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myLot reputation of 97/100. jonjee0203 (4680) 2 years ago

When you ask some of your friends, " If they had a chance to marry someone else,would they?" besides their current wives; you would be surprised at some of the answers.Some would be tongue-in-cheek, say "you can have my husband or my wife!"

Seriously, not many will choose another new mate.They have got used to their wives and they share a common mutual past, obligations and the family members to drift apart. As such not many divorces occur i traditional families.

So what do you think are the criteria used by spouses in selecting each other. Many say love is the answer. The more practical ones says educational level and income earning capacity of their spouses. The very conservative wants wives from their own ethnic groups.

So what was your criterion in selecting your current mate? If you are not married, tell me your criteria?hugs


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tags:  consideration, lifestyle, patience, spouse selection, wisdom
 
1. myLot reputation of 89/100. snowdoll487 (2965)   2 years ago

His MORALS. :) And his Family Background. I usually do background check on people I like. I am not the type who fall for a good looking guy blindly without checking the facts. :) I mean, if i'm going to spend the rest of my life with this guy, he MUST be worth it. Morally clean. And is responsible, who is from a good family. :)


myLot reputation of 97/100. jonjee0203 (4680)  2 years ago

You are methodical. If you can really do a background check on all your suitors than by deduction you can pick the best that is on the surface. If you are in love, you tend to be more forgiving of past mistakes and sins. You tend to be driven by instinct rather than logic and rationale.

In a way, background checking plays a role but a lot will have to be 'played b year'. thank you for your thoughts.happy

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. vandana7 (6658)   ranked 1 out of 1 in spouse selection   2 years ago

Consideration, patience, and wisdom. :)


myLot reputation of 97/100. jonjee0203 (4680)  2 years ago

Wow, the synthesis of ideal love to be found in a partner. Can we get it all pre-packaged in one? what about the other failings not on your radar of criteria. Can you tolerate those down-side values?suspicioussuspicious


myLot reputation of 92/100. vandana7 (6658)   ranked 1 out of 1 in spouse selection  2 years ago

In my radar, looks dont matter, money doesnt matter, qualifications dont matter, past doesnt matter, mannerisms dont matter. If the person is considerate - then he is kind, he is not cruel. He will also not be money minded. Nor will he stray. So that is a very comprehensive word. :)

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. quita88 (1605)   2 years ago

It's just a matter of all these things rolled into one person or at least several of them.
I think for me the most attractive attribute for a mate is our interests in the same life styles.

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