864)   ranked 1,554 out of 26,925 in people   2 years ago

For me its okay to have a male maid. Beside male can do things much more than lady maids. They can do some house improvements and maintenance. In short male maid can do mans work and same times lady maids work. And they can even be your driver if you want or bodyguard.


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

wow that was all around.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. lipstick2009 (981)   2 years ago

No i will never get a male housekeeper. Although i'm not saying that i will always trust a female one. But it is really hard to move around your house and feel comfortable knowing there is a man around to see u in your night clothes or watch you sit comfortably in front of the tv or i just got out of the shower with towel only to cover myself.
I mean , will be be comfortable watching all my graceful moves inside my own home just because i got a male housekeeper? It is not really advisable.


myLot reputation of 93/100. lipstick2009 (981)  2 years ago

On second thought, if this male housekeeper looks like Johnny Depp, well who says it is not advisable?
Haha.
Where is this guy? He is hired right now.
(^_^)


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

LOL about the last minute change of mind,

I know it sounds very awkward and uncomfortable,Its hard to feel safe if there was a presence of a man you barely know.

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. cutepenguin (4886)   2 years ago

I don't know. I mean, there are lots of male janitors, so i wouldn't think that a male housekeeper can't clean the house. It's just that there is a bit of a feeling of discomfort of having a male in a position like this in a household with children.

I guess I would be okay with it if it was a cleaning service but not if it was a live-in helper.


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

In a way you are right, We can have them as a cleaning service but not as a live in maid. I believe women fits more as live in maids, you can have them as a party of the family without having any worries.

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10. myLot reputation of 84/100. sumanadep (1010)   ranked 2,414 out of 26,925 in people   2 years ago

I don't agree with you. Well male housekeepers are there and they do a good job. In fact I can say that they do the job more professionally. Male maids are common specially with people having big house. I keep my home clean.


myLot reputation of 96/100. albertwhisker (4532)  2 years ago

hmm....You are right that they can accomplish some more physical task. It could be...It could be...

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