Do you have any updates with your old school bully?  

Hi albert,
Luckily, i had never been bullied in school. But i have heard lots of traumatic experiences about being bullied while growing up. This has caused depression for some people in the later part of their lives.

hello albert,

haha i guess even if he will recognize you, he will not mess with you again or he will not bully you again. both of you are mature enough now and i think bullying is just a kid thing!
on my part, well i don't have such experience on school coz i'm always on the safe side. i am not too weak nor too strong during my school days and i was able to develop good relationship with my schoolmates.
with your other classmate, hmm well i guess as human, we really tend to think that way sometimes, but of course we don't wish them to have bad luck...and let's just be thankful that we have a better life now.
i guess its really true that the blessed are those who are bullied?

I have heard about a couple of the people who were mean in school.
Both girls (different schools) had kids when they were still teenagers and were left to cope on their own.
It makes me wonder if they are victims themselves and just pass on the actions to everyone else in a survival of the fittest or pecking order manner.
Not that ,that is an excuse .
The only male bully I can think of was my brother in law who died last year in a motor accident.
My husband always thought of him as the son who got all the lucky breaks but really I think his life was quite artificially portrayed to those outside of it.
Becoming an adult is a great equalizer.

I did that use to torment me growing up they were brothers an if you were not born in this little town they were from you were fair game I moved to this town when I was 11 an they always made fun of me an what made it worse was i was from Boston an the move was to Florida so I spoke with an accent an of course they had a southern accent but any way they made life unbearable an today one of them has beeen burned by his wife an she took everything he had now he is washed up an useing drugs an the other cooks an a burger joint I remeber them again when I married my high school crush an found out they were friends of my hubby's an he introduce me to them I told my hubby I know them an thats all I said the youngest of the 2 said he was sorry the older one the one that is on drugs thinks he did nothing wrong all kids tease other kids is the way he feels

just one..there used to be a girl i went to school with who went out of her way to torment other people.she now has 5 kids who make her life a living hell.
last time i saw her with them,she looked exhausted and very aged.

i guess she's found out how not fun it is to have someone harrassing you,her kids where talking down to her in the store.

hi,

When I was in elementary, I had lots of classmates who used to bully me. One of those was Alvin. We are both staying in same barangay that's why I still have updates regarding with his life today. It so sad to think that he was not able to continue his study. His way of living now is very difficult.