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myLot reputation of 67/100. multinational37 (334) 2 years ago

What is it like to get it on? Does it feel good and/or special? Should I only do it with someone I love?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. apoljuice1 (456)   ranked 956 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

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myLot reputation of 41/100. anandjk (620)  2 years ago

Your story is very strange....! you gave your body to that guy who was not meant for it.


myLot reputation of 90/100. apoljuice1 (456)   ranked 956 out of 6,278 in sex  2 years ago

I know. But because we did it, I told him there's no way that we couldn't be together because I gave him myself. He wanted to anyway, since we've been dating for quite a while. So after we did it, he became my boyfriend for almost a year. He was such a gentleman and very giving. However sometimes he would be struck with immaturity and would feel jealous of the other guys I go out with, even if they're my cousins! So I had to break up with him.

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. preethaanju (978)   ranked 292 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. henniesaunders (789)   2 years ago

Are you really? A first timer?


myLot reputation of 67/100. multinational37 (334)  2 years ago

I'm a 16 year old virgin, does that answer your question?


myLot reputation of 78/100. henniesaunders (789)  2 years ago

Better change your profile to reflect that.


myLot reputation of 78/100. henniesaunders (789)  2 years ago

OK, now we still do not know, but accept that you are female. Read as much as you can about making love on the internet. Preserve your virginity for one you really love and feel good to be around with. Plan the first encounter very well and make it clear to your partner to go slow with lots of foreplay. Then you will avoid what is described above about a painful experience.


myLot reputation of 67/100. multinational37 (334)  2 years ago

Ok, thanks old guy.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. kquiming (2282)   ranked 674 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

Ideally you should only do it with someone you love but it's up to you, everybody differs in their set of values so if you think it feels okay to do it with someone you don't really love and just for the fun of it, I've no right to tell what you do. It all depends on your beliefs.


myLot reputation of 41/100. anandjk (620)  2 years ago

Many enjoy with prostitues first time... ! I dont know why they do this?


myLot reputation of 96/100. kquiming (2282)   ranked 674 out of 6,278 in sex  2 years ago

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5. myLot reputation of 74/100. goldeneagle (5503)   ranked 329 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

OK...your profile says you are 54 years old, and that you are a male, so if you are still a virgin, that has GOT to be some kind of world record or something. LOL This also TOTALLY changes any ideas I may have had to begin with about how to respond to this message, because I was thinking you were like 16 years old or something. I was going to tell you not to get your hopes up about your first few times being all that great, because they usually aren't, but I truly don't know what to tell you if you are still a virgin at 54 years old, except maybe that your focus now should be on seeing how long you can remain a virgin, and you will have a better chance of getting your name in the record books somehow LOL


myLot reputation of 67/100. multinational37 (334)  2 years ago

I am 16, but I accidentally put in the wrong year :/


myLot reputation of 74/100. goldeneagle (5503)   ranked 329 out of 6,278 in sex  2 years ago

AHHH OK...so we will go with my original response on this one then. Don't get your hopes up about your first few times being anything spectacular, because they probably won't be much to talk about. As a matter of fact, it is probably going to be over before you know it, so make sure to wear a condom. LOL

Don't worry about it, though, because it gets better with experience. Your partner will understand if she knows it is your first time, especially if it is her first time as well...have fun, but do it SAFELY...the LAST thing you need at 16 is a baby to think about...if you don't have a condom, DON'T DO IT, because it isn't worth the risk.


myLot reputation of 67/100. multinational37 (334)  2 years ago

Thanks for the advice. There are some conflicting views on this, because someone said it hurts. (See response above in this discussion).


myLot reputation of 74/100. goldeneagle (5503)   ranked 329 out of 6,278 in sex  2 years ago

I have never really heard of a guy saying that their first time hurt, however, this is common in women from what I understand.

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6. myLot reputation of 24/100. dknkyle (426)   ranked 6,256 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

Well, I'll say it do feel good if only you do it to that someone you really love and also it would be even better if that person loves you too. Don't ever flirt around and do it just for the sake of doing it or for the fun of it, because by doing so, you're sort of degrading yourself and making yourself look 'cheap'.

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7. myLot reputation of 66/100. sonusd (1188)   ranked 546 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

I am a guy so I have experienced that for the first timer it is very difficult to hold our things come fast.
So before you ride your partner just masturbate 10-15 minutes before that will help you to hold your things for some time or else at the time you start riding your lady you will start cu**ng and things will end soon

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8. myLot reputation of 91/100. ybong007 (4482)   ranked 934 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

For the guys it always feel great to get it in. But when i was a virgin, i already come before i can get it in lol. But i'm sure it will hurt because there are women who bleeds. How you lose it is entirely up to you, but i suggest to give it to someone especial. You will only lose it once, make sure you'll have lasting memories about it.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1868)   ranked 32 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

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10. myLot reputation of 35/100. mezulu (119)   ranked 2,448 out of 6,278 in sex   2 years ago

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