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| I think I have a serious problem my Boyfriends brother stays with us now. He does things that tick me a little. I don't know if I have OCD or if I'm some type of neat freak. I have a few things I hate or tick me a lot. Wet Counter Dirty Dishes Sitting on the couch forever Doing nothing while others clean Sleeping during the middle of the day (Not a Nap) Asking people to get things for them etc etc etc etc I don't know I have a big problem or am I a neat freak | | | | | |
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1. palonghorn (4211)
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2 years ago
| | I think the problem is the boyfriend's brother, sounds like he's lazy. As for him sitting around while others clean, hand him a dust rag and tell him to use it. lol I hate wakeing up to a dirty kitchen, so that's usually the last thing I do in the evening. As for him wanting others to get things, tell him, get it yourself. I don't think you have a problem or a neat freak, you just have a lazy house guest. | | | | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Hello Palonghorn, Thank you I thought I was just going crazy, You know what I was talking about one of my friends about it. She will alos be moving in as well she likes him I think she wants to be with him. She says that it's okay because he is paying rent and that wont be very nice if we be mean. Or kick him out. Well I told her that I wasn't going to kick him out. That he needs to be doing something. and not going to the park next to my house and play basketball. So yeah.. Do something more construtive other then sit all day. | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Hello Craydaisy, Yes I agree keeping a house clean is a very big job. It's an extra big job when you have to pick up from people that are really lazy. Believe me I think I'm sort of a neat freak / perfections when I want everything to look a way that I think is nice. Make sure it's prefect and clean all the time. But I love having the house clean n neat makes me feel good. | | | |
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3. dr9rim (176)
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2 years ago
| | he just sounds like a pretty normal kid. how old is he anyway? if he's still a teenager, what you're feeling is probably what parents of a teenage boy feels every day. but if he is old enough to live alone, then he's probably too immature. i think your boyfriend should tell him to clean up after whatever things he did. you are not him mother and sure are not his cleaner. and best to do this soon.. before you really start to hate your boyfriend's brother | | | | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Hey dr9rim, He is 30 years old just turn 30 this year. At first he cleaned and was nice and didn't mind now he doesn't even want to take out the trash. I'm only 18 years old. My mother use to go Crazy if my room wasn't clean my father said to us on before fathers day and his birthday all he wants is a clean house. So my past was a clean one haha.. Lots and lots of cleaning. I don't like how he works when he wants. ( he works under the table jobs) So yeah bad weather no work. but lately he just been sitting all DAY. | | | |
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4. GardenGerty (35331)
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2 years ago
| | I admire you. You seem to manage your house well. It would be a neat freak if you had to do a lot more than these things. What you have listed is just minimum standards of good health and living in a home. How can he afford to pay you rent if he does not work, but only sleeps and plays basketball? It sounds like you have an ungrateful, unhelpful houseguest. | | | | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Thanks GardenGerty, I do try my best to keep my house clean all the time. It's a job really. very hard one sometimes. I just like to get things done. I hate when someone says oh, I will do it later when I ask them to do something. I am different instead of waiting I rather get it down Now then rather waiting later to have something to do when I'm relaxing. Well yeah I agree I think he needs to be more Grateful in the begging he was now.. it's like he is sliding.. off track. | | | |
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5. unique16 (1385)
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2 years ago
| | Hello Payout, I do not think you have neat freak problem. I think you want respect from your boyfriend brother. He should be able to wash the dishes and not sleep all hours of the day. He should be more considerate of you and your time too. Your time is valuable as well. I do not know this guy enough but it sounds like a free loader. I bet you are afriad to talk it over with your boyrfriend or you did and it your message was not heard etc... Just keep trying to get your voice heard. This is your place to you. You want to feel relaxed when you get home as well. Good luck Sincelrey Unique16 | | | | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Hello Unique, Thanks for the response, Yes I told my boyfriend he heard me sort of did but, doesn't take high action. My boyfriend told me one day which got us into a huge fight that, When he comes home he expects to have things clean n the dishes wash and etc. I said well thats exactly what I want.. when I come home. It's fair enough. Yes I want to feel relax. I know myself when something is done n donet not correct then it will drive me mad. haha.. Idk. a little problem of mines. Yes yu pay rent etc etc. but jesus.. yu help create mess so you can help clean it. Simple as that. rules are rules and rules sometimes makes things. Better. | | | |
