How to be a Modern Day Darling  

oh ocean had to say my worst bad language according to her was oh sh@t, and damn$t, and cra!, but of course really one should not ever use those in a library where all personnel have to so so pure its almost unbelievable . Even a darn raises the branch managers plucked to death eyebrows, so imagine what she said, when I had come upon an ungodly mess of books tossed off a shelf onto the floor and let out a damn I mean out loud.,You have to be super perfect, oh yes virgin Mary would do it there. But of course its okay if the patrons let out with cuss words when you tell them that the library does not carry a certain book. The thing you are told from the git go is The Patron Is Always Right.

A Jekyll and Hyde boss is the worst!
I bet you wanted to tear her head off her shoulder Hatley!
I can just imagine the frustration and anger you felt toward her..you are amazing to have held it in for so long.
Once, I could not..I was working the graveyard shift in a factory and everynight this **tch would be unto me like she owned the place for 6 months, til I finally had enough and backed her up against the wall and the whole factory heard me shouting at her and the other workers said it was about time someone stood up to her..I didn't get fired or even disciplined because everyone even bosses knew she had it coming.

Oh dear Hatley! I use those words so frequently! Everytime there is a power outage, the first words to pop out of my mouth are those! I never thought of them as bad language. :) Now, I guess I have to tell everybody here that I am better in bad language. LOL.

Hhahah Sanjy!
You are brilliant my dear lovely friend..you have such personality and pizzazz! I bet you too are the beautiful little Indian darling indeed! How lovely!

I am married in name only, so I cannot ask my husband vine, but plenty of friends to ask and my bf is not around right now, but I will ask him when he returns.

Thanks, you are a very lovely lady. He who will finds you is really fortunate. Hope you love him very much. How long is your relationship? Hope your relations will go good. Hope both will not betrayed each other. Live lovely, my blessings to you both. Enjoy life thanks existence.

Hello Lovely
Oh yes, indeed putting on a pleasant face, even if it is a facade, can work wonders for all concerned...smiling is catching yes Zandi!

For some reason Vandana I don't believe you are not every bit as seductive as Courtney, in fact, I would say you outdo here by a longshot my dear lovely friend!

Can I be very honest with you Ocean? :) I am here to learn the language, particularly the expressions and usage. :) You used "outdo (here) by a longshot". Though I did come across it before, I never get to hear it out here. You all use such expressions so freely. :) We too have some expressions like that in our languages, which if we consider the meaning would not make much sense, but they convey something. :) Thanks for using such expressions, and teaching me Ocean.:)

As to me being seductive, from where on earth did you get that impression! And whom am I supposed to be seducing? Let me assure you - I am very realistic, and as yet - very sane. :) At 344045 - you've got it all wrong - dont you think?

That is true because as I said in my response I don't put on a front for anyone, BUT if it is something that will benefit my kids either financially (job interview) or get them registered for pre-Kindergarten or doing anything to benefit them then I am simply angelic!

And I have seen you Elusive, looking so beautiful both ways my dear friend..I know that cat will be following you around faithfully now! xo

Oh yes, Purple and I am so proud of you for saying that!
That is correct, when it comes to our children, then no holds barred hahah

Of course! If I have to be miss nicey nice or miss suzie flippin' sunshine to get my kids what they need then no doubt I will do it in a heart beat! Won't even give it a second thought! It's amazing what parents will do for their kids!

Okay will take your make up tips as well thank you Magic!
Oh believe me, I do not need make up to either be the bad girl or the angel.

Good Cloud, that is best that you are happy with yourself and so you can be no one else but yourself.
I find in life there have been many times when I have had to pretend to be so much saintlier than I am. Of course there are other times when I am indeed a saint
By the way, Courtney Cox was the wife of the lead singer(now deceased) Kurt Cobain of the band Nirvana.

That shows how out of touch I am. I've never heard of CC or Kurt Cobain or Nirvana. Maybe they are not big in Australia.

If you like cloud..google about Nirvana..Kurt Cobain was genious in my opinion, but sadly he gave over to suicide at a very young age,leaving Courtney to fend for herself. Really they are still legend and a cult following of sorts here in America, when he was alive, even more so.

I agree with you 100% bystander my friend. If it is not inside of you,then it is not going to show on the outside..my career has been mostly beauty, but often even in personal life, I have had to really pull it off.

thanks for the wonderful response, oceantiara.