Is friendship with an opposite sex an excuse to flirting?  

for me as long as im not married i would flirt girls,most of my friends are girls. if they want some. i would give them pleasure. As long as im not married. its ok, but if married, no way.. happy blogging.

I used to be in your same situation. If your boyfriend is too nice and too caring to every girl and he seems like flirting, then it is not right. Talk to him about this. I would never let that happen to me again.

Lol, well is this guy a virgin? Or he is just a player that would probably never end up alone? Some men just have a way with the ladies, but I am not sure that's what we have here. I don't know the guy but I got this vibe from you that he's still an immature kid who's being experience his first change of hormones. I would personally not commit to such a guy, if you know what's good for you... but I could be wrong, as I said I don't know the guy.

It would always depend on the person in this situation. Each of us know our limitations so it's always up to us if we'd like to flirt or not or also, if someone would happen to be flirting with us, if we'd respond to it negatively or positively.

We know the consequences of what we do so it doesn't really matter if you're a man or woman here. The important side is, if you give in to the temptation, flirting will really arise. And if you're someone who can be easily carried away, then more temptations would really take place.

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i think that can be an objective of a person but not the meaning of friendship. i think many guys think in the same way. and many dont even then they do flirt. i think the joking between a guy and a girl is a different kind and between two guys are different.if this is done with not a bad intention then this is good. otherwise there is no friendship.

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There are two kinds of relationship. One is friendship and other is friendship-like. As you can see the first kind is the genuine one and the second is not. And most people confuse both.

If one is your friend, you dont flirt with him or her. You are having a very valuable relation which is no where related to flirting.

Since you already know where to draw the line between being friends and flirting, I’m sure you’re matured enough to see the person more than the gender. Above everything else, it’s the strength and commitment of your relation that will see you through, nothing else. If you believe that its all innocent flirting and accept it at that, you’ll not be unnecessarily worried. Also if your bf is like that, then no amount of complaining on your part will ever change him…rather he’ll think of you as a nagging person. You can of course talk to him about your dislikes but I don’t think that will help you very much. Few people like to change just to please somebody else, you know.

I've had a hard time with this myself. I try and keep a tight control over how far 'ha ha funny' goes. Being nice is great, but there's a line somewhere, and I try not to cross it.

As for being married, if I were married, my wife would have a veto on anything at all. Spouse comes first. If she says she's uncomfortable with anything, that that's it. Game over.