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| 6. dpickett321 (44)
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2 years ago
| | I don't think a person can be too neat unless it is like the TV show Monk then maybe your a little too neat but no one is too neat plus if you are it keeps the bugs out. | | | | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Hey Dpickett321, Haha yeah the Monk shoe. very funny no I'm not that neat I think he was just afraid of germs or something I don't know but yeah not me. I just like having things neat and clean and always looking neat and clean. So yeah Keeping the bugs out.. helps hahaha.. Well yeah I like to clean when I'm really in the mood. Which is almost always. :P but yeah.. Being neat is ok. n too Neat is not bad haha.. But being like the guy off the Monk show.. BAD lololol | | | |
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7. cher913 (21920)
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2 years ago
| | i am not the neatest person in the world (certainly not a neat freak by any stretch of the imagination) but i do like things neat and tidy for sure. | | | | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Hello Cher913, Yeah I read this before and they have said in studies that people sleep better in a clean house. that they are more happy n healthy people haha.. to me that will have top be very ture because if you start putting 1 and 2 together you start getting facts and facts makes truth and truth is good haha.. haha.. So yeah.. Clean house means nice house nice clean house means better sleep, better sleep means better health better health means. Happy person... Happy people live longer haha.. wow .. being neat and clean can make a big difference. haha | | | |
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8. lingli_78 (12264)
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2 years ago
| | i wouldn't say that i am too neat... but i can be considered as a considerably neat person and i can't stand untidiness as well... i don't like lazy people as well... looks like the problem is not with you but with your boyfriend's brother... he does sound a bit lazy to me... may be you should try to address this problem with your boyfriend and ask him to talk to his brother to come to a solution... take care and have a nice day... | | | | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Hey lingli, Yeah, I think he has got lazy. I guess if you have internet, Tv, Phone, and etc I guess you can get lazy. Since you have all these things in the house. It can make someone pretty lazy. In the beginning things were fine. help. etc etc. now he doesn't even want to take out the trash. just sits and laughs while he watch Tv ticks me OFF. well yeah I talk to him and he talks to him. He does it.. just he eventually just repeats himself all over again. LIKE STOP!!! | | | |
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9. crys7881 (245)
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2 years ago
| | Oh I agree with you on everything that you said bothers you!! But I can admit I am totally OCD!!! lol But honestly it just sounds like your boyfriends brother is lazy!! I would want to scream at him if he was in my house not doing anything for himself and making messes!!! So I would have to say you don't have a serious problem, well maybe the brother is your problem lol but not the wanting things clean and for him to do things himself! | | | | | | |
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2 years ago
| | Hello crys7881, Nice to hear that I'm not alone. Believe me I do want to scream and scream LOUD. it drives me crazy I just want to pull my hair out. or break something. haha.. but I am in control haha. Just when he wash his dish sometimes.. he just leaves water all over the place. then just brups over and over and over and over and over ..... sometimes he will say sorry or excuse me but sometimes he doesn't even care. So yeah one word LAZY. It's like dealing with Bug I have to call someone to get rid of it haha.. | | | |
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10. grecychunny26 (7881)
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2 years ago
| | I am not neat, I am boring and I don’t care what I look like. Maybe you are neat. And it is not good to look at messy things too. it reflects of who you are. I don’t want to see some dishes too at home but I rather not take care of that because I do keep my hands not wet because most of the time I do type. When my room is not organized I clean it but I clean my room like when it is messy I do keep some things. And my room is just small so it is needed to arrange those things inside. | | | | | | |
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